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Forums: Dating General Discussion: Can anyone relate to this?
10/14/2007 6:22:08 PM Can anyone relate to this?  

mark62
Quantico, VA
age: 32

 I have had problems in dating since my divorce, mainly for my morals and values "I do my best to uphold day to day".

One problem is sex,(and yes, sex was God’s idea) is no different. God created it, and therefore I think it is reasonable to expect that it is good. But when people distort it by ignoring God's specific standards, it becomes harmful and destructive.

"Why save sex for marriage" is really a question of understanding God's purpose and design for sex. I choose to do things God's way, and experience the beauty of His plan, or I can choose to do things my way, and experience harm and destruction.

I can think of in at least two areas: (1) physical consequences, and (2) relational consequences.

The physical consequences are becoming increasingly obvious and increasingly dangerous in today's society. AIDS and other Sexually Transmitted Diseases are frightening realities.

The relational consequences are just as real, though they may be more difficult to grasp. First, sin always damages a my relationship with the God.Intentional disobedience of God's command to not commit adultery dishonors and displeases God.

God is pleased when His children choose obedience and self-control instead of the immediacy of pleasure.

I am not a Bible basher because these morals and values can come from anywhere not just the Bible. In any-sense finding women today that are likeminded to this way of living has become very trying for myself. I would like to know how many feel the same.



[Edited 10/14/2007 6:54:20 PM]
10/14/2007 6:25:42 PM Can anyone relate to this?  

peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40 online now!

 I don't talk religion up here....Maybe you wanna check out the religious section..but, I wish you luck.
xoxoPeaches.
10/14/2007 6:26:57 PM Can anyone relate to this?  

castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38

 Peaches?
So all that.."OH MY GOD ,OH MY GOD,OH MY GOD" was just a joke?
10/14/2007 6:29:47 PM Can anyone relate to this?  

professer2
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 52

 Hey Mark,
I can relate to that,
but twenty years later,
I may think twice about it now,
but, it will still be the same answer.
10/14/2007 6:33:18 PM Can anyone relate to this?  

superscreename
Suffolk, VA
age: 30

 Yeah man, I am actually trying to respect this apect of God's plan for my life these days. This is something that I have not done in the past and think it is difficult especially when given the opportunity. So yes, it is hard to find women who are like minded in this area. I believe this and find it extremely difficult to adhere to especially after having experienced the natural pleasures of sex.
10/14/2007 6:36:43 PM Can anyone relate to this?  

mark62
Quantico, VA
age: 32

 One I did not ask if anyone wanted to speak on religion peaches. It was a question if anyone carries the same "morals" and "values" which can also be found outside religous fellowship. Although mine is tied to my faith, and beliefs, it does not mean everyone elses is as well. I have met Agnostics in the military that have these morals and values towards their intimate lives in relationships. Which means it really has nothing to do with religion.

I love the quote "Religion is for people afraid to go to Hell: Spirituality is for those who have already been to Hell."



[Edited 10/14/2007 6:40:17 PM]
10/14/2007 6:39:45 PM Can anyone relate to this?  

superscreename
Suffolk, VA
age: 30

 Well, you did mention God and Christianity, this probly needs to be in the religion forum and will most likely be moved. I think she was trying to be helpful dude.
10/14/2007 6:42:37 PM Can anyone relate to this?  

professer2
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 52

 Since he started the thread,
asking if anyone could relate,
I guess he is in the right place,
there is nothing wrong with asking a religious question
outside of a religious thread is there?
10/14/2007 6:43:44 PM Can anyone relate to this?  

chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46

 You haven't looked at all the threads of friends with benefits ... there are tons there and obviously morals were thrown out the window along with the baby and the bath water.
10/14/2007 6:48:39 PM Can anyone relate to this?  

peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40 online now!

 I believe we all have our own morals and values..It's finding someone who thinks the same..I don't disagree with sex before marriage but, then again..I don't think a piece of paper should say when i'm truly commited to someone..jmo
xoxoPeaches.
10/14/2007 6:50:10 PM Can anyone relate to this?  

professer2
Saint Petersburg, FL
age: 52

 Damn,
so thats where the baby went.
10/14/2007 6:50:14 PM Can anyone relate to this?  

mark62
Quantico, VA
age: 32

 I edited the one time I used the term Christian out to alleviate any confusion about religion. Many religions and nonoganized groups (not religious fellowships) use the word God, or Higher Power. The question is seperate from my religion. Its a spiritually based question on morals and values held in todays new world.

And thanks professer2 for your insight, and everyone elses including yours peaches.



[Edited 10/14/2007 6:52:30 PM]
10/14/2007 7:06:38 PM Can anyone relate to this?  

53lady
Jacksonville, FL
age: 53

 Mark62 and superscreen.....there are many believers here, but don't even want to broach the subect if you put anything "Godly" in any other thread except the Religion forum.

***NOTICE*** I am not saying this with any angry or mean or sarcastic tones...just a quizzical and "I am really wonering" tone...so please try to take it as thus. Thank you.

It's getting to the point that it is perfectly fine to talk about gays, sex, whatever...anything but Jesus. I really wonder why that is? Sad really! Yet people feel fine with saying "May God Bless You, God Bless You & Yours" in many, many of these threads, but that's about it.

Nope...can't include anything else spiritual at all unless it's in the Religion" forum???Why is that exactly? We ARE talking about relationships here...so what if someone mentions God or Jesus in the other threads? What is the harm exactly? Are we afraid to piss off the non-bleievers, atheists, or agnostics? Or what ?

Ok...let's take a poll....how many on this site are "believers"?
Take a guess....40% or 50% or less?
Is there some shame is mentioning God or Jesus? If so, why?

Okay...what about this...everyone has said this from time to time.....if you don't like what someone says in a thread...why not ignore it and just make no reply at all?
This one is surely not bashing anyone, being rude or crude or insulting anyone...and those are the rules as I see them.

So...staying on topic Mark 62....yes, I believe as you do, it is hard being human and all, in this day and age...when sex is thrown in our faces daily. People seem to think that if you can't have sex after the first couple of weeks or months or so, that YOU are weird. What ever happened to all the other important issues??? It seems everyone has thrown away all the morals and codes and honorable behaviors, making sex the center of their universe. Oh well....what are you going to do???? NBS

JMO JMO JMO



[Edited 10/14/2007 7:16:05 PM]
10/14/2007 7:22:36 PM Can anyone relate to this?  

mark62
Quantico, VA
age: 32

 Well stated, written, signed, and sealed - 53lady.



[Edited 10/14/2007 7:23:06 PM]
10/14/2007 8:16:01 PM Can anyone relate to this?  

uh_huh
West Palm Beach, FL
age: 34

 Speaking as a descendant of monkeys, I don't see it as an issue of morals, or codes, or whatever...

I see it as a general lack of patience in finding an honest and decent mate...

Therefore, I can relate..
10/15/2007 12:51:48 AM Can anyone relate to this?  

mugan
Poplar Bluff, MO
age: 25

 That was funny troy.

10/15/2007 1:07:10 AM Can anyone relate to this?  

peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40 online now!

 Well, I will say this and I think he knows...I was only trying to help...I have very very strong beliefs I just chose to keep mine very private and personal. So, thx for the face slapping and yes...That's exactly how I just took that 53.
xoxoPeaches. No, I don't think sex should be so easily handed out either tho...



[Edited 10/15/2007 1:07:58 AM]