| 8/26/2008 3:08:00 PM |
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tonia0028
Grafton, OH
age: 39
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I'm in a small town (Grafton/Eaton Township), and all there seems to be a round here are drunks. How far out of this town do I have to go to find a decent man? Ok maybe there might be a few in this town that are worth dating, but where are they?   
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| 8/26/2008 4:38:45 PM |
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dm822
Eastlake, OH
age: 42
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How about 41 miles?????
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| 8/26/2008 4:55:35 PM |
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sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 45
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That's not a wine glass in your hand is it tonia?!?
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| 8/26/2008 5:09:51 PM |
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tonia0028
Grafton, OH
age: 39
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Actually it is. Making a toast to my uncles up coming wedding. Is that a problem?
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| 8/26/2008 5:15:49 PM |
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sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 45
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Nope, not at all !! 
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| 8/26/2008 6:23:57 PM |
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dm822
Eastlake, OH
age: 42
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Nothing like having a toast.... and then some 
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| 8/26/2008 8:54:43 PM |
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drbubbles
Minford, OH
age: 68
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Well, Tonia, I have been looking probably a lot longer than you for a decent man so I speak with a lot of experience --it can be a fight but I think it has to start with the right stuff in the profile and than the constant reminder that you mean what you say in the profile--You know the old saying about you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find the prince was meant to be a joke but is probably an exact description about the quest to find a decent man. The big problem lies in the fact that too many folks put what people want to hear in their profiles which just doesn't work in finding what you want--the reality is I guess if you don't keep pounding home who you are and what you want, you will end us with something less. There are some great men out there who just want honesty and sincerity just as you do--bad news is there are a lot who aren't--so just keep the faith--you will find that special, decent man. So enjoying kissing those frogs knowing one may be your prince. Mary
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| 8/26/2008 8:58:59 PM |
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thaiprincess21
Blacklick, OH
age: 38
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Funny I live in Columbus and I haven't found a decent man yet!!!!
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| 8/26/2008 9:11:55 PM |
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snides20
Mingo Junction, OH
age: 28
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the decent men live in eastlake and mingo did i say that
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| 8/26/2008 10:04:46 PM |
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smilingbob63
Barberton, OH
age: 46
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and I guess they don't live in cuyahoga falls
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| 8/26/2008 10:07:46 PM |
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cantonguy31
Canton, OH
age: 33
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Wear a shirt that shows your chest really well...you'll find a decent man right away
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| 8/26/2008 10:39:26 PM |
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snides20
Mingo Junction, OH
age: 28
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and I guess they don't live in cuyahoga falls
oh yeah and 1 from the caucasion falls i use to live in barberton
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| 8/26/2008 11:12:52 PM |
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bloopbeep
Dayton, OH
age: 23
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Looking sometimes help. But clearly that's not the case, seeing as that's clearly not working for me right now. Maybe there's some kind of detector people can use to detect people that will have a mutual interest.
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| 8/27/2008 9:21:51 AM |
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ohfirefighter
Findlay, OH
age: 33
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<~~~~~Is in Findlay and doesn't drink 
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| 8/27/2008 11:21:48 AM |
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thaiprincess21
Blacklick, OH
age: 38
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Well I was on Vacation in Miami Beach, FL. My family has a condo there. Anyways, I met a guy on DH that lives in MB,FL. We met the first night I arrived. We hit it off very well. We are now dating. I can't believe I had to go all the way to Florida to find a decent man.
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| 8/27/2008 3:02:10 PM |
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dm822
Eastlake, OH
age: 42
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Seems the 41 miles is a bit to far .............................
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| 8/27/2008 3:12:21 PM |
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tonia0028
Grafton, OH
age: 39
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Just a little bit, sorry.
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| 8/28/2008 4:46:27 AM |
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1940mybuddy
Columbus Grove, OH
age: 69
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keep trying
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| 8/28/2008 6:51:31 PM |
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alloutoflove
Kent, OH
age: 43
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Really now I have been looking for so long to find that decent man to spend the rest of my life with but it seems that because I smoke thats a big problem for alot of men. I mean if I found the right gentlemen and really got to care for him I would consider quitting with his support. But I mean its not whats on the outside that matters its whats in the heart that counts. Yeah it is bad for you but so are alot of other things as well. Its almost like your being discriminated against because you have a bad habit.. But anyhow I know that there is someone out there for everyone its just a matter of finding them....
