11/23/2008 3:07:11 PM |
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hayseed7166
Prescott, AZ
age: 52
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why is it that people come on here if they dont want to find someone?
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11/24/2008 1:02:24 PM |
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1alaskaman
Manley Hot Springs, AK
age: 52
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Don't know. I get alot that just want penpals etc. I'm too busy fer that. I think most women on here have boyfriends etc & are just lookin to trade up. Then there's alot that just want a fling or one nighter etc. I get alot of that too. It seems the ones over 35 or so are the ones who don't want to settle down or they want a boy that they can take care of. They have their jobs & careers & don't want a man that can take care of them. The younger (25-35 or so) are more the traditionalist & want to be the stay at home type. Of cource I don't have to work away from home so can spoil full time,lol.I'm not worried about what their age is anymore 20-50,lol.
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11/30/2008 5:51:46 AM |
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optimystk
Fort Mohave, AZ
age: 48
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I have no Idea, but as long as they state it up front
no worries
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12/18/2008 6:41:04 PM |
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nicguyeddie
Glendale, AZ
age: 32
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I dont know but i do know that i am looking for the right one
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1/1/2009 4:24:09 AM |
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kantc
Bullhead City, AZ
age: 50
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we want to find someone, we just have choices
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1/2/2009 5:13:43 AM |
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1lastchance
Apache Junction, AZ
age: 56
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I'm lookin' for the real thing, but it's not my top priority right at the moment. I just relocated here and there's still a lot to do to become established here. I'm trying to find a job for one thing. I'm not sure "true love" is to be found, so at least I'm where I want to be, in Az, if it isn't.
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1/2/2009 10:04:43 AM |
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dreams2711
Peoria, AZ
age: 41
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I am on here truly searching. I cannot speek for everyone else...to me online dating/searching is just another outlet. I am 41 and single, not really into the bar scene and not from AZ originally--so seems like a good place to maybe make some friends and hopefully something more.
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1/31/2009 2:10:13 PM |
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horseylady2
Lockport, NY
age: 51
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Don't know. I get alot that just want penpals etc. I'm too busy fer that. I think most women on here have boyfriends etc & are just lookin to trade up. Then there's alot that just want a fling or one nighter etc. I get alot of that too. It seems the ones over 35 or so are the ones who don't want to settle down or they want a boy that they can take care of. They have their jobs & careers & don't want a man that can take care of them. The younger (25-35 or so) are more the traditionalist & want to be the stay at home type. Of cource I don't have to work away from home so can spoil full time,lol.I'm not worried about what their age is anymore 20-50,lol.
Well 1alaskaman! not everyone wants a one nighter or penpals--maybe some people are looking for the real thing and how u presented ur profile before--i think u scared a lot of women off! who wants to move to alaska and be snowed in the middle of no where?? i dont see to many women who are totaly dependent upon a man today--with today's society we are taught to have a career and take care of the home--so i hope u have a great weekend -- its snowing again in NY--horseylady
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1/31/2009 5:33:23 PM |
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mjsrose
Goodyear, AZ
age: 47
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I am over 35 and I do not have a boyfriend to trade in or up. Nor am I looking for a fling or one night stand (am worth more then that). I have already raised my children and do not what to raise any more. I do work and support myself(have sense i was 13). Would like to find a man to stand beside me and share my life. Not someone to take care of me or for me to take care of him.
I am looking for a friend to do things with and if it goes futher then friendship i am willing to take that step forward.
My point is that all women and age group are not the same.
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2/1/2009 7:40:18 PM |
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azfunsun43
Glendale, AZ
age: 44
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I'm on here truly searching although I've found I'm a bit more shy or timid than I used to be. I have been divorced just over 3 years and have only dated 5 people.
When I am dating someone I do not get on here or actively search anywhere else. For starters I quite frankly don't have the time to juggle 2 or 3 different women and besides that you aren't giving a relationship a fair chance that way.
I think I understand Alaskaman saying that some DH peeps use the site to date and also "trade up". It's just the nature of some people belonging to a website like this. But I also think people that date and search for a trade-up and not give one relationship a chance will never find what they are looking for.
I guess ya just hafta go out with them and ask them up front what their intentions are.
On the flip side of that, People that came out of a long relation or marriage shouldn't "settle" and should be particular the second time around.
I don't know if that helped answer your question, but I think there is alot of sincere people on here looking for a LTR.
I'm going to try the Dave & Busters nite out to meet some people. Even if I don't meet someone I'm interested in, you can never have too many friends.
Good luck
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2/2/2009 7:07:46 AM |
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xangel_kissesx
Chandler, AZ
age: 33
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OP when I was dating I encountered the same thing not just in here but pretty much everywhere...seemed as though alot of people were looking for a quick hookup or just someone to help stroke their ego a bit but no one really looking for love or perhaps really ready for it. Maybe alot of people have lost faith in it I dunno but certainly made my search quite a long one LOL 3 years. Don't loose hope there are romantics like us still out there we are just rare and hard to find.
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