9/29/2008 8:39:24 PM |
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trish21
Harrington, ME
age: 22
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I'm looking for a real man, not an immature little boy (I've been cursed many times with them, they're incognito or something, catches me by surprise everytime). I have 3 boys, ages 3 (will be 4 October 12th), 2, and 5 months. I only have one living with me, going to court at the moment to change that though (to get the ones not living with me, that is). Well, I'm not going to go into detail right now, I'll save that for future conversations. Friendship first, then hopefully sparks fly. I want a man that is a true romantic, hard worker, and NOT an alcoholic. A couple drinks here and there I don't mind. Are there any left around here?? I'm starting to get my doubts.
[Edited 9/29/2008 8:40:43 PM PST]
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9/30/2008 1:39:50 PM |
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whiteknight65
Lisbon Falls, ME
age: 43
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They are out there, but sadly the ones in your age group dont really have an understanding what a real man is, they are still to busy thinking with the wrong part of thier body... but there are a few exceptions, just be patient.
I'm looking for a real man, not an immature little boy (I've been cursed many times with them, they're incognito or something, catches me by surprise everytime). I have 3 boys, ages 3 (will be 4 October 12th), 2, and 5 months. I only have one living with me, going to court at the moment to change that though (to get the ones not living with me, that is). Well, I'm not going to go into detail right now, I'll save that for future conversations. Friendship first, then hopefully sparks fly. I want a man that is a true romantic, hard worker, and NOT an alcoholic. A couple drinks here and there I don't mind. Are there any left around here?? I'm starting to get my doubts.
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10/3/2008 10:38:06 AM |
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wetsumr420
Bangor, ME
age: 58
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hi
[Edited 10/3/2008 10:41:03 AM PST]
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10/5/2008 1:03:23 PM |
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renne73
Portland, ME
age: 36
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there are??
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10/14/2008 4:58:56 PM |
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capk35
Bangor, ME
age: 50
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I'm with you whiteknight.
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10/18/2008 9:52:49 AM |
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luvinlifetou2
Biddeford, ME
age: 42
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Dont feel bad Trish, I have two little boys, and the men in my age group arent ready for "baggage" for the most part, either.
It definately makes it more of a challenge, but...
Oh well...
You are looking for all three?
True Romantic, Hard Worker, and NOT an alcoholic?
Oh Heck...
Good luck with that...
Not that they arent out there, they just dont seem to be in Maine!
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10/24/2008 3:39:37 PM |
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nick4me
Bangor, ME
age: 53
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I have to say something here or I'll explode!!I have searched far and wide simply for a "lady" who just wants love and commitment and to be an equal in a relationship, and age is not an issue, never has been. Kids are precious and need stability and someone as a good role model and I realize that. I've made it clear that I don't care if a lady had children or not. So maybe guys that age are selfish or scare easy or simply don't get "into an instant family", but us guys who have seen life a little clearer, love isn't contingent on a lady with kids, or the age, it's contingent on the ladies heart. Good luck with your search. Know that it will happen.
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10/30/2008 6:45:25 AM |
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richard6300
Machias, ME
age: 66
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Its sad that yonger guys just want a woman for her body, Us older men are looking for a womans heart...must be someplace in the middle for all. Bodies fade and hearts are forever. Think girls....
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10/30/2008 10:26:37 AM |
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lok4fn
Brunswick, ME
age: 45
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yes there is. Need to look for someone a little older who will respect you for who you are and what your looking for in a relationship. At your age guys are only interested in going out to party and see who they can take with them
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10/31/2008 7:42:03 AM |
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smilinpixie
Greene, ME
age: 33
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hell at my age it seems the guys ar still only interested in partying with the guys and gettin laid....
I prefer the older men...
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10/31/2008 2:19:04 PM |
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ayotte
Presque Isle, ME
age: 53
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Yes there are. But for some reason many of these jerks spoil it for people like us who are true romantics loving and nuturing men. As soon as we open up alittle with or hearts and become honest with what we are looking for in a respectful unconditional relationship they run. I quess they figure they have heard the same story before and found it was just a lie for selfish imature reasons. Or they are ready to jump into a serious relationship after a coffee and a few dates. I have dated quite a few women and have treated each with respect and honesty. I dont lead anyone one. I am not looking for a one night stand. Many of the women arent exactly who they cliam to be either. Take the time you need to heal and get your family together. Meet for coffee. You can tell after a half hour where a person head and heart lie. I look and am still looking for an optimistic person who see's the good that can come out of even the hardist of conditions. Your life will get better as you put this past you and put your priorities and needs first in your life. Good luck. Allan
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11/6/2008 1:36:32 AM |
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scion07
Gardiner, ME
age: 43
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yes we are alive and kickin' we are not too hard to find
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11/17/2008 9:25:20 PM |
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bigred04092
Westbrook, ME
age: 26
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im 26 and it's funny because all i want to do is settle down and have a family , most guys my age are out drinking every night and not see the big pic, its all about the kids no aday guys wanna get laid then take off and not care if they make babys and i think there loser's kids are great and thats that....
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11/25/2008 4:53:54 PM |
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lobbug15
Durham, ME
age: 36
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I'm tired of women always complaining that there are no good men out there.When you girls finally get one, you either ruin him, or dump him for a bad boy .You girls all love bad boys.Stop asking for things that you don't really want.
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12/9/2008 11:11:27 PM |
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mechtech86
Biddeford, ME
age: 22
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k i really have to ask this question whats up with the sterotype that all 21 yo males are partyers and sex maniacs it dosent happen to all of us hell im 21 nad i want to settle down i have since i was 19 i dont party theres no need and as for drinking its a waste of money and health and as for ther not being any decent men in maine thats also wrong ther are plenty of decent men you just need to know where to look try going to a library and finding a guy it just might work out
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