| 10/13/2008 6:22:52 PM |
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vale42
Findlay, OH
age: 51
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ok guys u ask a woman to meet you for the first time lets say mcdonalds,, what do u do wait in the car or go inside and once inside what then ,, how do u treat her
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| 10/13/2008 6:31:26 PM |
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kitise
Greenwood, SC
age: 32
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i wait in my car, she comes, i figure her out. ask her if she has baggage(kids).
if she has and has been married twice or more..
i make a few steps, if i have packed far i take off at a supersonic speed. and leave the vicinity with immediate effect.
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| 10/13/2008 6:32:53 PM |
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blkbagger
McHenry, IL
age: 49
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Whoa, stop, MCDonalds just is not going to work at all... Start by treating her like a lady, take her somewhere a cut above... OR something simple like a nice coffee house...
Kittisse... You sound like a freaking broken record with your baggage/kids bullshit, what's the matter your johnson not working, shooting blanks and can't have any??? Quit your whining you wimp and man up...
[Edited 10/13/2008 6:34:57 PM PST]
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| 10/13/2008 6:42:11 PM |
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tater79
Springfield, IL
age: 31
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McDonalds...... As for how I would treat them, no different then I treat anyone else. Shoot the shit and get to know them, and have common courtesy that's it..
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| 10/13/2008 6:44:29 PM |
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tater79
Springfield, IL
age: 31
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Whoa, stop, MCDonalds just is not going to work at all... Start by treating her like a lady, take her somewhere a cut above... OR something simple like a nice coffee house...
Kittisse... You sound like a freaking broken record with your baggage/kids bullshit, what's the matter your johnson not working, shooting blanks and can't have any??? Quit your whining you wimp and man up...
I'm starting to wonder the same thing, about kittisse
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| 10/13/2008 6:47:40 PM |
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ssgtshanahan
Wallingford, VT
age: 30
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I would let her super size it
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| 10/13/2008 6:49:10 PM |
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laframage
Raleigh, NC
age: 25
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I agree; I wouldn't want to meet at a McDonald's.. a coffee house would do just fine, and it seems more appropriate 
But take the first meeting one step at a time; there's no reason to work yourself up about someone you haven't even met yet. Just see how it goes..
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| 10/13/2008 6:52:39 PM |
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wildman1969
Ada, OK
age: 40
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That special sauce, lettuce, cheese really puts em' in the mood! 
J/K But really, I think you just have to feel it out and let things flow.
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| 10/13/2008 6:55:23 PM |
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kitise
Greenwood, SC
age: 32
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Whoa, stop, MCDonalds just is not going to work at all... Start by treating her like a lady, take her somewhere a cut above... OR something simple like a nice coffee house...
Kittisse... You sound like a freaking broken record with your baggage/kids bullshit, what's the matter your johnson not working, shooting blanks and can't have any??? Quit your whining you wimp and man up...
grandpa, quit being a thump sucking whimp and focuss on your kids...oops! they have run away too old man. so now..u want to add morehope uve checked the viability of your reproductive system.
[Edited 10/13/2008 6:56:35 PM PST]
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| 10/13/2008 7:02:41 PM |
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carbonv
Salem, AR
age: 52
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Just for sake of argument we will say ok it is McDonalds If you mean wait in the car, till she shows up... Yes I probably would till I saw her and then probably walk with her into the restaurant (next door) "lol" we would talk and order, and see how we seemed to get along. I would likely see how things seemed to be clicking by the time the meal was over and a bit more conversation maybe, and decide whether I wanted to ask her if she wanted to go do something afterward. Don't know if that is what you were asking but she would be treated well in any case.
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| 10/13/2008 7:04:36 PM |
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blkbagger
McHenry, IL
age: 49
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my reproductive system obviously works fine, I have four kids... And I'm proud of all of them... BUT no, I don't want any more...
Kittisse; I refuse to have a battle of wits with an unarmed man...
