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10/25/2008 8:05:32 PM	Alot of you talk of this, i want this, i want that..
theshadow_ Beaver, UT age: 38	All this topic's of what a Women/Men want. My question is, what are you willing to give and are you actually capable to give the same in return as what you expect? Are you actually willing? It's easy to come on here and say how you are and blah blah blah, but how many of you actually stoped and looked at yourself and wonder what your capable of giving. Ok, have to do this ladies this question is more for you on this. Guys are expected to do so much for you these days and it is a fact. So what are you actually capable of giving in return?
10/25/2008 8:12:48 PM	Alot of you talk of this, i want this, i want that..
data_chic Abbeville, SC age: 37	Sex-- in return for completing the honey-to-do-list within a week (stopwatch starts now)....
10/25/2008 8:16:44 PM	Alot of you talk of this, i want this, i want that..
snazzy73 York, PA age: 39	I happen to believe there are many of us women type not only capable of giving but willing to too! A lot of times people want to 'have their cake n eat it too'... but (hopefully) as we get older & wiser we all realize that any relationship worth keeping takes time & effort... from both parties!
10/25/2008 8:17:11 PM	Alot of you talk of this, i want this, i want that..
kitise Greenwood, SC age: 30	Quote from data_chic: Sex-- in return for completing the honey-to-do-list within a week (stopwatch starts now)....
10/25/2008 8:19:35 PM	Alot of you talk of this, i want this, i want that..
katrinasq Mena, AR age: 39	I have a pretty clear idea of what I bring to a relationship, and it is also the same things I am looking for. I bring honesty, affection, faithfulness, compassion, consideration, respect, trust, and a loving attitude. I am a hard worker, take care of my home, including doing most of my own improvements, landscaping, etc. I am not looking for someone to take care of me, just walk beside me and be a partner. I want a guy who does what he says, works hard, and treats me as well as I treat him. Pretty simple, actually, and yet, so hard to find.
10/25/2008 8:19:47 PM	Alot of you talk of this, i want this, i want that..
theshadow_ Beaver, UT age: 38	Quote from data_chic: Sex-- in return for completing the honey-to-do-list within a week (stopwatch starts now).... ok! a couple hours went by. Now what?
10/25/2008 8:29:19 PM	Alot of you talk of this, i want this, i want that..
theshadow_ Beaver, UT age: 38	Quote from snazzy73: I happen to believe there are many of us women type not only capable of giving but willing to too! A lot of times people want to 'have their cake n eat it too'... but (hopefully) as we get older & wiser we all realize that any relationship worth keeping takes time & effort... from both parties! Yes it takes work on both sides, but i find it that it takes a little more work for men in some areas then women. Women expect to be entertained. Well, will say a few of them and if there not, there really isn't anything given in return. I guess what i'n saying is, i wish there wan't so many selfish people in this world. This me me me, i i i kind of attitude. For me, it don't matter what the other does. I was raised to be there for them in every aspect of there life as much as a man can be for knowing just a little bit about women. That mean giving of myself and not expecting in return, but were humon and it does happen. So in one sence. i feel men have to work a little harder in some areas then women do.
10/25/2008 8:30:39 PM	Alot of you talk of this, i want this, i want that..
ellecdee Augusta, GA age: 48	BIG THINGS: Great sex, great head, excellent communication, & LOTS of adoring attention with time to spend on & with my man! Don't skip on the compliments. LITTLE THINGS: Cook every now & then, go to his favorite games (if he asks), watch his favorite shows, listen to his music (along with mine 50/50), iron the clothes he wears for SPECIAL occasions, trim his mustache, beard, goatee, his nails, his hair, rub down his sunburn or achy muscles, rub his feet, message his back, help him with a project if he asks......
10/25/2008 8:36:15 PM	Alot of you talk of this, i want this, i want that..
thebestman Alpharetta, GA age: 34 online now!	Quote from theshadow_: All this topic's of what a Women/Men want. My question is, what are you willing to give and are you actually capable to give the same in return as what you expect? Are you actually willing? It's easy to come on here and say how you are and blah blah blah, but how many of you actually stoped and looked at yourself and wonder what your capable of giving. Ok, have to do this ladies this question is more for you on this. Guys are expected to do so much for you these days and it is a fact. So what are you actually capable of giving in return? You bring up a good point. For those who actually met me in person etc... they can vouch of not only what I state what I can bring to the table on my profile, but many other things as well. I keep it real 100%. You are right, many want want want as they focus on self, yet are not willing to give just a little bit. Those are easy to spot. These types like to have their cake, eat it to, without even cleaning up after themselves. There are a lot of people who don't back up what they state in their profile. I was with a lady today and we spoke of this same thing. People hype there profiles with all the superlatives and what they can do yada yada. However, when you talk to them or meet them, you start to see the inconsistencies and lies (things don't add up). You will see how nit picky some are, and how their true colors begin to surface after the smokescreen fades away. Many hype their profiles obviously to draw attention to themselves with the superlatives. Ultimately, it doesn't work in the long run for many because the true colors will always trump written superlatives if they are not true or over-exaggerated. [Edited 10/25/2008 8:44:54 PM]
10/25/2008 8:52:02 PM	Alot of you talk of this, i want this, i want that..
theshadow_ Beaver, UT age: 38	I agree Thebestman, it's interesting that you bring up profiles. I think alot copy and past They have no clue on who they are or where there going in life. I can't count how many profiles i read in the two years i been on the net that are just the same ole same ole. the thing is about profiles. it's a thing that is set up for what one wants. Not even i have it on my profile on as what i'm ables to give so much. The thing with me and my appearance, i attrack some women that are just The thing is, if they took the time to read. I bet i wouldn't get some of the emails i do. like you said. I can back up 100% of who i am and what i'm capable of giving. The key word you said was, bing true to yourself...
10/25/2008 8:52:35 PM	Alot of you talk of this, i want this, i want that..
klassyklown Bakersfield, CA age: 40	I am willing to give what he needs when he needs it. As long as he is willing to give when I need it. It is not about what women give, it is about what we are willing to give each other.
10/25/2008 9:04:53 PM	Alot of you talk of this, i want this, i want that..
sw1981 Philadelphia, PA age: 27	Ask them.
10/25/2008 9:06:52 PM	Alot of you talk of this, i want this, i want that..
karmahappens Peabody, MA age: 38	I often think about this.. I once went out with this guy and he would say how he was always looking for a faithful and honest woman.. Turns out he wasnt so faithful or honest. (sorry I had to use someone else as an example) After that I got to thinking...hmm How can someone ASK for a certain quality , when they dont have that same quality in themselves? Which in turn got me thinking...What do I ask for in another person, that I myself might not be? Yes I can honestly answer this with pride ,that when I get into another relationship I will, and do give what I would want in return. But In truth ,I am not willing to give all that much to find out if someone else is not what they portray right now. Thank you for this thread...And asking what I have thought about myself.
10/25/2008 9:19:46 PM	Alot of you talk of this, i want this, i want that..
theshadow_ Beaver, UT age: 38	Yeah Karmahappens, there is a limit to thing when your first getting to know somone and the first couple months are so crucial. But being on the net and knowing alot of us will meet people that live long distance. it's hard to get to know somone knowing you don't have that face to face contact that we actually need. So there for we are taking a risk and hope for the better, but at the same time. Not letting fear get in the way of one actually living and allowing them to be who they are.
10/25/2008 9:29:20 PM	Alot of you talk of this, i want this, i want that..
rss0412 McHenry, IL age: 46	i've been alone to long. i don't want this or that anymore. to old and tired for those games. just snuggle with me, and i'm happy.

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