9/10/2008 9:49:17 AM |
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fallnstar
Miami, FL
age: 48
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Have you ever had a partner that was so controlling(insecure) that he wouldn't let
yoU wear certain clothes ? Short skirts, low cut tops, bikini's ? WTF..
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9/10/2008 9:51:02 AM |
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immabluefish
Orlando, FL
age: 44
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No and would never date someone like that...
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9/10/2008 10:11:03 AM |
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samird
Madison, AL
age: 33
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Sounds like symptoms of some bigger problems. This is a good read:
http://www.abusivelove.com/AbusiveLove_3_0.htm
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9/10/2008 10:12:37 AM |
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evileddy
Ottawa, ON
age: 35 online now!
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Yes.
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9/10/2008 10:17:48 AM |
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coppermare
Grady, AL
age: 48
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I've never wanted to wear anything really revealing. Guess it depends on what you call revealing really? My ex didnt not allow me to but would rather I didnt unless he was with me.
Confession: One time I worked at a restaurant and wanted to quit to follow my best friend to another job. I knew he wouldn't like that so I bought some short shorts, and a halter top and came home with it. He said, "whats that for?"...I said, "oh, they want me to work in the bar now". He said, "I don't THINK so, you just quit and find another job"
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9/10/2008 3:24:48 PM |
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froggienm1
Albuquerque, NM
age: 36 online now!
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Some men are very controlling and can't stand the thought of another man "looking" at their woman. Am sure that is where the controlling phase of not allowing a woman to dress how she wants may come from. Now, if she wanted to run around everywhere in nothing but a revealing bikini, that would be considered unreasonable in any mans mind no matter who he is whether husband, boyfriend or father. Only place for a bikini is at the pool.
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9/10/2008 3:40:22 PM |
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recoverygrl
Lancaster, CA
age: 45
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My ex was very effeminate in the way he dressed (very metro) I always wondered what was really going on. Used to ask him not to wear a certain shirt that was white with flowers and shit on it, he never listened, so one day, claiming blonde indifference, I washed it with new black jeans. Problem solved
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9/10/2008 5:05:56 PM |
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midnight08
Clarksburg, WV
age: 38
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I have to say that your spouse or girlfriend or boyfriend can not tell you what you can or can not wear. However his or her decision to stay or leave you may be based on what you are doing. Myself, I would probably decide to leave if she changed her way of dressing. This usually means she is looking for more attention.
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9/10/2008 6:46:45 PM |
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crispy_kritter
Gloucester, ON
age: 33
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I'm not sure what my girlfriend would of said if I decided to put a short skirt and blouse on!
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9/10/2008 6:50:22 PM |
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fallnstar
Miami, FL
age: 48
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COPPERMARE, YOU SEXY THENG !!!
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9/10/2008 6:51:34 PM |
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g_d77
Watertown, NY
age: 30
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My ex wife tried to control the type of music I listened to, and who I talked to via email. She didn't like the fact that I had female friends from high school. There's a reason why she's my ex wife.
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9/10/2008 6:55:20 PM |
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tncutie64698
Spring City, TN
age: 37
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I have an ex bf that got pissed all the time over my low cut tops. Sorry if I have big boobs and they get attention. I didn't need a low cut top just to get looked at, but he was so insecure he was always pissed. That's why he's an ex! lol
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9/10/2008 7:00:45 PM |
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howie24
Bradenton, FL
age: 24
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My 1st ever long term boyfriend was always telling me what I could and could not wear, I even used to hide clothes that I wore out with the girls and if he found out he would call me a wh*re and accuse me of cheating.
It's kinda sad caz he took all my confidence and self esteem.
If your in this kinda relationship I would get out as soon as you can, you will not end up changing the person. The controlling will become more and more and they begin contolling other areas of your life
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9/10/2008 7:07:38 PM |
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fazdraw
Austin, TX
age: 55
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If you check into it...it was because he was wearing them when you weren't around and he was afraid you'd wrinkle them...alot of wierdo's out there...
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9/13/2008 8:30:11 AM |
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jadedmoon
Boca Raton, FL
age: 39
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I would not tolerate someone trying to tell me what to wear or do.
If I met someone like that then, I would not date them because they obviously
have control issues.
Jade
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