| 9/9/2007 5:25:55 AM |
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smokybare
Dardanelle, AR
age: 45
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Why is it so hard to find a just sex partner,no committment,no relationship,no baggage,just somone you can call on when your horny?
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| 9/9/2007 6:23:25 AM |
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truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 51
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I can't speak for all women, but I have been married 2 times neglected by my first husband most of the marriage, 19 yrs, abused by the second, 6 month, and my last relationship the boyfriend drank, neglected me and his teenage daughter, I ended up with custody of her. I want someone to support me in what I do, willing to have a monagomous relationship, and sense of humor, to be loyal,if only sex is involved there is no sense of security, doesn't have to be a clinging thing just knowing he'll be there also for the rough times and not just the fun.
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| 9/9/2007 6:33:31 AM |
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floridianfornow
Mansfield, OH
age: 41
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Thats like asking for your paycheck and telling them you dont want to work!!
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| 9/9/2007 11:18:35 AM |
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smokybare
Dardanelle, AR
age: 45
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Ok Look at it like this, I see it as a win win for the guy and the girl,she calls you,you call her it dosen't matter maybe your busy or sick or just not in the mood its ok maybe you meet someone and dont feel right about it so you stop...6 months down the road it falls apart who do ya call...good ol f*ck buddy thats who. I see no harm no foul,as long as you know what it is and where it's going it makes me wonder why more people dont do it.
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| 9/9/2007 11:22:55 AM |
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yankeerose68
Haines City, FL
age: 39
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I have had my Friend with benefits since 2002. He calls when he wants it and I call him
when I want it. The thing is my firend and I only get together if neither one is dating someone...It all works for me..he gives me what I need when i need it and how AI want it
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| 9/9/2007 11:26:20 AM |
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jenn_love
Diamond Bar, CA
age: 21
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^^You go girl!! Get yours!! LOL
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| 9/9/2007 11:26:32 AM |
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brwnsugar59
Albuquerque, NM
age: 48 online now!
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Most women want to be more than just a f*ck buddy, they want to go out and be treated like more than just body parts. It is easier for men to f*ck and forget than for a woman. There are some women who want that but not many, and the ones who do aren't women you'd really want anyway.
No offense Yankeerose
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| 9/9/2007 11:31:12 AM |
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yankeerose68
Haines City, FL
age: 39
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none taken..plus I want more out of a relationship my "f*ck Buddy" is just there to fill the void..he knows I am looking for more out of life and when I find the one he will go away..
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| 9/9/2007 12:04:04 PM |
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53lady
Jacksonville, FL
age: 53
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Hey Yankee...I had one just like yours. Whenever either one of us were involved...the other would stay away. Whenever neither one of us was involved...we got together. We were more than just f*ck buddies though...we were good friends. He took me to the Magic games in Orlando..(when they were a hot team), we took his son to the fireworks displays, and went out to eat, went "mudding" in his big old truck, we'd shoot pool, play darts, etc...
It's been a long time, but called him and left a message. We'll see what happens...my looks I've changed a bit since he saw me last...heheheh....well...I'm sure he hasn't gotten any younger either. Wish me luck! heheheheh
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| 9/9/2007 12:07:05 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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brwnsugar, well said...and to the gentleman that posted this..I think we all hold more value that just being "sex" objects. Why can't sex be more special? it's fun and all but, common it's soooo much better if there is some kind of attatchment. jmo
xoxoPeaches.
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| 9/9/2007 1:13:22 PM |
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smokybare
Dardanelle, AR
age: 45
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Ok I think some of you get it and some dont...I agree most everyone wants more than just sex..but while you are looking for the person you want to spend the rest of your life with it's sure nice to know that with one call you dont have to be alone with a sex toy or porno mag or in a bad relationship to have good sex and conversation, also it's safer than going to a club and picking up a one nighter
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| 9/9/2007 1:15:13 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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smokey, I agree for you it maybe ok..It's just not for all of us and i'm just much to shy and think that's part of my heart i give.so, I can not do that but, I don't judge those who do.
xoxoPeaches.
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| 9/9/2007 1:28:50 PM |
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happyrunnr1
Mechanicsburg, PA
age: 26
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iv thought about this also but I couldnt do it if i have sex with him then Id want the whole package.
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| 9/9/2007 1:33:31 PM |
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smokybare
Dardanelle, AR
age: 45
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I understand what your saying and I know a lot of women feel the same as you. I just wish they did"t!...I know the differance between sex and making love, love is much better but somtimes you need to just get off... and the need is the same for a man or woman. It just makes way to much sence to me to have a buddy.
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| 9/9/2007 1:37:26 PM |
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steak_king
Whitmore Lake, MI
age: 50
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Smokey, it also makes sense that I'd get paid more at work, but guess what? And what happens if one of you grows attached while the other finds a mate?
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