12/7/2008 8:15:03 PM |
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lovelife2025
Pottstown, PA
age: 21
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Hey all, my name is Daniel and im 21 years of age. I need some serious advice please 
To start out, i never had a girlfriend nor a real date so this may seem odd, theres this girl, and her and i have been talking for at least 4 months and became really good friends, however she does know that i know that she has a boyfriend, but he lives like 300 miles plus away. I heard that its not a good idea to spill the beans as in keeping ur life a mystery so the woman will want to get more interested in u etc.
So, i defenitly spilled most of the beans and so has she, i did not ask her out inwich i still cant figure out y. Must be my gut feeling lol. She does know that i like her etc,
My question is, is it to late to ask her out or to go to the next step as we both spilled the beans etc. I know it does not hurt to ask a woman out dinner or something. but i need to know if i should keep going or hit the road?
Please help me on this
Thank you all who took the time to read this long thing. lol
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12/7/2008 8:17:01 PM |
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brujacakes2
Jim Thorpe, PA
age: 36 online now!
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It's never too late...unless you're 6ft. under and the daisies are growing on top of you.

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12/7/2008 8:18:07 PM |
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bry11ca

Irving, TX
age: 44
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You know she has a boyfriend?
Come on, you already know the answer. Man up and make your own decision.
One way and you're a wh*re and a doormat loser. The other and you have a modicum of self-respect.
Please post your answer for the world to know.
Bry 
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12/7/2008 8:19:27 PM |
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lovelife2025
Pottstown, PA
age: 21
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lol nah. at least i make her laugh everytime i see her.
On second note. She did flirt with me 2 times and defenity somewhat goes out of her way to talk to me. but tbh im still not sure lol. but hey this is life we all learn lol.
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12/7/2008 8:43:57 PM |
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dreamer1907
Vermilion, OH
age: 23
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well I don't think it is too late... but I would seriously consider this: one she has a boyfriend... is he even real? two: you like her... you're here he's not... take a breath and ask her, if she says no OH WELL there are so many fish in the sea... and spilling the beans??? maybe I'm clueless on this but what are you talking about? If you are talking about letting that person know everything well almost everything about you, that's not really a bad thing because you are being honest, and honesty never hurts if the girl can't take it tell BYE BYE!!! hope this helps you some!
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12/7/2008 8:46:02 PM |
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lovelife2025
Pottstown, PA
age: 21
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u know it does help, and i ty 
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12/7/2008 8:49:12 PM |
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dreamer1907
Vermilion, OH
age: 23
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I'm sorry I hate when people play games, I was engaged for a long time and all the guy did was play games needless to say I'm a very EDUCATED single mom... and I don't play. I don't wanna see anyone hurt, and I think that maybe if you would spend too much time with this girl you will get hurt... you can't turn feelings off no matter how hard you try and seeing how this is like the first of the first for you well I'd be really careful and very picky! Good luck buddy!
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12/7/2008 8:54:37 PM |
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lovelife2025
Pottstown, PA
age: 21
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ya, ur right and i ty
Good luck to u too 
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12/7/2008 9:34:12 PM |
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starr6234
Bremerton, WA
age: 59
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If she'll two time her current boyfriend one day she'll do it to you. She's a cheater or a tease.
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12/7/2008 9:37:17 PM |
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deezee04
Stafford, VA
age: 22
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It honestly sounds like you've found yourself in 'friend zone', and once you've gone there, Its damn near impossible to leave that zone.
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12/7/2008 9:38:04 PM |
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cuteyonduty
Deland, FL
age: 59
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It was really hard for me to follow your line of thinking...as it didn't make any sense at all.
Perhaps you should consider going back to school for remedial English grammer and sentence structuring... I'm sorry, I'd love to respond,but I swear, I can't understand what you are trying to convey here....good luck to those who can.
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12/7/2008 9:46:10 PM |
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carthun18
Saint Paul, MN
age: 28
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its not to late just ask her out to dinner ans see where it goes if you end up to be friends so be it. But you never know whats going to happen thats why we live life. You never know whats around the conner until you take that turn
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12/7/2008 9:48:05 PM |
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lovelife2025
Pottstown, PA
age: 21
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very true
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12/7/2008 9:48:55 PM |
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crowdog73
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
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I would say..just keep things as friends for now..ain't nothing wrong with going out as friends..
she does have a boyfriend so ya have too respect his feelings also....
but just keep it as friends, and if it's meant too be more then it will happen....
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12/7/2008 10:19:35 PM |
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honeychile
Somerset, KY
age: 57 online now!
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Hey, as you grow older, you will realize that we usually regret more the things we did NOT do rather than the things we did do. She may have a boyfriend -but it sounds like she is attracted to you. Be there for her. Take a chance. Good luck!
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