| 9/12/2007 9:51:27 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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Ok, being here a while I have observed some interesting things. The one thing that stands out the most, though, is how everyone is looking for someone to love, yet half of them seem to be looking for the wrong things. This is not meant to be offensive but come on. If you are looking for a life partner why would you pick them based on nothing but looks. Oh she's hot or he's hot or damn look at that one. There are so many of us out there that are good and decent and would make someone very happy yet some just cant even open their eyes to see it. Why is this??
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| 9/12/2007 9:58:43 AM |
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ronpan
Petersburg, IN
age: 48
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Hello Repo.
I think its a lot like Ive been saying for a while now. We set ourselves up for failure with our preconcieved notions of what is the ideal person for us.
For example. I say I like petite women which is true but if I wear that like a set of blinders then I will likely walk right past the person that will ultimately make me a very happy man.
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| 9/12/2007 10:03:59 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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Age is a big thing I have seen here too. They are looking for their one mate that is going to be what they want but they look at someone who is 19 or 20. I can remember my thought process at that age and there was no way I wanted anything near that serious!
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| 9/12/2007 10:07:08 AM |
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osipsc
Chicago, IL
age: 53
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Very nicely said -
What's on the surface seems be be the determining factor for the long-term. Without anything in "inventory" what's left?
Pam
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| 9/12/2007 10:16:03 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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I just love listening to people talk about how they want to find that special someone and want to get married or whatever and then see where their focus is, as to what type of person they are going after and it all ends up to be a total crock of shit!
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| 9/12/2007 10:20:40 AM |
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nonickname49
Belchertown, MA
age: 57
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Perhaps what I call surface people, if thats all they are interested in,
have not matured...many think they know what will make them happy, yet they
continually search over and over, go through multiple relationships, only to
remain lacking in success. As we get older most, and I say most, not all
people have a better understanding about whats truly important in life. Now
I am not saying that younger people do not. There are younger women on this
site that are classic examples, of a mature healthy attitude concerning, life,
and relationships. It goes to what has been said on this site many times...
That a person needs to care, respect and love themselves before, they can do
the same for someone else. If a person harbors selfishness, anger,greed from
within, then thats all they are capable of giving. If you squeeze a grapefruit,
you will get grapefruit juice...nothing else, nothing more, because thats all
thats within...if a person comes from a basis of love..if that is within who
they are...then thats what they will give to another. Love is about giving..
not taking...
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| 9/12/2007 10:23:59 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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I sit here and see some of the things that people say and the way they cry about what they want and yet, for those within my age range, I dont fit their catagory, even though I am a good woman!! Good thing I dont waste my time with those types!
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| 9/12/2007 10:36:40 AM |
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krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 39
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I based my search for love on how horny I am at the moment!.....hahahahahahah
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| 9/12/2007 10:37:22 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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I think a lot of the people on here base it the same way Krupa!!! LOL
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| 9/12/2007 10:41:08 AM |
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twiz
Martinsville, VA
age: 56
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well said repochick well said darling
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| 9/12/2007 10:46:30 AM |
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krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 39
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No doubt........buncha horney people around!
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| 9/12/2007 10:47:24 AM |
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repochick
Memphis, TN
age: 29
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I'm not even going to lie today. I am tired, irritable, stressed and really in a mood where I just dont give a shit anymore. Then I get to thinking of some of these people on here and it just pushes me even farther. If you want some drop dead sexy person in your life, that is fine, but dont expect it to be for the long haul and dont cry when it doesnt work out!
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| 9/12/2007 10:50:58 AM |
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tryanagain
Hillsborough, NJ
age: 48
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Well Repo, I,ve been out there for awhile. my age is 48. Was looking for someone between 40 and 50. After so many date's, nothing. I met a women who e mailed me. She was 51. Figured I would give her a shot. She's awsome. Just turned 52 and I could care less!!!!!
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| 9/12/2007 10:55:41 AM |
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dreamy4u
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 39
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Repochick,I have chatted with some wonderful people and I have also chatted with some extremely shallow people,so shallow you can see right through them.I will never base a love search on someones looks,but there are those who will and yet they wonder why they can't find love....
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| 9/12/2007 11:01:44 AM |
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scndlman
Lexington, KY
age: 53
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I came here thinking that's what i wanted.. to find that "one"..
The more i'm here and see and read some of the stuff. i've changed my mind...if it happens ,then great..
Just finding it to be a very insightful place..learning alot about people here that i wouldn't in public...it's kind of weird..and yet to cool at the same time.
Gotten a lot of great advice from many...much easier to chat about lifes ups and downs here than in a bar somewhere... and wow ..so many varied opinions...puts it all mmore into perspective...
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