9/6/2007 8:27:34 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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A close friend of mine was telling me about a girl he met and what took place. It still amazes me how some can reduce themselves to being this desperate. My friend travels for work, and on occasion might hook up with a girl while out of town. He was a little over 4 hours from his hometown and ended up hoooking up with the one of the girls that worked at the hotel. Since he has been back home she has called him, emailed him, and one weekend she even showed up in his hometown and got a room, though he wouldnt go meet her that time.
He was clear with her that this was just fun and that he didnt want anything serious and yet she would follow him to where he lives. Why are some that desperate??
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9/6/2007 8:31:10 AM |
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hamandbeans
Reading, MI
age: 42
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Well just a thought but some of us feel that sex is a commitment and not just a sport.
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9/6/2007 8:32:18 AM |
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looking4you1972
Tulsa, OK
age: 35
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im not sure maybe she is is so lonely she cant help it
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9/6/2007 8:39:59 AM |
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angelleyes
Plymouth, MA
age: 34
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sunds like a she has issues...
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9/6/2007 8:40:08 AM |
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thepkk
Springfield, MO
age: 52
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a little bit of what both hama and looking said mixed together. he may had said something and she understood it the way she wanted and thought it was a realationship.
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9/6/2007 8:40:50 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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I do realize that some thing of sex as a commitment but if you know on the front end that that is all the other is wanting, it does seem desperate to chase them down...(JMO)
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9/6/2007 8:45:36 AM |
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bbw_beauty
Flowery Branch, GA
age: 41
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The fact that he gave her his phone number and email address when he'd just met her for a hook up at a motel might have given her the impression there was more to it than just a one night stand. I assume if someone gives me their personal phone number they actually WANT me to call. Showing up and getting a motel room was a bit over the top but sounds to me like he gave her some indication that there would be more than just a one night thing.
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9/6/2007 8:47:30 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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As far as the phone calls and emails I dont think that is desperate. The thing that got me was that she drove over 4 hours to his town, got the hotel room, and then called him and asked when he was coming by... He was like WTF
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9/6/2007 8:52:44 AM |
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lovinglife437
Meadville, PA
age: 44
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People in general seem to be very lonely... and many do some variation of this "chase" or cry for attention, seeking something to make them happy instead of realizing they have to make themselves happy first. Call it needy, desperate, childish, I've heard it labeled many things here. To me, this is the same as one who writes and writes and writes even though you've told them you have no interest; or the seemingly daily fight-picking threads which is just another variation of getting attention; or posting continuous threads that don't really say anything, it's like "look at me! look at me!"... (and no I'm not referring to you, you write good threads; I'm referring to some of the more ridiculous ones I've seen in the past). I see these things and I just think "if you only knew you didn't have to do this...."
Some need to see their own value first before others can see it too. That's my point I guess.
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9/6/2007 8:54:21 AM |
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justaguyhere
Martinsville, VA
age: 56
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your friend musta put the mojo on her
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9/6/2007 8:55:22 AM |
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justaguyhere
Martinsville, VA
age: 56
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damn i;d love to put my mojo on the pkk she rocks
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9/6/2007 8:57:09 AM |
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thepkk
Springfield, MO
age: 52
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come on put the mojo on. LOL
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9/6/2007 8:59:09 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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maybe he did put the mojo on her but as a woman and one who has loved and lost before I am not ever going to chase any man for any reason. The way I see it if he needs to be chased he isnt worth having. (JMO)
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9/6/2007 9:00:03 AM |
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littlelilly2
Sturgeon Bay, WI
age: 46
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OOOOOh pkk this may be your lucky day!!!!xoxoxox
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9/6/2007 9:01:15 AM |
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littlelilly2
Sturgeon Bay, WI
age: 46
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I so agree with you repo I would never take it upon myself to hunt someone down that is desparate...
Dont know that Id even make more than 1 phone call if # was given....Any one serious about wanting to be together will contact you come hell or high water!!!
[Edited 9/6/2007 9:03:01 AM]
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