[Edited 10/13/2008 7:04:47 PM PST]
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| 10/13/2008 7:11:22 PM |
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gbailey
Bean Station, TN
age: 44
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I WOULD TAKE MY FIRST DATE TO A GREAT DINNER,THEN GO TO MAYBE A GOOD MOVIE,OR MAYBE GO FOR A BOAT RIDE TO TALK SOME AND GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER,OR A ROMANTIC PIC,NO MATTER WHAT TALK ALOT (MY PRYORTY IS TO GET TO KNOW THE PERSON I AM WITH AS MUCH AS I CAN)THEN GO FROM THERE.
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| 10/13/2008 7:14:04 PM |
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klassyklown
Bakersfield, CA
age: 41
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Alright, the most romantic DH meeting I've had, we were meeting half way, and he tells me to meet him in the Home Depot parking lot. It was romance at its finest.  At least he met me under the shade.
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| 10/13/2008 7:15:15 PM |
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sharolas
Elk Grove Village, IL
age: 40
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Kittisse... You sound like a freaking broken record with your baggage/kids bullshit, what's the matter your johnson not working, shooting blanks and can't have any??? Quit your whining you wimp and man up... |
| 10/13/2008 7:22:17 PM |
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foxfire36
Hortonville, WI
age: 38
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Never use "McDonalds" and "treating her like a lady" in the same sentence. Take her for a nice lunch/dinner at a real resutrant. Doesn't have to be real expensive, just nice. Get the doors for her. Just be your self and have a good conversation.
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| 10/13/2008 7:30:29 PM |
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rexydon
Lenexa, KS
age: 24
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I'm sorry McDonald's?? What the hell?? If I was that short on cash or that cheap I would take the $6-$10 it would take to eat there go to the grocery store buy some spaghetti make it my self and take her to a park. As for how I treat her, I treat her with respect and honor like I should.
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| 10/13/2008 7:34:17 PM |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 46
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ok guys u ask a woman to meet you for the first time lets say mcdonalds,, what do u do wait in the car or go inside and once inside what then ,, how do u treat her
I treat her to anything on the menu! 
I treat her like a lady! 
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| 10/13/2008 8:07:16 PM |
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journey2smile
Oswego, IL
age: 34
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I'm sorry McDonald's?? What the hell?? If I was that short on cash or that cheap I would take the $6-$10 it would take to eat there go to the grocery store buy some spaghetti make it my self and take her to a park. As for how I treat her, I treat her with respect and honor like I should.
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| 10/13/2008 8:25:05 PM |
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johnnybadboy
Baltimore, MD
age: 57
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If I have been doing my home, I would hope that I knew enough about her to know some of things she likes or dislikes. Mcdonalds isn't exactly my kind of place. I would want to make the first impression a positive one. I would be clean shaved, clothes pressed, shoes shined, have a breath mint, put on some colonge and dressed properly. If she were coming to see me in Baltimore it would be better because I know a few nice cafes. It would also depend on the time of day and the weather conditions and I would work out the details before meeting with her. If I were going to meet near her home I would go on the net and fine a nice cafe in that area to meet her that is quite. I would not sit in my pick-up but ask her to meet at the entrance or on the corner or parking lot. I would walk up to her and politely say hello(Looking it to her eyes) my name is johnny I've been looking forward to meeting you as I put out my right hand to shake hers and when she shook my hand I would reach over slowly with my left and take her by the hand and say something nice like you look wonderful we are going to have a nice evening and I would holder hand and walker her to the cafe. But, I have to say I would be in control when we went in I would take her to a table I liked and say this looks like a nice table just because it shows confidence. Sit her first and start a pleasant confersation and just see where things go. Nuff said!
Will that work?
