10/19/2008 8:27:22 PM |
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_ranger
Corpus Christi, TX
age: 58
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Hi nm_jewel, 
So far it looks like there is alot of women who hasn't sex in quite along time.
How long can a women last from not having sex? Possibly, five or ten years?
FWB is the way to go, if there is no strings attached.
Women want a commitment from a man, then they have sex. Then the man dumps them later with some excuses. 
Don't women know sex is only reserved for married people only.
Ladies, if you don't want casual sex, that's good. Save sex for marriage only. JMO
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10/19/2008 8:30:38 PM |
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nm_jewel
Las Cruces, NM
age: 56
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Hi nm_jewel,
So far it looks like there is alot of women who hasn't sex in quite along time.
How long can a women last from not having sex? Possibly, five or ten years?
FWB is the way to go, if there is no strings attached.
Women want a commitment from a man, then they have sex. Then the man dumps them later with some excuses.
Don't women know sex is only reserved for married people only.
Ladies, if you don't want casual sex, that's good. Save sex for marriage only. JMO
   
Ok.. I'll wait for marriage Ranger ~wink wink~
Does this mean I need to get married AGAIN!!!!??????? Geeez!! 
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10/19/2008 8:33:25 PM |
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sarita67
Washington, DC
age: 49
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nm_jewel Tell us about your new love.
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10/19/2008 8:37:55 PM |
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_ranger
Corpus Christi, TX
age: 58
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Hi nm_jewel 
Yes, you need to get married real soon.
Boy, what a wedding night that's going to be! 
It beats waiting 5 or 10 years,
for some man to decide if he wants a committment with you. JMO
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10/19/2008 8:40:29 PM |
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sunfreak
Orleans, MA
age: 37 online now!
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Hi nm_jewel
Yes, you need to get married real soon.
Boy, what a wedding night that's going to be!
It beats waiting 5 or 10 years,
for some man to decide if he wants a committment with you. JMO
So glad I have reclaimed my virginity cowboy!
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10/19/2008 8:40:56 PM |
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nm_jewel
Las Cruces, NM
age: 56
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Awww... I'd love to.. but then I'd have to kill ya! LOL J/K
He's my best friend. He's my confidant.... He's so much like me we could be twins! ~makes note to check family history!!~ LMAO!
And he knows I'm a forum nut.. lol.
And... he does not condone casual sex... ;;;;;;;p
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10/19/2008 8:46:04 PM |
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_ranger
Corpus Christi, TX
age: 58
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Hi sunfreak, 
Sorry, the last time I went down on a woman, it was "love at first sight".
I still believe sex is reserved for marriage only.
However, I believe that the Dallas Cowboy are going to win the Super Bowl too!
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10/19/2008 8:55:58 PM |
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maryg2
Philadelphia, PA
age: 38
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i can't lie and say i haven't thought about doing it and have come real real close to those opportunities and personally it's not hard to do BUT i always stop myself for a couple of reasons....1.) STD or inheriting something funky.... 2.) safety for myself 3.) running into someone or people that might have known what happened cuz "he" said something. the needs are real when you're single for sex but it does come at a price. just use discretion, that's all. as long as you're comfortable with it, then by all means do what a girl's gotta do. or i should say chooses to do....lol.
and i also know women who do engage in casual sex. i've never met too many women that come away from it with great outcome but it is what it is. like i said it's all in how a woman wants to handle her sex life. who's to judge? personally i think men can definitely have casual sex w no emotional connection. cuz man and woman r just different beings...
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10/19/2008 9:25:05 PM |
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_ranger
Corpus Christi, TX
age: 58
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Hi maryg2, 
I was raised in South Philadelphia, class of 1968.
Sorry nm_jewel, back to the topic.
As you mention maryg2, you have many reasons for not having casual sex.
However, many men and women have this urge to be loved and sometimes sex get
in the way in a relationship.
Wait for the committment, ring, wedding vows, honeymoon, children, headaches, no sex, then finally divorce.
Just joking! Ladies 
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10/19/2008 9:27:37 PM |
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brittaniejo
Oxford, OH
age: 22
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We all subscribe to the same sexual desires as men.. We consider ourselves enlightened and sexual beings. We have moved past the bra burning and become women of substance making our own way through life in independence and fortitude overcoming our past disasterous relationships taking our lessons to heart and building stronger reserves...
We are women! Here us ROAR!!
Here are the questions...
Would you elicite casual sex when in need .. without the hassle of pretending an emotional connection? Would you do "one night stands"? or maybe enlist a friend to help you through the lonely nights.. no strings?
I have for sure and it's fun, but I would like something more now.
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10/19/2008 10:16:46 PM |
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farmgirl2008
Wichita, KS
age: 48
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We are all adults men and women I think it's personal choice--depends on stage of life, and your needs. 
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10/20/2008 5:35:53 AM |
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nm_jewel
Las Cruces, NM
age: 56
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I will "come clean"  
Although I fantasize,, and become so frustrated.. I haven't had casual sex with anyone for a very long time. I wait for "the connection" of the heart. When I was younger, say in my 20's.. hell yes! I was stupid and infallable!! I thought nothing could hurt me.
After my sister died at the age of 52 with full blown aid's.. and I witnessed first hand what casual sex could lead to.. I grew up. She had sex with a man that did not have the ethics or moral responsibility to tell her he was HIV positive.
Sometimes the needs over shadow reasoning and I actually think I might.. but "best laid plans" usually fail for a reason. Maybe its my sisters spirit protecting me...
<3 Jewels
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10/20/2008 5:45:30 AM |
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forever4
Victoria
Australia
age: 47
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good answere
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10/20/2008 5:47:54 AM |
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foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 50
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jewel..of course I have however it left me empty and that isn't a good feeling
I need to have feelings..I need to care and have it all returned,also need the love
Now that makes excellent sex when you're on that page.
When I was younger things where alot different than now..heck even different than when I was 40..now I have 2 little guys and I dont want them to see a man here before they go to bed for the night and wake up with him here... UNLESS its long term
I'm far away from being a saint..yet I want what is best for my boys.
[Edited 10/20/2008 5:50:08 AM]
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10/20/2008 5:54:10 AM |
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angelips
Villas, NJ
age: 32
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unfortunatly i think its impossiblr 4 me to be intimate with someone and have no feelings 4 that person or els i would deffinitly be on that wagon 
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