10/15/2008 11:02:29 AM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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sesohoops3
North Adams, MA
age: 23
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because i constantly annoy her with question after question. I am in school but am graduating in december and baby isnt born until april. I am only in school for 2 more months. how can i survive the 2 month long distance relationship!
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10/15/2008 11:04:45 AM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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arkansasnman

Fayetteville, AR
age: 46
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Move her up there.
...and if you give me the "I don't have enough money" stuff, then you shouldn't be havin' babies.
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10/15/2008 11:05:19 AM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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metu

Mansfield, TX
age: 48
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She wants to take it slow? Then how in the hell did she get preggers? 
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10/15/2008 11:06:34 AM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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wileyguy

Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 38
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i agree with both of the above
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10/15/2008 11:06:57 AM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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arkansasnman

Fayetteville, AR
age: 46
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"She wants to take it slow? Then how in the hell did she get preggers? "
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He doesn't actually indicate it's his.
I'd be taking it slow if I was HIM.
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10/15/2008 11:08:26 AM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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missmmeoftheday

Brooklyn, NY
age: 43
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glad I'm not the only cynic.
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10/15/2008 11:12:19 AM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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asl_65
Charles Town, WV
age: 43
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Well, I would start by getting a job and sending all of your money home to support the baby....you might as well get used to it!
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10/15/2008 11:16:09 AM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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mike22304

Alexandria, VA
age: 44
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Stay where you are. Graduate from school. Get a job far far away. Don't say goodbye. Don't look back. In other words, be selfish and irresponsible. You will thank me many times for this advice.
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10/15/2008 11:38:25 AM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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tallbevfrompa
Pittsburgh, PA
age: 50
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He doesn't actually indicate it's his.
I'd be taking it slow if I was HIM.
From a non-judgmental mom perspective....
Your girlfriend can take care of herself and the baby for now.
Just because she is pregnant doesn't mean she is helpless--no matter what she tells you.
Concentrate on finishing school. Get a job. Save as much money as you can.
After the baby is born get a paternity test.
If it is yours support it and be a father to it.
If you are not ready to get married--don't! Two wrongs don't make a right.
Doesn't mean to move in with each other either.
I know very few people-if any your age that is ready for marriage.
Most importantly, if the baby is yours, you do have to take responsibility for the baby financially and as a father.
No ifs, ands, or buts about it.
You survive the next couple of months by focusing on grades and applying for jobs so when you are finished you have a job and money to prepare for the baby-if it is yours.
You had your fun prematurely--put your nose to the grind stone!
Good luck.
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10/15/2008 11:39:30 AM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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rereeee
Houston, TX
age: 38
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because i constantly annoy her with question after question. I am in school but am graduating in december and baby isnt born until april. I am only in school for 2 more months. how can i survive the 2 month long distance relationship!
By first believing in her. By second realizing that women (your woman) are more "family oriented" for women are the ONLY "one's" whom can carry a child. And by third, standing at her side, whether you are physically there or NOT! 
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10/15/2008 11:44:07 AM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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brittaniejo
Oxford, OH
age: 23
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because i constantly annoy her with question after question. I am in school but am graduating in december and baby isnt born until april. I am only in school for 2 more months. how can i survive the 2 month long distance relationship!
By taking a chill pill. Is this kid yours? If so I dont know why this girl wants to take things slow ... But you didnt really make that clear. Graduate from school, because if you are going to support this kid an education is the best way to do it. Start applying for jobs in the area you both want to live. And discuss all this with her! Don't question, discuss.
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10/15/2008 11:44:51 AM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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arkansasnman

Fayetteville, AR
age: 46
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"because i constantly annoy her with question after question. "
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Sooooooo........for some reason you assume she won't be annoyed with you when you come back?
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10/15/2008 11:45:10 AM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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tallbevfrompa
Pittsburgh, PA
age: 50
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I would like to add something to my previous statement.....
I just read your profile--
Obviously you are not happy in the relationship with your girlfriend or you wouldn't be new on this site and looking for a relationship.
You have already made at least one rash decision--think things through before doing anything.
[Edited 10/15/2008 11:45:37 AM PST]
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10/15/2008 12:15:27 PM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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rojamami

Brunswick, GA
age: 47
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It's a little too late to go slow......
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10/15/2008 12:17:43 PM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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indoubt

Beaumont, CA
age: 34
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Um first I say get the hell off a dating site. You obviously don't need anything further to distract you or entice you away from your responsibility. I hope you will take this as serious as it is and be there for your child.
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10/15/2008 12:52:57 PM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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suzicutzi
Philadelphia, PA
age: 42
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I agree with Tallbev...well said!
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10/15/2008 1:09:27 PM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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ladynova
O Fallon, MO
age: 42
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because i constantly annoy her with question after question. I am in school but am graduating in december and baby isnt born until april. I am only in school for 2 more months. how can i survive the 2 month long distance relationship!
What the hell is the question(s) you are annoying her with??
Almost a college graduate and you still don't know to wrap your package before sticking it in a girl. Regardless, whether it's your baby or not.
Sure hope you take this little lesson into consideration and do better with the rest of the decisions you make in life.
And if I were you, I'd get the hell off of the dating site until I knew if it was my baby or not. Because if it is, you better fulfill your responsibility to that baby and be there for it....financially, emotionally and in person. If it's your kid, YOU raise it.
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10/15/2008 1:21:07 PM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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kitise

Greenwood, SC
age: 31
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u r not the father..some dude is..or shes not sure and time is what she has to play with till she knows.
u cant wait??? dude. go figure.
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10/15/2008 1:26:22 PM |
my girlfriend is pregnant and wants to take it slow |
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oliveoil2
Cuba, MO
age: 48
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your the...one...ahh... father...
would have to do figuring if NOT  
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