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| 8/28/2008 6:52:57 PM |
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cowgirllizzy
Urbana, OH
age: 25
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Keep looking and keep going through the frogs to find our prince...I know a cliche
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| 8/28/2008 8:58:43 PM |
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bloopbeep
Dayton, OH
age: 23
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Really now I have been looking for so long to find that decent man to spend the rest of my life with but it seems that because I smoke thats a big problem for alot of men. I mean if I found the right gentlemen and really got to care for him I would consider quitting with his support. But I mean its not whats on the outside that matters its whats in the heart that counts. Yeah it is bad for you but so are alot of other things as well. Its almost like your being discriminated against because you have a bad habit.. But anyhow I know that there is someone out there for everyone its just a matter of finding them....
But smoking affects a lot of other people too. I have asthma and get massive headaches when I'm around where smoke is or recently was. I know I'm not the only one, so that's going to be a problem with a lot of people just that alone. It's not just a bad habit... it's something that will affect whoever is around and that does suck. Not only does it hit people, but it smells and clings to clothes and hair and all kinds of stuff too, so it's kind of a bit more than a simple bad habit.
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| 8/29/2008 11:48:03 AM |
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msbevzie
Oregon, OH
age: 46
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Have patience, know what you want, he will come along. But yes like the saying goes you have to kiss alot of toads to find the handsome prince. Then you have to be careful he's not a handsome charmer prince, he'll win you over and then stomp on your heart.
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| 8/29/2008 12:22:07 PM |
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tonia0028
Grafton, OH
age: 39
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I'm just sick of being the 5th wheel when I go out with friends. 
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| 8/29/2008 1:49:10 PM |
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gamergirl80
Ottawa, OH
age: 29
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I'm right there with ya girls. I realize I haven't been looking as long as some, but my experiences just haven't lead me to any good guys. Where I'm at is seemingly well known for its love of all kinds of alcohol, and I don't drink or smoke. I can't be around smoking either, I get very nauseous and have a hard time breathing.
I also hear so many guys around me saying they want a girl like me (likes video games, football, movies, doesn't drink or smoke, and isn't your typical girl) but I'm looked over, every time. Is it b/c I'm a bit overweight? shy? or b/c I don't belong in the "pretty" people category?
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| 8/29/2008 2:27:41 PM |
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pryvatencounter
Fairborn, OH
age: 48
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Gamergirl - - you probably hit on something. Do you realize how much you just put yourself down? (I am NOT hitting on you) But you seem like a very pretty girl and a bit tomboyish, which should appeal to a lot of guys.
My opinion - - girls are just like guys - a couple of rejections or a dry spell, and you start thinking that you're not worthy. Hold your heads up and learn to have fun, regardless of whether you're on a date or not. Your attitude will start to attract the better fish. And if they don't come, then you're making yourself better anyway. Hold your head high and the self esteem will follow.
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| 8/29/2008 2:33:31 PM |
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horsinnurse
Yorkshire, OH
age: 33
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girl if you find out let me know i have kissed alot of toads but i have also met some great new friends on the internet. i am going to change my profile to say i work at mcdonalds cause everyone i meet just thinks i have money cause i am a nurse.
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| 8/29/2008 2:52:22 PM |
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gamergirl80
Ottawa, OH
age: 29
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To pryvatencounter
How is saying I'm shy or overweight downplaying myself? It's just two facts about me, that I realize could play a part in why I'm overlooked. I can see where you would see that my saying I'm unattractive could be puttying myself down. I don't see it that way really. I accept the fact that I'm not one of the "pretty" people, it doesn't bother me, I'm happy with the way I am. I'm not going to change myself for someone else to like me, I played that role in Jr. High(or Middle School) and I was so unhappy. So I just went back to being me. It's what life has taught me, what I've been told by many many people through out my life. Family, friends, ex's, random people i don't know. The fact that all the guys who have ever asked me out have begged b/c "everyone else has said no." Life has taught me so far that the saying "its whats on the inside that matters," while true... is also false. Of the people I've been around in my life I have never seen a guy (or girl for that matter) say "hey that person looks like they are really beautiful on the inside, I'm going to go ask them out to get to know them." I can see where that's putting myself down. But You don't see the fact that I -love- the person I am. I'm a caring, honest, fun loving girl... who is anything but the norm and incredibly beautiful on the inside.
