11/11/2008 9:37:53 PM |
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lillibet

New South Wales
Australia
age: 52
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So I recieved an email of the most colourful vulgar descriptive wording ever seen in my time so far...And what revolts me more is that its from a 60 year old man ...He is the second 60 odd year old man on here to verbally abuse me ..To say I am am disgusted is an understatement...And all over my posting in two seperate forums.... What an excellent example for younger american men wow you both must be so proud of yourselves....All I feel is pity for you sick bastards and God help any woman who has the misfortune to meet you either on here or in the real world....     
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11/11/2008 9:38:47 PM |
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thebestman

Alpharetta, GA
age: 36
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Do you want me to take care of that for you?
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11/11/2008 9:42:18 PM |
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lillibet

New South Wales
Australia
age: 52
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Hi only the bestman will do thankyou for your concern glad to have you as a cherished friend.... ciao lilly.  
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11/11/2008 9:44:08 PM |
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jessejamez4u
San Dimas, CA
age: 35
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Get over it! Welcome to the web
[Edited 11/11/2008 9:44:25 PM PST]
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11/11/2008 9:49:37 PM |
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stress_test

Northport, WA
age: 45
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Lilli at the bottom of the emails there are options to flag them.
Emails are given far greater priority than forum posts and abusive members are usually deleted quickly.
I hate to say it but those profiles regardless of what the age says, are usually kids sneaking on playing games.
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11/11/2008 9:55:23 PM |
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lillibet

New South Wales
Australia
age: 52
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stress test thankyou I do know one of them is 62 he posts here often the other man posted in a forum and then sent me 3 full lines of abuse and name calling because i posted...And yes i am learning about getting rid of undesirables....Thanks again..ciao lilly
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11/11/2008 9:55:53 PM |
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nooneinnocent
Noblesville, IN
age: 30
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Don't be so quick to put these men on such a high pedestal as to say they are setting an example for the youth. The awesome thing is that kids are actually a lot smarter than what people give them credit for. If you honestly think that kids will see two sick perverted old men and think, huh, i want to be like him when I grow up? Na. If you do think this, then you have met very many young people.
They have free will and by the time they would be able to understand what those things mean, they have their own set of morals and values.
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11/11/2008 9:55:54 PM |
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mistymae34
Las Vegas, NV
age: 35
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Get over it! Welcome to the web 
Why should we have to get over it? What ever happened to manners and common courtesy? Unless you are already involved in a conversation that contains this langue why should any of us be subjected to it when it was is not warranted or provoked.
Manners in all aspects of life are what SHOULD be instilled. Just because you are not within close proximity to someone does not excuse rude behavior. Everyone is loved by someone and are common bond is humanity but for some reason we feel that people should just endure our rude behavior because why????? We can't kick your a** right now?
We are all adults here and it's time that we act like it. IMHO
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11/11/2008 9:58:33 PM |
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deniselaina

Chandler, AZ
age: 52
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Yeah , I know the piece of crap she's talking about , you don't have take it Lillibet , and Jesse , your gonna get alot of gurlzz that way , HA , WELCOME TO THE INTERNET !!!! 
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11/11/2008 9:59:36 PM |
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wazer

South Bend, IN
age: 24
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lol
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11/11/2008 10:00:44 PM |
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jessejamez4u
San Dimas, CA
age: 35
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Why should we have to get over it? What ever happened to manners and common courtesy? Unless you are already involved in a conversation that contains this langue why should any of us be subjected to it when it was is not warranted or provoked.
Manners in all aspects of life are what SHOULD be instilled. Just because you are not within close proximity to someone does not excuse rude behavior. Everyone is loved by someone and are common bond is humanity but for some reason we feel that people should just endure our rude behavior because why????? We can't kick your a** right now?
We are all adults here and it's time that we act like it. IMHO
I never said it was okay. It's wrong, but it will never change. This is the Web and you need to know how to blow it off and not take it personal. As an adult you should know that and move on! 
[Edited 11/11/2008 10:05:30 PM PST]
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11/11/2008 10:07:31 PM |
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lillibet

