lizardking72
Deerfield, OH
age: 35
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i met this girl and we really hit it off on our first date so we started seeing each other,then we got a house together and she has two kids and i was raising them like they were my own,i really these kids.then i ask her to marry me and she said yes so i gave her a ring and we made plans to go to las vegas to get married in march.then one nite we were talking and she told me she was cheating on me with a married guy.how can she be so mean and cold hearted to me like that,when we had a good family life and hardly ever had any problems between us.i just dont get it,she crushed my heart and hurt me pretty bad.can anyone give me some insite on why someone would do this??
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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I have no idea why some people cheat. They obviously have no clue on what it does to the other person that they are hurting. Not only emotionally, mentally, but also physically (STDs). My 2nd X cheated on me and it wasn't because of lack of sex or not paying attention to him. I think because he enjoys the thrill of it. Also, it is the other person's fault (the one having the affair with them) for if they think that their love will change them they will be in for a big surprise. A tiger can't change their stripes. Maybe it's a good thing that you found out now than later. Doesn't help you in the comfort right now but it will be her loss. For she'll figure out she blew a good thing and probably will want to come back to you. Seen it before.
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reesi
Kennewick, WA
age: 57
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Some people have no conscience or feelings for others. You're better off knowing this NOW than after marriage. I know it hurts, but you WILL get over it and meet someone who will appreciate you for who you are. You will find that you are happier with someone you can trust, believe me.
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chinatown_girl
Oyster Bay, NY
age: 18
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how long before u got the house together? was she having any problems when u met her?
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