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| 8/29/2008 3:12:48 PM |
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pryvatencounter
Fairborn, OH
age: 48
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Gamer - - chill... I'm a friend here. But you DID put yourself down. I wasn't reacting to the "shy" comment. I was referring to you saying you weren't one of the pretty people. While very few of us are the movie star types, you are anything but ugly. I just feel bad for people who say, "well, I guess I'm not pretty enough."
Some of the most attractive people I've ever seen are the people that enjoy themselves and enjoy life and let it show! They may not be 5'8" blondes with 125# figures, but the way they handle themselves is beautiful. You said that you love yourself - and that's great! You should!
People don't enjoy the journey because they are so focused on the destination. Girls and guys alike should just hang loose and enjoy life - the right person will appear.
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| 8/29/2008 3:29:08 PM |
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gamergirl80
Ottawa, OH
age: 29
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pryvatencounter - I'm sorry if I came wrong. I didn't mean to come across so angry/defensive. I know you're just being friendly, and I totally understand where you're coming from. I think it's sad too when people don't think they are pretty enough, sadder yet when that is what life experiences have taught them. That's what life has taught me so far, but I don't let it get me down. I'm just looking for a guy to prove me wrong in what life has taught me. (If that makes sense) Again I'm sorry I came across so harshly.
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| 8/29/2008 6:22:13 PM |
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geestring
Medway, OH
age: 53
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Well, Tonia, I have been looking probably a lot longer than you for a decent man so I speak with a lot of experience --it can be a fight but I think it has to start with the right stuff in the profile and than the constant reminder that you mean what you say in the profile--You know the old saying about you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find the prince was meant to be a joke but is probably an exact description about the quest to find a decent man. The big problem lies in the fact that too many folks put what people want to hear in their profiles which just doesn't work in finding what you want--the reality is I guess if you don't keep pounding home who you are and what you want, you will end us with something less. There are some great men out there who just want honesty and sincerity just as you do--bad news is there are a lot who aren't--so just keep the faith--you will find that special, decent man. So enjoying kissing those frogs knowing one may be your prince. Mary
Thank you finally someone who makes sense....
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| 8/30/2008 5:27:48 PM |
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nascar64
Dayton, OH
age: 46
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ever try accepting a drink,
just funnin
good luck
[Edited 8/30/2008 5:29:07 PM PST]
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| 8/30/2008 5:38:41 PM |
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yournewbff
Youngstown, OH
age: 57
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Good question. I guess it would help to not work so hard and to have the time to look Might find someone.
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| 9/1/2008 4:53:05 PM |
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bigdaddy45011
Hamilton, OH
age: 24
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to find a decent man dont sleep with them the first nite
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| 9/1/2008 5:29:14 PM |
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newdirection6
Wellsville, OH
age: 55
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I'm still looking for a decent man in Columbiana County.
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| 9/1/2008 6:54:03 PM |
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drbubbles
Minford, OH
age: 68
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Hey, thanks for those Kudos--had really hoped that I had accumulated some wisdom after all those years accompanied by a lot of relationships which lead to more than my share of wrinkles. Again Thanks Dr Bubbles--Mary
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| 9/1/2008 7:21:26 PM |
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elaineb
Akron, OH
age: 54
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Did you ever get an answer to this question????
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| 9/1/2008 7:57:36 PM |
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brunettebabe19
Powell, OH
age: 21
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Seriously what the f**k... I live in Ohio and always have had trouble meeting the right kinds of people. I have dated my fair share of losers and im sick of it.... Are there any decent men left in this world I really hope so because i want a real relationship and want to be loved and love back!!! Please help!! I feel hopeless like i should give up i mean what is so wrong about me?????
