10/18/2008 2:12:52 PM |
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cecegal
Columbia, TN
age: 42
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Does it get you more dates or just more headaques?
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10/18/2008 2:48:26 PM |
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foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 50
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huh?
I never play dumb do you?
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10/18/2008 3:18:47 PM |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 40
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I do not play dumb ever. I am who I am, and if someone is not interested in me for me, I am sure as hell not going to pretend to be something I'm not. Doesn't that seem dishonest to you? It does to me.
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10/18/2008 3:20:46 PM |
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babyrockable
Olney, MD
age: 24
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I love to play dumb just like I like having no picture on the net until they see what they see. All about surpises and it keeps the blood running when they find out your not dumb or not ugly. Its all about faith in how things might turn out
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10/18/2008 3:21:27 PM |
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pattilee3
Norfolk, VA
age: 50
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Only when I have a flat tire.
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10/18/2008 3:22:22 PM |
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suzicutzi
Philadelphia, PA
age: 41
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Seems like a degrading thing to do for yourself...Do you mean play dumb because the guy is less intelligent then you and you want to seem equal?
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10/18/2008 3:23:07 PM |
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lilmissala
Hartselle, AL
age: 51
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I don't play dumb. I may not understand something but its not because I am dumb. I just not be familiar with it. What is the point in playing dumb? What is it going to accomplish? Goodness I like to show what smarts I have!
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10/18/2008 3:24:07 PM |
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babyrockable
Olney, MD
age: 24
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How would that be degrading its plenty of people smarter than most other people in this world. Acting dumb does not do any kind of degrading...
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10/18/2008 3:28:36 PM |
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foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 50
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Only when I have a flat tire.
Good one patti but thats not playing dumb..thats um
[Edited 10/18/2008 3:29:15 PM PST]
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10/18/2008 3:29:43 PM |
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usakindatheart
Overton, TX
age: 48
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i am dumb on how to fix plumbing... i try... i fail... i call a plumber...
I""""dumb"""""""""""""""car mechanics... i never try... i bring car to mechanic....I get so ripped off..(other knowledgeable people tell me, that do not live near me,) but have no other option but to pay, because i do not understand what they are talking about...
males just pat my head, like a lap dog... when i try to talk about some things...
they give that LOOK.... yea i see it... but what can you do... if your dumb in those areas
your dumb...face it , accept it.
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10/18/2008 3:32:47 PM |
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suzicutzi
Philadelphia, PA
age: 41
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If your not living up to who you are and embracing all the qualities that you have that is degrading to your own integrity, and IS dumb...
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10/18/2008 3:35:26 PM |
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cecegal
Columbia, TN
age: 42
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I realize that generalities don't really help. It just seems to me if you are female and intellegent that many men are threatened by that. I know many confident, feminine and intellegent women. Maybe it's that they are not subservient. Just a thought.
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10/18/2008 4:26:12 PM |
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deedee22801
Harrisonburg, VA
age: 37
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I do play dumb quite a bit. Not really with dating because the other person will realize eventually. I definately tone things down in the beginning of a relationship.
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10/18/2008 4:37:10 PM |
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johnnybadboy
Baltimore, MD
age: 56
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I don't have to play dumb, I think my picture is right next to the word in the Dictionary. But dumb is what dumb does, makes sense to me the dumber I am the dumber I get. How thats dumb!
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10/18/2008 4:38:16 PM |
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not_looking
Sacramento, CA
age: 50
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Why would you want to play dumb?
quote from usakindatheart. i am dumb on how to fix plumbing... i try... i fail... i call a plumber...
I""""dumb"""""""""""""""car mechanics... i never try... i bring car to mechanic....I get so ripped off..(other knowledgeable people tell me, that do not live near me,) but have no other option but to pay, because i do not understand what they are talking about...
males just pat my head, like a lap dog... when i try to talk about some things...
they give that LOOK.... yea i see it... but what can you do... if your dumb in those areas
your dumb...face it , accept it.
You learn more about it. I hate when a man thinks I'm dumb at something just cause it's usually a man job. I have been in the automotive business for 30 years and believe me I have seen some guys come in for a part and not even know whats it called.
[Edited 10/18/2008 4:52:16 PM PST]
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