9/19/2008 5:41:20 PM |
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whasluv
Manchester, CT
age: 40
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For you white guys.....what's the infatuation/curiosity about black women? It's all good...I just wanna know!!
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9/19/2008 5:43:38 PM |
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beckspade
Bentonville, AR
age: 25
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in all seriousness I dont have one. I mean noo disrespect whatsoever and I have nothing against interracial dating I have just never been attracted to black women to each there own 
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9/19/2008 5:44:45 PM |
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whasluv
Manchester, CT
age: 40
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That's cool...there just seems to be alot..undercover..
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9/19/2008 5:45:39 PM |
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samantha555
Montrose, PA
age: 19
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ive never really gone out looking for a black man to date, but i would consider it...what about black men wanting white women? cause i know quite a few that i work with who want me  
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9/19/2008 5:48:23 PM |
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heykoolaidman
South Bend, IN
age: 36
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For you white guys.....what's the infatuation/curiosity about black women? It's all good...I just wanna know!!
It’s different,
You hear a lot of hype about “black women” being this or that in bed and well some white men want to find out. It’s new and unique much the same as traveling to a different country.
Its like Star Trek baby “To boldly go where this penis hasn’t gone before” ok maybe not just like star trek but you get the point 
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9/19/2008 6:01:48 PM |
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whasluv
Manchester, CT
age: 40
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Thank you ....For me I think it is beautiful since it goes against the natural...and the colors mixing freely just because we want to and we don't care what others think...but in the physical act...it fun to watch...very beautiful..
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9/19/2008 6:11:40 PM |
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blueshand
Syracuse, NY
age: 57
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It would be the same as with white women and black men....infatuation. The racial devide is breaking down and interacial couples are more prevelent in todays society. I think there is still an uneasiness regarding initial contact for dating by many yet, i see more black men with white women than white men with black women. Interesting, considering i know many white men wanting that type of relationship. Remember there are still those on both sides that will deter these relationships so, many of these relationships may very well be discreet. To answer your question...Why not? Interacial couples understand this because they have broken down the gauntlet and see each other as "People" and are not swayed by the ethnicity stigma. White guy thing? I don't think so...this is across the board. Nice topic.
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9/19/2008 6:12:22 PM |
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rn31ia
Dubuque, IA
age: 36
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I've never been into black women..but I can honestly say...that reply was one of the most eloqent replys I've seen here. You can tell a smart...strong...sexy woman when you see one!!!!! And here she is!
    
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9/19/2008 6:14:43 PM |
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manykisses
Tonawanda, NY
age: 50
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Hey, brown sugar's just as sweet.
And it's healthier too.

Seriously though...I'm infatuated with and curious about women, period, which is to say, regardless of the color of their skin. If you're female, reasonably attractive, honest, and you've got something besides air between your ears, you're got four of the eight qualities I look for already. Accumulating the other four has nothing to do with how much melanin is or isn't in your skin. It has more to do with what's in your head and in your heart.

But for what it's worth, there's an urban legend I've heard (not sure if it's a myth or not 'cuz I don't go around checking out other guys' shit with a tape measure) that black dudes are...shall we say more generously endowed than white dudes - so maybe some white guys hear that and think it's a feather in their caps if they can hook up with a black woman (who's presumably used to the more well-endowed black men) and can keep her happy despite the disadvantage (whether real or perceived) in size. Personally, I don't take inventory, I just do my best and the lady will let me know if it is or isn't good enough, and if she's happy, I'm happy...whether she happens to be white, black, red, yellow, or purple with green polka-dots.

Another urban legend I've heard (also for what it's worth) suggests that black dudes are squeamish about performing oral sex on a woman, which I figure is probably not true but some guys undoubtedly believe that crap (prolly the same ones who believe the government caused 9/11 on purpose to get oil from Iraq and little green men really shot Kennedy) so...well...there's prolly white guys who don't like to do oral either...but those of us who do would have an advantage over those of us who don't (put another way, show me a man who won't do oral sex on a woman, and I'll show you a woman I can possibly have).

Beyond that...it's not as bad as in like 1960 but there's still a lot of segregation here in America and a lot of white guys grew up in predominantly white neighborhoods where there were no black people at all around, thus no black girls or women around, so a black person is kind of a mystery, ALL women are kind of a mystery to men anyway, and if ya put the two together, a black woman would be a double mystery...and some of us are real suckers for a good mystery. So help us guys out a little darlin' and give us some clues.


John in Tonawanda, NY
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9/19/2008 6:19:56 PM |
Interracial dating - what is it about black women? |
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bgtheman
Fort Smith, AR
age: 37
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its all pink in the middle
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9/19/2008 6:23:00 PM |
Interracial dating - what is it about black women? |
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likemenow
Zion, IL
age: 45
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Black is beautiful babe, and so are you....
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9/19/2008 6:26:24 PM |
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jamesvyp
Providence, RI
age: 20
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to the guy who said they are all pink on the inside. i couldnt use the quote thing.
actually black women are more purple than pink.. 
any really beauty is in the eye of the beholder. personally iv dated a couple black women. they seem stronger in certain aspects which drove me to them and from them. its all how you can handle it. to me the term " strong black woman" is very much an understatement. not only are they women but they are black. but like someone said above me people still have yet to get over their racial issues or whatever.
for me age is a number and colors in a crayon box all mix at some point. haha.
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9/19/2008 6:42:19 PM |
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skooter4
Fredericksburg, VA
age: 24 online now!
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Purple? Why on earth would u think that? last time I looked it was pretty and pink!!!!!!!!
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9/19/2008 6:43:57 PM |
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jofis1
Seaford, NY
age: 39
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there is a saying the blacker the berry the sweetere the juice
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9/19/2008 6:46:32 PM |
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jamesvyp
Providence, RI
age: 20
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it was a joke. i know its pink. its the pink of all pinks. haha. sorry not trying to offend you. and thats good that you check on it from time to time to make sure.
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