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| 9/2/2008 6:48:29 AM |
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willowgrove1
Cincinnati, OH
age: 52
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Well, Tonia, I have been looking probably a lot longer than you for a decent man so I speak with a lot of experience --it can be a fight but I think it has to start with the right stuff in the profile and than the constant reminder that you mean what you say in the profile--You know the old saying about you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find the prince was meant to be a joke but is probably an exact description about the quest to find a decent man. The big problem lies in the fact that too many folks put what people want to hear in their profiles which just doesn't work in finding what you want--the reality is I guess if you don't keep pounding home who you are and what you want, you will end us with something less. There are some great men out there who just want honesty and sincerity just as you do--bad news is there are a lot who aren't--so just keep the faith--you will find that special, decent man. So enjoying kissing those frogs knowing one may be your prince. Mary
Maybe that is why some women find it diffcult to find that decent man they are looking for. Kissing frogs?
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| 9/2/2008 8:22:51 PM |
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lickalotapuss77
Columbus, OH
age: 35
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WWW.LOWERD-EXPECTIONS.COM
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| 9/2/2008 8:52:24 PM |
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sandyr
Warren, OH
age: 49
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ive been looking for that decaent man to for yrs. like she said where r they? u get lied to and make plans that never stick. is that a decent man. ive been in west virginia and i am now in ohio for the last 8 yrs and still havent find him. so now where is he? the only decent one i had was my ex husband and the bars came between that marriage on both parts. but more him. it was ok for the guy to be there but not me. well it is supposed to be 50/50 not a 90/10 in a relationship. if anyone finds the right guy please let me know so maybe i can go there to.
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| 9/2/2008 9:21:21 PM |
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sandyr
Warren, OH
age: 49
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if there wasnt so many horny men out there hell the way i look at it i love sex but it isnt evrything in life. there r other things in life to do then that. but there is alot of guys i talk to and that is all they talk about or they want u to do things on cam. they r sick perverts. but a good decent guy and a woman is hard to find. not that i am looking for a woman. but somewhere he is out there just havent found it yet.
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| 9/2/2008 9:34:42 PM |
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sandyr
Warren, OH
age: 49
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Brunettebabe there isnt anything wrong with u. alot of them think they r better then everyone else and they have there pics. ive talked to guys on here and nothing. i am on pentyoffish to and ill tell u what no matter how good u treat them or whatever they just dont give a damn. one day they will wonder why they past good women like us up and then it will be to late cause of there stupid shit we arent going to want anything to do with them. i am about done and going to give up soon if the right one doesnt come around. we r probably better off by ourselves anyway. no offense guys. i mean we really try and doesnt do any good. they read ur profile and then it is like the hell with u. no they dont even want to give u a chance. hell one date is better then nothing. u can find alot out about someone on one date. but they need to give u at least a chance.
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| 9/3/2008 11:45:39 AM |
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dm822
Eastlake, OH
age: 42
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Really now I have been looking for so long to find that decent man to spend the rest of my life with but it seems that because I smoke thats a big problem for alot of men. I mean if I found the right gentlemen and really got to care for him I would consider quitting with his support. But I mean its not whats on the outside that matters its whats in the heart that counts. Yeah it is bad for you but so are alot of other things as well. Its almost like your being discriminated against because you have a bad habit.. But anyhow I know that there is someone out there for everyone its just a matter of finding them....
Smoking is not a problem for me since I smoke. But if you sre being judged on smoking or non smoking them I think that maybe you might want to skip them and move on. Seems pretty shallow to not like someone or give them a chance just because of a habit that they choose or is a considred a bad one.
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| 9/3/2008 11:48:29 AM |
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dm822
Eastlake, OH
age: 42
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girl if you find out let me know i have kissed alot of toads but i have also met some great new friends on the internet. i am going to change my profile to say i work at mcdonalds cause everyone i meet just thinks i have money cause i am a nurse.
I get the same think I own a business so I guess I am loaded
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| 9/3/2008 1:19:40 PM |
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sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 45
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You mean you're not loaded DM? Dammit anyways!!!
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| 9/3/2008 1:27:40 PM |
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justintime448
Ravenna, OH
age: 29
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there are a lot of decent guys in ravenna but i am sure you have the same where you are you just have to look
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| 9/3/2008 3:57:52 PM |
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tonia0028
Grafton, OH
age: 39
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Did you ever get an answer to this question????
