12/7/2008 8:05:51 PM |
How do you ask someone out in person with out looking dorky? EXAMPLES |
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blondie098
Bear, DE
age: 23
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If you liked a person at work that you have only really talked to about work, and wanted to hang out with the person to see if anything can come of it, what would you do? I'm scared that it is going to make things weird at work if he's not interested.
  
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12/7/2008 8:08:33 PM |
How do you ask someone out in person with out looking dorky? EXAMPLES |
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crowdog73
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
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Easy..walk up too em..give em your number and tell em too call you so you can go out this coming weekend 
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12/7/2008 8:20:19 PM |
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kitise

Greenwood, SC
age: 30
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this is the easiest way ro get sacked.keep it up
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12/7/2008 8:22:06 PM |
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lawn_dawg
Middleburg, FL
age: 39
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Work is off limits unless somehow a definite "thang" manifests. You would know for sure, beyond a doubt if it were okay.
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12/7/2008 8:23:51 PM |
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blondie098
Bear, DE
age: 23
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It's a retail store, seriously no harm would come of dating an employee not when it comes to my job.
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12/7/2008 8:28:55 PM |
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outlaw02
Galloway, OH
age: 25
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I usually ask them "Hey(Name of person here)Some friends and I are going to (insert location and time here) would you like to come? This way it is a public place, a chance for them to bring friends and be more relaxed. A Follow up to a more personal date would be like "(Name of person) I really enjoyed hanging out with you the other night, would you like to go to lunch/dinner sometime?
Just casual conversation that doesn't make it seem like you're making a date a big deal. It could really be a disaster if they know you're making this a big deal and make them more uncomfortable.
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12/7/2008 8:34:01 PM |
How do you ask someone out in person with out looking dorky? EXAMPLES |
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fallnstar

Miami, FL
age: 48
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What kind of work do yoU do ? I would start talking to him, kind of like you talk to yoUr
friends.. And, tell him "Hey me and a couple of friends(co workers) are going to
the sports bar... to hang out for a while .. Would yoU like to join us ?
I need to know a little more in order to get a good idea/plan.
But, WTF whats the worst that can happen ? He says no..You act like it's no big deal..
If you don't try, then you will never know... GO FOR IT ! Relax.
Good luck
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12/7/2008 8:35:17 PM |
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1bigiron
Stafford, KS
age: 45
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Tell hem your (needtail) store is looking for a maneger
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12/7/2008 8:35:23 PM |
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rusty_shorts
West Palm Beach, FL
age: 36
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I don't think there is a "non-dorky" way.........at least not for me........hmmmm.. maybe I can use my dorkyness to my advantage?.... 
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12/7/2008 8:46:36 PM |
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blondie098
Bear, DE
age: 23
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Asking him out as a friend scares me because thats what I usually get trapped into.
I'm glad someone has embraced their dorkiness!
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12/7/2008 8:47:46 PM |
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monshado
Oskaloosa, KS
age: 55
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Catch him at the end of your shift and ask him if he has any plans at the moment. If so go someplace for coffee or something, but no drinks. If you two get along at work then see what happens, but get to the point of things and find out.
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12/7/2008 9:09:22 PM |
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nunbttr
Middletown, OH
age: 61
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What kind of work do yoU do ? I would start talking to him, kind of like you talk to yoUr
friends.. And, tell him "Hey me and a couple of friends(co workers) are going to
the sports bar... to hang out for a while .. Would yoU like to join us ?
I need to know a little more in order to get a good idea/plan.
But, WTF whats the worst that can happen ? He says no..You act like it's no big deal..
If you don't try, then you will never know... GO FOR IT ! Relax.
Good luck
Hell, then you have to go to all the trouble of getting your friends to go to a bar with you!!! Forget about them, it's him you want to see anyhow. Ask him if he would like to go to lunch, or to a bar after work. Play it by ear. You don't have to get him to fall in love with you, on the first get together. Hopefully, after a few times, he will get the hint, and start asking you out.
If you need to come up with ways to do it, engage him in conversation about his favorite places to have lunch, where he likes to go after work, etc. Then just ask him if he'd like to go there with you.
OR... You could stalk him after work, find out where he hangs out, and just 'accidently' run into him. 
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12/7/2008 9:44:41 PM |
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deezee04
Stafford, VA
age: 22
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I think what you need to realize is that you are young and attractive, and according to your profile you are educated. You honestly just need to realized that as a woman in your position you maintain a level of power. Not to mention, its socially more acceptable if a girl gets goofy with a guy she likes. Sounds like you need to just walk up to the guy and ask him out to go do something with confidence. In the end, the worst thing that happens is that you end up right where you started....single and on your own personal hunt 
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12/7/2008 10:53:48 PM |
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pisces_4
Palmer, AK
age: 27
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DON'T DATE CO-WORKERS!!!
I once dated this guy I worked with and it ended really badly. We never spoke about it I tried but he wouldn't. THings got really bad at work after that. He would ignore my requests for customer service and make me look bad in front of customers. He would yell at me thru the shop, crap like "do it yourself" for stuff that was his job and I was suppose to ask him for. If got so bad our boss took us outside and told us to get over what ever had happened. After she walked away I told him I was sorry for whatever he thought had happened and I tried to talk about things to clear the air but he wouldn't listen. He quit and never came back. I still feel bad about the whole deal. I was young and dumb, I really hurt him.
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12/7/2008 10:55:37 PM |
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uhadme_
Bishop, CA
age: 45
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try these..
I really wanna do it with you... get all hot and sweaty... hear you breathing heavy... so you want to go jogging with me?
can I have you picture?.. so I can show santa what I want for christmas.
can I get even a fake number?
(point to a co worker and say) she wants to know if you think I am cute.
or
leave a flyer for a party where he will get it and go there too.
" I have an extra ticket for..."
good luck
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