| 10/7/2007 2:34:10 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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It seems like the majority of topics with men. Don't get me wrong I enjoy it. But there is more to life than just sex.
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| 10/7/2007 2:35:31 PM |
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luvrofgold
Storm Lake, IA
age: 35
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im not obsessed with it...its nice but its not the most important thing 
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| 10/7/2007 2:37:10 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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I guess I just pick the ones that are obsessed with it than. They don't finf the time to take interest in me for who I am
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| 10/7/2007 2:39:22 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 42
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Who knows..I know we all have our moments and sure it's fun but, there is soooo much more to life and in dating it seems to me it should be one of the last things you discuss.
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/7/2007 2:42:35 PM |
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truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 53
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I've haven't talked but to one man that seemed to obesessed with talking about sex. The 3 I talk to on a regular basis is more interested in me and what I do than anything and those that I do have a lot question about the job I do and that seems to interest them mor than anything.
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| 10/7/2007 2:42:43 PM |
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yankeeluvspeach
Athens, GA
age: 30
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it's partly because our society still considers sex a secret/sacred thing that now with the internet, people who are bored come on and want to see just how far that envelope will be pushed. It's also partly an evolution thing. If you look at Maslow's Heirarchy of needs (spelling?) sex is one of the few PRIMAL needs that isn't provided for us in today's world of modern convience. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maslow's_hierarchy_of_needs
food, water and shelter are basically a given in with our current technology in America, and there aren't major threats from predators outside of our own species, so the only drive that's left is sex. I don't know.. does that make any sense or am I over analysing the situation. I've been told I do that..
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| 10/7/2007 2:43:25 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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The topic of the day. Sex always gets peoples attentoin. I don't mind discussing it I guess as long as it stays tasteful.
Even my x-hubby still tries to hit me up for it. And he has a g-friend. What pig huh
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| 10/7/2007 2:43:31 PM |
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angelleyes
Plymouth, MA
age: 36
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i wish i had the answer to that dam question i think it would make me rich!!!! i just dont get it why does it seem that the first thing most men wanna talk about is sex BIG TURN OFF FOR ME !!!!!!
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| 10/7/2007 2:45:24 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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I suppose it dose make sense. But the over analizing is still there just a bit. But I got a kick out if.
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| 10/7/2007 2:49:30 PM |
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yankeeluvspeach
Athens, GA
age: 30
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glad I could if nothing else, at least amuse someone with my rantings.
(note to self, stop babbling)
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| 10/7/2007 2:50:50 PM |
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professer2
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 54
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You know, I think a lot of men are not obsessed with sex,
use to be, maybe more than now,
go out Friday nites and try and get laid.
But, I see a lot more men here,just trying to get to know the female species,
which is good,
then we can go out and have a better chance to get laid.
heheheeeeeee
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| 10/7/2007 2:52:51 PM |
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chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 48
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professer2 ... what a way to turn it around
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| 10/7/2007 2:54:40 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 42
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I'd much rather read someone who babbles then someone who just types the first crude thing they can think of. lol
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/7/2007 2:55:11 PM |
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allinthedo
Tracy, CA
age: 31
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for the same reasons women are! We just aren't look at as hoes if we talk about it so we do! That is why we are labeled obsessed!
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| 10/7/2007 2:56:33 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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Wow. there is an analogy for you. Get to know the girl first, get there hopes up, get laid then dump 'em and go to the next. Way to make a girl feel better about the situation she is in. Thanx 
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| 10/7/2007 2:57:41 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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I enjoy the babbeling myself. It keeps things light heated around here for the most part.
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| 10/7/2007 2:57:47 PM |
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wnd_dragon
Morristown, TN
age: 30
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Allin is right... We just cant express all the "crude" thoughts we have without it being considered taboo! We get labeled with bad names or tags if we admit the things that go through our minds...
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| 10/7/2007 2:57:51 PM |
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luvrofgold
Storm Lake, IA
age: 35
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if i was obsessed with sex i wouldn't be on here, no way i'm going to drive 1000 miles just to get laid....JMO
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| 10/7/2007 2:58:59 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 42
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It's ok to say whatever you wanna but, common there is a time and place for it right?
