As a single mom, I didn't have any offers while I was pregnant, but my best friend did. For curiosity sake, I was wondering if anyone would date a girl who was pregnant. Serious relationship seeking or other wise.and girls, I wasn't into dating while pregnant, but how many of you were, or would be?

didnt you say "date a pregnate woman?" Dating is not sex, its not having to have sex, dating is dating so y not? i swear sometimes i think im way behind the times because a date or dating is not meaning you have to have sex? right?? huh? huh? huh?

Makes, the first line of my reply states, I'm not here to make a moral judgement.

I then go on to ask specific questions that are based upon education and finances. Although there are always exceptions, it is proven that teenage pregancy is a big indicator that you will not finish high school or just go through high school without any higher education. This scenario is typically deemed the "working poor". This group constitutes those who are minimally educated, working low paying jobs that do not or barely provide enough to make ends meet. "If" the girl marries the father of the child who is generally not much older he also tends to less educated with a low paying job too. FYI, there is a high divorce rate amongst these couples because they don't have the experience or maturity to handle a baby along with the stress of not having enough money. Often, they do NOT have health insurance which means they do NOT get preventative healthcare OR are UNinsured which mean people like myself and other taxpayers are footing the cost.

I'm working off of many years experience and statistics. There are always exceptions but they tend to be far and few between UNLESS someone is mentoring and guiding these women. I'm curious if you would be good enough to answer the questions I posed.

Where are you and your baby living? An apt or with your family?
What is your level of education?
Are you seeking additional education via college or a technical school to acquire the skills to earn enough to care for your child?
What is the level of education of your child's fathers and what type of work is he doing?

Of course you have the right and choice to answer or not to answer.

I'm in the financial services field and also volunteer to speak to women in various stages of divorce with their finances. I'm also involved in animal rescue. Although, I'm big hearted and believe in giving back to those who are in need ie: those who are mentally impaired or truly ill. However, it irks me as a taxpayer that I'm having to pay for people that make foolish choices that cost us all.