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10/25/2008 11:46:09 PM	what can it be?
barbarajt Rochester, NY age: 38	when i meet new people theres always something wrong... heres some examples.. 1. i met a guy who was nice but i couldnt get past the fact he had boobs... i mean he was handsome in the face but heavy in the middle, they wiggled... ewwww 2. another guy all he did was talk about my lips, dam what a turn off, how about a get to know you convo? 3.i know im getting older but for some reason i dont like gray hair on a man... not meaning to be shallow 4.another person who wanted to meet, well they dont drive which means id be stuck doing all the driving.. yes he works, but next thing you know its can i borrow your car? is it just me , am i too picky or am i afraid of something?
10/26/2008 2:21:04 AM	what can it be?
nunbttr Middletown, OH age: 61	<-----------Has gray hair. And you do have nice lips. I guess only you can answer that last question. It ultimately ends up being how you feel about someone, whether you get to be an item, or not. If something about a person is a deal breaker, then tell them it won't work, and move on. Don't get discouraged, there is someone out there for you.
10/26/2008 2:31:03 AM	what can it be?
th6231 Point Pleasant Beach, NJ age: 61	Nope--you have what we all have--desired attributes--and why not?? Maintain your standards. good luck to you
10/26/2008 2:32:49 AM	what can it be?
sapphireblue579 Jackson, MI age: 50	Quote from barbarajt: when i meet new people theres always something wrong... heres some examples.. 1. i met a guy who was nice but i couldnt get past the fact he had boobs... i mean he was handsome in the face but heavy in the middle, they wiggled... ewwww 2. another guy all he did was talk about my lips, dam what a turn off, how about a get to know you convo? 3.i know im getting older but for some reason i dont like gray hair on a man... not meaning to be shallow 4.another person who wanted to meet, well they dont drive which means id be stuck doing all the driving.. yes he works, but next thing you know its can i borrow your car? is it just me , am i too picky or am i afraid of something? I've met worse! Your expectations are NOT too high. If the guy has issues or just doesn't turn you on, then just walk on. You don't owe them anything.
10/26/2008 6:01:27 AM	what can it be?
onesmartlady Huntington, NY age: 37	If you don't find another person physically attractive, or they disclose things which you KNOW would not work for you, then you decide whether or not you want to discuss it with the person and then if it can't be resolved, or it isn't worth your energy, you move on. There is nothing unreasonable or shallow about identifying what characteristics you do and do not like in another person. It is important to be honest with yourself, as well as the other person. If someone doesn't 'flip your skirt' then you have a decision to make. I happen to think salt and pepper hair is very distinguished on a man, but I am a big picture person. I have to allow myself to consider more than whether or not a person's physical appearance causes me to be weak in the knees. Decide what you want, identify what you offer and have fun! Remember....this is YOUR life! Good luck~ [Edited 10/26/2008 6:05:26 AM]
10/26/2008 6:23:14 AM	what can it be?
kitise Greenwood, SC age: 30	grey hair, boobs etc...yes maam..now you will be able to attract many guys.
10/26/2008 6:29:55 AM	what can it be?
optimystk Fort Mohave, AZ age: 47	I started going grey at 35, But refuse to dye my hair just to impress a women like you what color are you thismonth?
10/26/2008 6:37:55 AM	what can it be?
sharolas Elk Grove Village, IL age: 38	Quote from barbarajt: when i meet new people theres always something wrong... heres some examples.. 1. i met a guy who was nice but i couldnt get past the fact he had boobs... i mean he was handsome in the face but heavy in the middle, they wiggled... ewwww 2. another guy all he did was talk about my lips, dam what a turn off, how about a get to know you convo? 3.i know im getting older but for some reason i dont like gray hair on a man... not meaning to be shallow 4.another person who wanted to meet, well they dont drive which means id be stuck doing all the driving.. yes he works, but next thing you know its can i borrow your car? is it just me , am i too picky or am i afraid of something? You are attract to different kind of people. If there is no chemistry or attraction to the ones you meet move on. You don't seem to picky at all nor do you find yourself afraid. You have your standards for yourself and I would just be you. No one can make you change your standards but yourself. Good Luck.
