| 8/20/2008 9:27:42 PM |
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chillymack51
Atlanta, GA
age: 50
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? Do you women prefer a strong man who can endure the trials of life or a man who just gives up on himself?
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| 8/20/2008 9:31:51 PM |
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tater79
Springfield, IL
age: 29
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? Do you women prefer a strong man who can endure the trials of life or a man who just gives up on himself?
I think it is obvious, but I think it could be a very good topic, if you give some for instances. but to anwser the question directly, A emotionally strong man when he neeeds to be and when she needs him to be. but has to have emotions during the regular parts of the relationship.
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| 8/20/2008 9:43:47 PM |
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beachluva23
Seaside Heights, NJ
age: 49
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That's a stupid question. Don't you have anything else to post?
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| 8/20/2008 9:47:54 PM |
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xlibra75x
Gateway, AR
age: 32
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That's a stupid question. Don't you have anything else to post?
 
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| 8/20/2008 9:51:33 PM |
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pwin_here_n_now
Annapolis, MD
age: 38
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Tater:
Interesting the way you put it. To me a strong man is one who can be himself vulnerabilities and strengths... just be himself and allow me to be me... accepting all...
That is a strong man.
Jmo....
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| 8/20/2008 10:07:14 PM |
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chillymack51
Atlanta, GA
age: 50
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In regards to those who chose to comment on the question in regards to the strong man, just imagine yourself supporting a man who cant support himself. For instance an alcoholic, drug addict, or even an emotionally disturbed individual, can you accept such a person into your life or should you give him the boot?
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| 8/20/2008 10:10:29 PM |
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chillymack51
Atlanta, GA
age: 50
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look into the mirror cowboy, what do you see?
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| 8/20/2008 10:15:46 PM |
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lillibet
New South Wales
Australia
age: 51
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well this is a tough one but here goes..My exhusband had no backbone my brother became terrible alchoholic he too has no backbone.My ex boyfriend had no backbone and so i am guessing after all that this time round I want a man who has some inner strength....It gets too hard carrying the load all the time and having to pay the price for their weaknesses.....  
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| 8/20/2008 10:59:12 PM |
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jbnoosaheads
Queensland
Australia
age: 55
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men we all go through sad times and feeling down you will kick back all in time.
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| 8/20/2008 11:07:39 PM |
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klassyklown
Bakersfield, CA
age: 39
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? Do you women prefer a strong man who can endure the trials of life or a man who just gives up on himself?
I think it is obvious, but I think it could be a very good topic, if you give some for instances. but to anwser the question directly, A emotionally strong man when he neeeds to be and when she needs him to be. but has to have emotions during the regular parts of the relationship. Tater, how did you get so smart? Strong, and soft and confident.
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| 8/20/2008 11:13:35 PM |
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bry11ca
Lewisville, TX
age: 43
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I allowed myself to wither once. I think I wanted things to fail so I could start fresh. Well, I got to start fresh and I like myself a heck of a lot more now and I will never allow myself to wither again.
I like what pwin said, too, about vulnerabilities and even limitations. If you can be comfortable with them it is very enabling. It also puts you in a better position to be able to use your engenuity to overcome your challenges.
Bry 
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| 8/20/2008 11:37:47 PM |
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browneyz
San Diego, CA
age: 56
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My idea of a strong man is a man that can allow himself to be vulnrable. allow hmself to listen to the needs of others, to lead when needed, to comfort, to defend and support his family and loved ones. Do what needs to be done He does not have to be tall, but he has to have a big heart.
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| 8/20/2008 11:52:56 PM |
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th6231
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 60
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Why would a man OR a woman want a weak individual?? as a partner. I would certainly like to have an equal by my side. I get paid to solve peoples problems--it is my job to think and act as a problem solver. But that doesn't make me any stronger than the next guy. I just enjoy the challenges my job brings. Women can do the same in their own way--I would appreciate that trait in a woman. Be self sufficient and stand tall. There are a lot of lost souls who just "eek" by in life--GOD must protect them...but I can't be with a person who is helpless.
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| 8/21/2008 4:37:18 AM |
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chellenc2008
Clayton, NC
age: 40
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? Do you women prefer a strong man who can endure the trials of life or a man who just gives up on himself?
I think it is obvious, but I think it could be a very good topic, if you give some for instances. but to anwser the question directly, A emotionally strong man when he neeeds to be and when she needs him to be. but has to have emotions during the regular parts of the relationship.
i like the way you put that
"In regards to those who chose to comment on the question in regards to the strong man, just imagine yourself supporting a man who cant support himself. For instance an alcoholic, drug addict, or even an emotionally disturbed individual, can you accept such a person into your life or should you give him the boot?"
he would have to help himself first, basically care about himself before he can care about anyone else...a person like this is not ready to be involved in a relationship
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| 8/21/2008 4:55:08 AM |
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nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43
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? Do you women prefer a strong man who can endure the trials of life or a man who just gives up on himself?
I think it is obvious, but I think it could be a very good topic, if you give some for instances. but to anwser the question directly, A emotionally strong man when he neeeds to be and when she needs him to be. but has to have emotions during the regular parts of the relationship.
Totally agree.......and the same stands for a woman.
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