pcaquaman
Ridgecrest, CA
age: 34
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I am new to the area and have alot going on in my life and dont think I would be an idea boyfriend. Do woman feel the same way sometimes?
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ylekiot
Carson City, NV
age: 51 online now!
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I wouldn't say you're a jerk, but I think a prerequisite for true intimacy is attachment, at least at some level. Just my 2 cents.
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ravensgirl
Fort Mitchell, KY
age: 38 online now!
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Been there done that.... Tried that for one year and discovered that i was more attached than i thought i was until he ended it bc he was becoming attached and was afraid to move forward. Every once in a while he will text late and i have to restrain from unlocking the front door so he can get in... but it is a difficult situation. We were monogamous when we were together... but we weren't ready for a full blown relationship. It was painful when we stopped depending on each other for that physical committment. We were so close it made it hard to end... like five houses away and we didn't want the neighborhood to know..and especially our kids. We were both single at the time... so it wasn't an affair. I was newly going through a divorce, his wife passed away at 34yrs old (both things happened on the same day...Thanksgiving. It was helpful to both of us.... we enjoyed it and i admit i miss it....but i wouldn't do it again with another....
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