Not really!! Just the kissing frogs advice, I've kissed a lot of frogs and I'm tired of kissing them!
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| 9/3/2008 6:47:49 PM |
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nailnender75180
Senecaville, OH
age: 46
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Just do what they say and agree
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| 9/4/2008 2:49:25 PM |
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tonia0028
Grafton, OH
age: 39
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Just do what they say and agree
Sounds like nailnender is controlling, and doesn't like big girls...hmmmmm
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| 9/4/2008 5:02:18 PM |
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sb1229
Cleveland, OH
age: 45
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Just do what they say and agree
For the first ten minutes anyway!!!
nail
[Edited 9/4/2008 5:02:31 PM PST]
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| 9/4/2008 9:39:01 PM |
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kenymale44
Kent, OH
age: 46
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well i have been here and i tryed to talk to you before but you didn't even give me the time of day and i am a true nice guy i am not saying that i the greatest guy in the world but i am not to far down on the list of being the nicest guy i don't understand why you haven't talked to me whats up with that lol
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| 9/5/2008 7:11:34 PM |
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drbubbles
Minford, OH
age: 68
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Thanks MSLORI-- the advice comes from my 'many years of experience'--I tell it like it is my profile--probably keeps me from getting a lot of emails but there are still those players who respond who either think they can change my mind, trick me into believing they are what I have always been looking for, or see it as a challenge to conquer--so since gigging them player frogs is illegal, kissing them til you find the right one--the decent man--seems like our only recourse (men have the same problem finding decent women) and the comments about lack of response to decent men--I have found most decent men to be a little shy--which means their profiles may not be eye-catching, so don't write them off--give them a chance to get to know you and that decent man might emerge--Most of you are mucher younger than I so if I can take the time to wait, so can you Mary
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| 9/5/2008 8:47:22 PM |
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brunettebabe19
Powell, OH
age: 21
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I am very sad and depressed.... I want to find my true love and fall in
love. I have been treated like shit by just about all men that have entered
my life from being cheated on,lied to used, and abused and i just feel so
worthless. I just dont know what the f**k to believe anymore... I hated
highschool and am so glad i graduated people can be so creul just because
your different than the rest of society... I got made fun of and tortured
so much i tried to commit suicide by overdosing... but i guess i didnt take
enough... but im pretty sure there was no possible way i could have taken
more... ugh i am so depressed just because i dont look like the majority of
societys women, beautiful anerexic blonde... im sorry =( i have alot of
curves and am brunette and am blessed in some areas... ugh i feel like i
should give up on finding a good man, i wish i was a little kid again
skinned knees are easier to fix than a broken heart into a million little
pieces... sometimes i wish i wasnt here and me trying to kill myself
worked... Finding a good man is nearly impossible.... please if there are
any decent men left let me know.... im sick of hurting baby.... =(  
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| 9/5/2008 8:49:39 PM |
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buckeyesfan70
Atwater, OH
age: 39
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where can i find a descent girl that dont lie cheat or steal
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| 9/5/2008 10:31:42 PM |
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lovinbut
Fort Dodge, IA
age: 31
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Just be honest. I think if he knows that his sincerity will show you he loves you. He should know a beautiful smile when he sees one.
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| 9/6/2008 1:52:27 AM |
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godskygirl
Massillon, OH
age: 49
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I don't know because i am looking for a decent man to
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| 9/6/2008 1:54:49 AM |
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godskygirl
Massillon, OH
age: 49
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i don't know where you but do you know where massilllon is skygirl1129@[blocked]
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| 9/7/2008 9:50:30 AM |
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minmin24
Grove City, OH
age: 25
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well i have lived in orient, ashville, grove city and groveport lol and im still single??
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| 9/14/2008 4:49:32 PM |
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lovinbut
Fort Dodge, IA
age: 31
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Call him on the phone
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| 9/14/2008 6:14:03 PM |
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tonia0028
Grafton, OH
age: 39
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Call him on the phone
Yeah and now I just have to wait for him to give me his phone number.
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