11/20/2008 6:22:59 PM |
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bonedaddy1965
Midlothian, VA
age: 44
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I would really like to know cause its drivin me crazy.I have given time love blood money care gifts help so much somebody help
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11/20/2008 6:25:23 PM |
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1bigiron

Stafford, KS
age: 46
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Some body has to pick up the peaces
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11/20/2008 6:25:39 PM |
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raydawg300
Bedford, OH
age: 27
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I figure its because if you want something you have to take it most of the time (and I'm not talking about rape). But it seems like its easier to be an a**hole. I'm no a**hole, but, I'm working on finding a middle ground, because people just use people that are to nice...sad I know.
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11/20/2008 6:26:59 PM |
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bonedaddy1965
Midlothian, VA
age: 44
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yeah it seems being an a**hole seems to be the norm
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11/20/2008 6:34:01 PM |
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bonedaddy1965
Midlothian, VA
age: 44
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hmmmmmm any ladies care to add something to this would love to hear from them
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11/20/2008 6:35:48 PM |
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phuntobearound
Crystal Lake, IL
age: 40
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From my experience, it isn't the nice guys that are problems it's the one who are clingy, opressive (call you multiple times a day), condependent. Often they think of themselves as nice & they probably are but they're usually stiffling and give up too much of themselves to please the other person. I usually end up with this type because they keep it together for a while and then when they get comfortable their true selves come to the surface. I want an equal not an ass-kisser.
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11/20/2008 6:37:03 PM |
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1bigiron

Stafford, KS
age: 46
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Women are garbage. What do you expect?
Do you really think that?hmmmmmmmmmm That is sad.
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11/20/2008 6:40:08 PM |
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mrj4u

Terre Haute, IN
age: 49
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theres a difference between being an a** kisser and being considerate. I think a lot of women aren't used to being treated well all the time, and overevaluate that fact.
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11/20/2008 6:44:06 PM |
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nickiename

Las Cruces, NM
age: 38
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'cause they're so polite they let everyone else cut in front of them in line? 
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11/20/2008 6:44:32 PM |
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bonedaddy1965
Midlothian, VA
age: 44
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well im not an a** kisser lol considerate i am
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11/20/2008 6:46:33 PM |
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bigdog747

Roswell, NM
age: 90
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<----- not nice... 
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11/20/2008 6:48:10 PM |
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joefo99
Derry, NH
age: 43
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I think good guys only finish last if their name is Bone Daddy....

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11/20/2008 6:48:14 PM |
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redmaryjane
Mayfield, KY
age: 34
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Because good guys always let her finish first.Sorry could'nt resist.LOL.
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11/20/2008 6:50:20 PM |
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sowhats
Hamilton, OH
age: 37
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From my experience, it isn't the nice guys that are problems it's the one who are clingy, opressive (call you multiple times a day), condependent. Often they think of themselves as nice & they probably are but they're usually stiffling and give up too much of themselves to please the other person. I usually end up with this type because they keep it together for a while and then when they get comfortable their true selves come to the surface. I want an equal not an ass-kisser.
the key is , 2 a** kissers finding each other. those couples make me sick, i am jealous of them.
[Edited 11/20/2008 6:50:41 PM PST]
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11/20/2008 6:50:52 PM |
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phuntobearound
Crystal Lake, IL
age: 40
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I've never been treated badly so this is not a doesn't know better. These men spend their time trying to please you at the expense of themselves. Even the OP stated "time love blood money care gifts help". That is smothering, it isn't "nice" or "considerate" it's codependent and stiffling.
My ex. husband for example, a basically nice guy who tried too hard to please me. He'd call at a minimum 7 times a day (usually 10 or more), wanted to be with me, not our kids, would have done anything for me. When he couldn't understand why I wanted to divorce him (there many other reasons beyond this, alcohoism, spending problem etc.) he went to a therapist and after his description she told him he was stiffling me.
[Edited 11/20/2008 6:55:11 PM PST]
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