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/7/2007 3:02:26 PM |
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allinthedo
Tracy, CA
age: 31
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i didnt know you were actualy looking for help! I think the best advice for you is to reread your second post to your thread! You already know the problem! If thats what they talk about, talk to someone new!
GENIOUS! ! !
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| 10/7/2007 3:11:11 PM |
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yankeeluvspeach
Athens, GA
age: 30
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I think the real question we need to ask ourselves is why is it that women are slotted with this role of gate keeper when it comes to sex. It's like that old kid's game. "red rover red rover, send richard on over" where guys are supposed to try to "Get away" with as much sex as possible and women are supposed to play the role of frigid queen that gets seduced. Why can't men be more reserved/show more self control and women be more flirtatious. Mix things up. That's what I say.
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| 10/7/2007 3:12:55 PM |
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hillbilly9
Poplar Bluff, MO
age: 57
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Why do some women put all men in the same category, subset, arena, etc, and really expect a rational answer? I'm a man and I am not obsessed with it. 
I've got more to say but dammit gotta go. Think about it!
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| 10/7/2007 3:13:33 PM |
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luvrofgold
Storm Lake, IA
age: 35
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I dont think women are the gate keepers.....I plan on waiting til marriage or close to it and its scared off a few ladies from me
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| 10/7/2007 3:15:04 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 42
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We all have thoughts and emotions, some ppl are really freaky but, It's where you show that is the issue to me..I don't care..everyone knows i'm a hella flirt but, I don't chose to discuss what I would do or possible do in forums. 
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/7/2007 3:16:07 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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Because all the men we seem to meet seem to have the same thing in common. So if we end up meeting someone who is different than we will take (all) out of the phrase.
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| 10/7/2007 3:18:39 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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I said help to get rid of the guy who messes with peoples minds and then screws them. If you read you would know that.
Hellooooooooooo.
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| 10/7/2007 3:20:55 PM |
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allinthedo
Tracy, CA
age: 31
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Who is we? You are the one that was asking for help! Then when someone says something you dont wish to hear then we are "babbling"! We see what the problem is. Keep calling the people that have intelligent posts to your thread babblers, while you continue to have conversations with the guys that want to know about the ways you can suck a d*ck!
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| 10/7/2007 3:20:59 PM |
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melbie7769
Houma, LA
age: 31
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It jus aint men I want it to be good, great, and often!!!
Smooches Melbie
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| 10/7/2007 3:21:35 PM |
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luvrofgold
Storm Lake, IA
age: 35
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blow him off....dont talk to him anymore.....he'll get the picture.....if hes already in your life get rid of him....tell him its over, kick him out, or whatever....noone deserves to be with someone who plays games.....man or woman
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| 10/7/2007 3:23:42 PM |
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britbrit
Gloucester, MA
age: 23
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hmmmm.... I dont think its just men that are obsessed!
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| 10/7/2007 3:24:05 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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Couldn't tell ya how many times I have tried that. And if he weren't the father of my son, I would walk away completly. Actually.. I probably would hve moved out of the state by now.
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| 10/7/2007 3:24:09 PM |
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allinthedo
Tracy, CA
age: 31
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or blow him and just dont talk about it!
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| 10/7/2007 3:25:05 PM |
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luvrofgold
Storm Lake, IA
age: 35
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doesnt matter....you gotta do whats best for you and your kid....not him
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| 10/7/2007 3:25:06 PM |
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cheygirl
Cheyenne, WY
age: 44
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Men? When did this become a men only problem? Wait....who said it was a problem?
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| 10/7/2007 3:25:51 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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no. I feel like that girl off of hitch when they are trying to talk at the swaping tables to find a date, who yells out that shes going crazy cause she hasn't had any for a year. Well........ I am almost there
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| 10/7/2007 3:26:34 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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Ya I do. Thats why i have gone so long without because that has been my maine focus since before my sons father and I split. He couldn't stand the attention his son was getting
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| 10/7/2007 3:27:22 PM |
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luvrofgold
Storm Lake, IA
age: 35
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i havent had any for goin on to 5 yrs...patience will pay off
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| 10/7/2007 3:28:08 PM |
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castertroy
Belmar, NJ
age: 39
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I think we are missing the point here.