[Edited 10/13/2008 8:37:11 PM PST]
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| 10/13/2008 8:31:49 PM |
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nm_jewel
Las Cruces, NM
age: 57
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I'm sorry McDonald's?? What the hell?? If I was that short on cash or that cheap I would take the $6-$10 it would take to eat there go to the grocery store buy some spaghetti make it my self and take her to a park. As for how I treat her, I treat her with respect and honor like I should.
Exactly!! My kinda guy!! Well said.
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| 10/13/2008 8:35:32 PM |
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nm_jewel
Las Cruces, NM
age: 57
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Quote from johnnybadboy:If I have been doing my home, I would hope that I knew enough about her to know some of things she likes or dislikes. Mcdonalds isn't exactly my kind of place. I would want to make the first impression a positive one. I would be clean shaved, clothes pressed, shoes shined, have a breath mint, put on some colonge and dressed properly. If she were coming to see me in Baltimore it would be better because I know a few nice cafes. It would also depend on the time of day and the weather conditions and I would work out the details before meeting with her. If I were going to meet near her home I would go on the net and fine a nice cafe in that area to meetthat its quite. I would not sit in my pick-up but ask her to meet at the entrance or on the corner or parking lot. I would walk up to her and politely say hello(Looking it to her eyes) my name is johnny I've been looking forward to meeting you as I put out my right hand to shake hers and when she shook my hand I would reach over slowly with my left and take her by the hand and say something nice like you look wonderful we are going to have a nice evening and I would holder hand and walker her to the cafe. But, I have to say I would be in control when we went in I would take her to a table I liked and say this looks like a nice table just because it shows confidence. Sit her first and start a pleasant confersation and just see where things go. Nuff said!
Will that work?
Damnit Johnny!!! I knew you had our date planned out!!!!
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| 10/13/2008 8:38:29 PM |
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johnnybadboy
Baltimore, MD
age: 57
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you got that right Jewel! it will take some work to hook you
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| 10/13/2008 9:04:09 PM |
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fljoe5
Pompano Beach, FL
age: 21
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yeah, i wouldn't take a girl to mcdonald's either. i figure thats a hell of a way to shy off your date...
I like to be a gentleman, talk, get to know her.
did you have a first date at mcdonalds?
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| 10/13/2008 9:11:21 PM |
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theodorebear
Hopkinsville, KY
age: 43
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Meet her ate APPLEBEE'S for some Beer and Babybacks!!!!!!!!!!!! MMMM and a good atmosphere...
I couldn't date a woman that can't eat BBQ ribs with her fingers....
[Edited 10/13/2008 9:11:59 PM PST]
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| 10/13/2008 9:23:52 PM |
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guidojones
Hooper, NE
age: 48
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i can't believe most of the responses i'm reading on here, no wonder everyone's single! first i think the first meeting should be a comfortable place, that's fairly quiet, yet public, so you are able to talk, but so she feels protected. a place where she knows if she just met up with a creep she can escape, hey that's the world we're in. i think it's best if you are already there in plain sight, where if she wants to split without seeing you she has that option. she should not feel like she may be walking into an ambush. it should not be mcdonalds, unless that's where she realy wants to go. it doesn't have to be the fanciest restraunt in town, just nice, not the cheapest, loudest place you can find. from there you need to treat her respectfully and politely, and this shouldn't end even if this lasts for the next 80 years. don't dominate, don't make it all about you, show her you are interested in what she has to say, and be interested in what she is saying. don't push anything. be yourself and let her be herself. be real, don't be a gradeschooler and do a bunch of stupid things to showoff, being silly is one thing, being immature is another. let her make the final decision to go somewhere more private if that seems to be the way things are going.
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| 10/13/2008 9:24:36 PM |
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tryagaindj68
Evansville, IN
age: 41
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There's nothing wrong with meeting at McD's, especially if you both have kids. Look how many people stay home because they don't have someone to watch the kids. Heck, let the kids play while you talk a little and get to know each other. Besides, it's important to know if the kids will get along or not.
OK, so I like McD's! I'm a preschool teacher - a lot of my friends hang out there!!!
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