New South Wales
Australia
age: 52
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mistymae you are so right its all about respecting others and treating others as you would like to be treated...And yes we are adults it would be great if more folks acted like it...Thankyou deniselaina and nooneinnocent i think you may have misinterpreted what i was saying its actually being smart most young people have far more respect than these older men that have been so foul mouthed... And why should any of us have to get over it???It shouldnt occur in the first place I havent ever used such vulgarity in my life I am not an abusive person and no one needs to be spoken to in such a crude manner...That goes for men and women...   
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11/11/2008 10:10:01 PM |
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mistymae34
Las Vegas, NV
age: 35
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I never said it was okay.  It's wrong, but it will never change. This is the Web and you need to know how to blow it off and not take it personal. As an adult you should know that and move on! 
So what if this is the web. How is that any different from being on the telephone or in a parking lot? It doesn't and I am sorry but at some point in our lives enough is enough.
As an adult we have a responsibility and obligation to address and try to correct a wrong. Most people learn from observation. You start a thread that has nothing but negative comments that is all you will get. However, start a thread with a positive attitude and stay vigilant that everyone post without bashing you have made a difference.
I have seen it on here many times...So no reminding people that actions carry consequences even on the web is a responsibility and "blowing" it off negates that.
[Edited 11/11/2008 10:15:34 PM PST]
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11/11/2008 10:10:52 PM |
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hotcowgirl4u
Ottumwa, IA
age: 48
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Why should we have to get over it? What ever happened to manners and common courtesy? Unless you are already involved in a conversation that contains this langue why should any of us be subjected to it when it was is not warranted or provoked.
Manners in all aspects of life are what SHOULD be instilled. Just because you are not within close proximity to someone does not excuse rude behavior. Everyone is loved by someone and are common bond is humanity but for some reason we feel that people should just endure our rude behavior because why????? We can't kick your a** right now?
We are all adults here and it's time that we act like it. IMHO
BIG ^5 to Misty
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11/11/2008 10:12:07 PM |
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stress_test

Northport, WA
age: 45
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I never said it was okay.  It's wrong, but it will never change. This is the Web and you need to know how to blow it off and not take it personal. As an adult you should know that and move on! 
As adults we are part of a community.
As a community we have the option of deciding what behavior is and is not acceptable. The same as nudity, this IS an adult site but it ISN'T an adult porn site. Nor is it a site when people congregate to be abused.
If we ALL blow it off and move on, pretty soon it is determined that it is acceptable and then everybody does it like they did the fake and multiple profiles.
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11/11/2008 10:19:16 PM |
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jessejamez4u
San Dimas, CA
age: 35
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[Edited 11/11/2008 10:23:44 PM PST]
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11/11/2008 10:24:36 PM |
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vegasdiceman2
Las Vegas, NV
age: 41
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I guess it all boils down to.."My momma raised me right" I would never even think to disrespect any of the people in this, or any other site. Every person has feelings and are capable of having those feelings hurt. Why would anyone think it is Ok to verbally harm another person. Even if this is "Just the net" it still doesn't change the fact that you are dealing with real people with real emotions. I hope thier momma's are proud of thier actions 
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11/11/2008 10:30:20 PM |
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nooneinnocent
Noblesville, IN
age: 30
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I have to say that when I joined this site, I joined because of the name. The word Hookup has a certain implication that goes along with it. I never thought that anyone on this site would be looking for lasting love. I would have to say that I am not the only one who got this impression, and that being said, I would expect people who have taken this implication to say things that are off color.
I'm not saying it's right, but I can see where it comes from. Besides that, there are some sick people in this world. We all know that.
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11/11/2008 10:35:51 PM |
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klassyklown

Bakersfield, CA
age: 41
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I hear you lillibet. When I first came on here I didn't understand all the threads like these. But now I understand perfectly. I understand the posts that is, I definitely do not the understand the vulgarity. And something is seriously wrong when I have to check myself and ask if this is the norm and am I just too naieve and prudish, or are there just way too many sick people out there.
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11/11/2008 10:41:15 PM |
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lillibet

New South Wales
Australia
age: 52
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hi klassy its just so offensive to be getting called vulgar names and 3 lines of smut and abuse just because you post your opinion... I really dont like the F word and the C word to name a few...Im no prude but really I cant see the need for such abuse ...Its what we call gutter talk here in Aussie meaning its pretty low down.. 
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11/11/2008 10:47:34 PM |
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klassyklown

Bakersfield, CA
age: 41
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I agree, and I am sorry. I am glad you are back. I have missed you. And don't let those losers chase you away again, we need your golden heart around here.
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11/11/2008 10:53:49 PM |
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lillibet

New South Wales
Australia
age: 52
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oh thankyou klassy thankyou kindly and its always great to see your beautiful smile..Take care ciao lillibet. 
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11/12/2008 12:57:03 AM |
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singlcuteguy
Leominster, MA
age: 40
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Woah - jesse, are those Helghasts?? I never knew they lived on the internetz!!! 
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11/12/2008 8:02:24 AM |
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cajunmister

Kinder, LA
age: 59
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Sounds like old fart bashing; makes me me so ????so??? Hell I forgot.
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