If you are going to have an obssession , sex is the way to go no?
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| 10/7/2007 3:28:16 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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Wow. Well i guess you get use to it after a while.huh. No offense.
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| 10/7/2007 3:28:55 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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Ya until there is an oops. Than your obsessed with the oops
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| 10/7/2007 3:29:36 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 42
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I only see it as a problem when we let it...I was just looking for deeper convo's today.
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/7/2007 3:29:48 PM |
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luvrofgold
Storm Lake, IA
age: 35
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none taken....lol yes you do get used to it does it make it easier, no, but you learn to look at the opposite sex differently
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| 10/7/2007 3:30:15 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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Patients is definately something I have had to have more of since my son. He is almost three and I am still waiting for hime to speak. One day he will.
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| 10/7/2007 3:30:59 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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I once said it was one sided. Go back and read.
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| 10/7/2007 3:31:15 PM |
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allinthedo
Tracy, CA
age: 31
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so the father of your son is obsessed with sex, not all men right?
Your son is almost 3 and he doesn't say anything?
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| 10/7/2007 3:31:22 PM |
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1mt
Johnstown, PA
age: 55
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i do not see where this is a problem and the ladies are just as sex crazy as the men. we come on hwere and talk about it but how many people on here are actually going to lay or get laid with a partner from here. lots or talk very little action
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| 10/7/2007 3:31:40 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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I wll when I can figure it out with out sending it in smart a** budah guy
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| 10/7/2007 3:32:24 PM |
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professer2
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 54
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Yea, in fact physically a man comes,
and a woman comes and comes and comes and no stopping the ordeal,
geez-it.
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| 10/7/2007 3:32:41 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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and every ohter guy I have dated
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| 10/7/2007 3:33:38 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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good point but its about why male are obsessed
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| 10/7/2007 3:33:50 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 42
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Well, sounds like you need to be pickier...And I'm the last one to say I don't go along...I have my moments I just wanna cut up and goof off too.
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/7/2007 3:33:56 PM |
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melbie7769
Houma, LA
age: 31
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Jus a question at hand here folks!!!
WHY THE F*CK ARE YOU BRINGING A FAMILY CONVERSATION INTO THE SEX AND DATING THREAD????
Jus my thought out loud!!!
Smooches Melbie
Notice i did not say FORUM i said a thread which should be in sex and dating again that is jus my opinion!!!
~M~
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| 10/7/2007 3:33:58 PM |
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allinthedo
Tracy, CA
age: 31
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your son doesn't say anything?
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| 10/7/2007 3:35:13 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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you need to change your pic its kinda freaky lookin, and no he doesnt
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| 10/7/2007 3:39:21 PM |
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allinthedo
Tracy, CA
age: 31
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thats your problem, people that get to know me know how nice of a person i am! thats why i put this pic up! This pic is here so the people that want to look at someone and judge wether they take it further will pass me up. they will continue to do like you and look for a sexy dude that wants to talk about sex! I dont want anyone that is in it for looks. I have pics elsewhere if someone is interested and they aren't hard to find!
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| 10/7/2007 3:40:04 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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well melbie what do you have to add, other than your presence, to the conversation
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| 10/7/2007 3:40:58 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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Neither am I but you look like you are on crack
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| 10/7/2007 3:41:31 PM |
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joann1980
Roseburg, OR
age: 29
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No offense
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| 10/7/2007 3:42:30 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 42
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Staying on topic...*coughs* It's not just a male thing..It's "where" it's discussed...jmo
xoxoPeaches.
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| 10/7/2007 3:42:33 PM |
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allinthedo
Tracy, CA
age: 31
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realy though, if your son is almost 3, and he doesn't say anything at all, you may want to refocus your problems! My son just turned 2 and he can tell you all about football, when he's hungry and when he wants to go outside and play!
you obviously dont know much about drugs! unless you used to use it when you were pregnant! Maybe thats why he cant talk and he's almost 3!
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