10/26/2008 6:40:19 AM	what can it be?
sparks60 Marion, OH age: 60	Quote from barbarajt: when i meet new people theres always something wrong... heres some examples.. 1. i met a guy who was nice but i couldnt get past the fact he had boobs... i mean he was handsome in the face but heavy in the middle, they wiggled... ewwww 2. another guy all he did was talk about my lips, dam what a turn off, how about a get to know you convo? 3.i know im getting older but for some reason i dont like gray hair on a man... not meaning to be shallow 4.another person who wanted to meet, well they dont drive which means id be stuck doing all the driving.. yes he works, but next thing you know its can i borrow your car? is it just me , am i too picky or am i afraid of something? Lots of middle aged women look good with their make-up, dyed hair, and push-up bras. Sooner or later though - they gotta get naked with their partner.
10/26/2008 6:45:11 AM	what can it be?
zeanah Clarion, PA age: 49	I like men with graying hair, bald, with lots of hair, BUT....I cannot handle a mullet, a toupe or comb overs. It is just something I can't handle in the "attraction" issue. I have dated all variety of shapes, but man boobies? I don't think I could handle to big of man boobies.Although, I like a man that has some substance to cuddle with. I guess I just know when I see him and talk to him, if the spark is there or not! Hey...I am far from perfect and try to be as fair as I would want a man to be to me. But if the attraction is not there, for whatever reason, it just isn't! "Z"
10/26/2008 6:48:17 AM	what can it be?
mlyon83 Fort Campbell, KY age: 24 online now!	Quote from barbarajt: when i meet new people theres always something wrong... heres some examples.. 1. i met a guy who was nice but i couldnt get past the fact he had boobs... i mean he was handsome in the face but heavy in the middle, they wiggled... ewwww 2. another guy all he did was talk about my lips, dam what a turn off, how about a get to know you convo? 3.i know im getting older but for some reason i dont like gray hair on a man... not meaning to be shallow 4.another person who wanted to meet, well they dont drive which means id be stuck doing all the driving.. yes he works, but next thing you know its can i borrow your car? is it just me , am i too picky or am i afraid of something? You're not being picky at all. I'll never date a woman without a job, a car, and she has to be at least as old as me or within 5 years younger. Then once we meet, she needs to have a good personality/sense of humor, have a clean mouth, and meet other standards. Always put standards in place. [Edited 10/26/2008 6:49:50 AM]
10/26/2008 6:56:25 AM	what can it be?
soloact59 Albuquerque, NM age: 49	Oops wrong thread, I have some gray hair. Backs out of thread slowly. Truth is I'm not real trilled about it either, but I won't color it. That's eewwww to me But seriously, while we all have standards we want someone to meet, the more we have the harder it is for someone to be able to reach them and the less chance we have of finding a suitable mate. If that's what you seek. For me, say I have ten things I won't put up with. Never fails I'll meet someone who meets nine out of ten, or meets all ten but has some other issue I didn't even thing about before. At what point do all their positive attributes out weigh the negative one. Not to mention the times they meet all your standards but you don't meet all of theirs. Then it's back to square one, which can be a very lonely place. JMO Good luck though, really. [Edited 10/26/2008 7:09:55 AM]
10/26/2008 8:00:23 AM	what can it be?
prednisonegirl Sioux City, IA age: 47	Nope, you aren't too picky nor afraid..you just don't have the chemistry with that person. Nothing wrong with that. I heard a great story and I will share it with you~ You go to the Animal Humane Society to get a puppy. All they have on hand is one cat. You are mad, but don't want to leave empty handed..so you take the cat. Every day you try to make that cat act like a puppy..and he won't....because he is a CAT. Now you are very pissed because you are stuck with this cat. That has been my life story..I try to make a cat a puppy and it won't work. So don't try to make the chemistry be there if it isn't. Wait for your puppy honey and don't settle for the cat..you'll just be pissed! Good luck! Pgirl
10/26/2008 8:01:45 AM	what can it be?
thebestman Alpharetta, GA age: 34 online now!	You are not being picky.
10/26/2008 8:09:01 AM	what can it be?
brujacakes2 Jim Thorpe, PA age: 36 online now!	As a whole (to unfairly summarize everybody) I think everyone should be alot MORE picky about who they choose to contact, date, be-friend. I'm all about quality over quanity. just my simple, unasked for opinion.

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