| 8/15/2008 5:02:44 PM |
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ndriana
Los Angeles, CA
age: 28
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Hi everyone,
I want some suggestion if you can help me.
There are people, especially those at school, that I don't want to see me on this site.
But on the other side, if I don't show who I am (pics, profile and interests), the chance in here is tending to be zero.
May be, it is a common problem. Any suggestion is gonna be appreciated.
Thanks,
[Edited 8/15/2008 5:21:08 PM]
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| 8/15/2008 5:03:50 PM |
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missmmeoftheday
Brooklyn, NY
age: 42
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You can always email your pic to someone if you are interested in them.
You can put some general info into your profile tho; I mean, general is okay. Give people some idea of what you are about. And post in the forums... let them know you and have reason to be interested in finding out more about you. good luck!
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| 8/15/2008 5:06:37 PM |
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nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43 online now!
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Send your picture with your first email. Only issue......you will have issues if someone is looking for you.
I am a business professional. I have seen many of my peers on different sites. Online dating is very popular now. What are you so afraid of?????? If they see you on here, they are here too!!
[Edited 8/15/2008 5:07:21 PM]
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| 8/15/2008 5:08:43 PM |
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g_d77
Watertown, NY
age: 30
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Who the hell cares if you have pics on here or not? Some idiots at a school? You're 27 for god's sake...act like a man! 
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| 8/15/2008 5:09:39 PM |
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tater79
Springfield, IL
age: 29
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You can always email your pic to someone if you are interested in them.
You can put some general info into your profile tho; I mean, general is okay. Give people some idea of what you are about. And post in the forums... let them know you and have reason to be interested in finding out more about you. good luck!
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| 8/15/2008 5:14:44 PM |
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fredricko
Pico Rivera, CA
age: 49
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who are the other people other than the ones at school that you dont want to see you on this site
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| 8/15/2008 5:15:26 PM |
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ret7
Westerville, OH
age: 49
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I understand your situation. I think that the main way you will be affected by not having a picture is not in the forums....but if women are doing a search. I rarely ever do a search...but when I do...I don't usually take the time to look at those without a picture as there are so many pages to go through.
Your best bet would be to search yourself and do as suggested above....send a picture with the first email. I've communicated with many men who don't have a picture..but as soon as we start emailing...they send one.
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| 8/15/2008 5:15:30 PM |
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ndriana
Los Angeles, CA
age: 28
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Thanks
May be I am too careful.
Okay, waht the hell. The more I hesitate, the longer I'll stay. I'll do it. Thank you guys
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| 8/15/2008 5:18:07 PM |
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ndriana
Los Angeles, CA
age: 28
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who are the other people other than the ones at school that you dont want to see you on this site
People from my country, I had hundred of friends and they all keep an eye on me. Everything I do, I always here it from other friend
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| 8/15/2008 5:20:10 PM |
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power2theq
Inglewood, CA
age: 21 online now!
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Hi everyone,
I want some suggestion if you can help me.
There are people, especially those at school, that I don't want to see me on this site.
But on the other side, if I don't show who I am (pics, profile and interests), the chance in here is tending to be zero.
May be, it is a common problem. Any suggestion is gonna be apreciated.
Thanks,
Wait, why don't you want anyone to see you again?
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| 8/15/2008 5:30:34 PM |
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ndriana
Los Angeles, CA
age: 28
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Hi everyone,
I want some suggestion if you can help me.
There are people, especially those at school, that I don't want to see me on this site.
But on the other side, if I don't show who I am (pics, profile and interests), the chance in here is tending to be zero.
May be, it is a common problem. Any suggestion is gonna be apreciated.
Thanks,
Wait, why don't you want anyone to see you again?
Not anyone,
My professors, classmates, ... a lot
I need a little privacy when talking about love.
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| 8/15/2008 5:32:32 PM |
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missmmeoftheday
Brooklyn, NY
age: 42
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"I need a little privacy when talking about love"...
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| 8/15/2008 5:35:38 PM |
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pichick712
Brookhaven, PA
age: 50 online now!
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If you find someone u want to write to - send her an email and attach your pic.
Winking does no good when u r a gray shadow.
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| 8/15/2008 5:44:08 PM |
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chicaboom58
North Bergen, NJ
age: 59
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Hi everyone,
I want some suggestion if you can help me.
There are people, especially those at school, that I don't want to see me on this site.
But on the other side, if I don't show who I am (pics, profile and interests), the chance in here is tending to be zero.
May be, it is a common problem. Any suggestion is gonna be appreciated.
Thanks,
Make sure your profile tells who you are, what your looking for, likes dislikes. Then when you make a connection, send your picture directly to them. I have asked numerous guys who are shadows to send me a picture, in most cases they do. Those who don't then are obviously hidding something. 
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| 8/15/2008 6:04:43 PM |
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luckyno7
Georgetown, FL
age: 53
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I can understand your privacy issue, and I felt the same way at first. You might want to post a picture that does not show your face up close and then post other pictures that show your face in your profile under other pictures. Or you can do as another suggested, by emailing a picture upon request but state in your profile that you will send along a picture if someone is interested. Note that allot of people surfing or searching will search for pictures/profiles only. Good luck with whatever you decide and what you feel comfortable with.
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