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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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So, I'm having this very nice date, little bit of drinking, dancing, kissing, hand holding, that sort of thing. Towards the end we are sharing this bar stool people watching. A guy comes up to us and starts talking to her. She's a friendly person, and they start having a nice chat. Right in the middle of it, she asks him for his telephone number. Now, maybe something is wrong with me, but, I found something wrong with that. I got up from the bar stool, told her see ya, and walked away. She caught up with me outside and said she was getting the telephone number for her niece? Yeah, right? Now, is it just me, or does any one else have a problem with their date exchanging telephone numbers with a member of the opposite sex while they are out on a date?
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10/16/2007 4:45:18 AM |
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newsingle1
Chesapeake, VA
age: 50
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Wow, That is really messed up!!
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10/16/2007 4:52:07 AM |
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cheygirl
Riverton, WY
age: 45
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is wrong with people!!!!!
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10/16/2007 5:18:52 AM |
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osipsc
Chicago, IL
age: 57
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Very odd - and she couldn't understand why you left..
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10/16/2007 5:27:35 AM |
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bamadixiegal
Guntersville, AL
age: 41
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I would say to met a tramp,definetly not a lady,arent you glad you caught that? consider yourself lucky
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10/16/2007 5:35:52 AM |
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gawd
Appleton, WI
age: 56
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I agree with Bam that was tastless..I hope you dont plan on seeing her again.
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10/16/2007 7:20:17 AM |
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morgain
Ellis Grove, IL
age: 48
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Funny stuff!
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10/16/2007 7:54:11 AM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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of course I'm going to see her again, and I'll make sure I treat her like a lady.
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10/16/2007 8:05:05 AM |
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realwoman06
Baltimore, MD
age: 48
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Another date? Glutton for punishment?
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10/16/2007 8:37:28 AM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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Yep, and up in your neck of the woods, Rams Head. But, I have it figured out now, I just don't shave for a few days, wear black, and act like I'm not interested. It's taking a while, but, I'm learning.
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10/22/2007 4:40:06 AM |
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leila123
Liberty Hill, TX
age: 62
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Why waste your time on someone who has shown you they have no class or manners? Unless, of course, you just crave a little drama and deceit in your life. For your sake, I hope you change your mind and continue your search for someone who will treat you right and of whom you can be proud.
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10/23/2007 3:11:20 PM |
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missdsh
Salyersville, KY
age: 48
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Honey, don't waste your time with people who have no class...A Real LADY would never do that to do. It's called having manners and treating people with respect. She had none and don't deserve your time nor effect. Your to nice looking to put up with that CRAP from anyone. I would have done that same thing you did....KEEP LOOKING DEAR
B
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10/23/2007 11:20:22 PM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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Thanks everyone for the thoughtful comments. I guess sarcasm doesn't play out very well with the printed word? I really wasn't thinking of going out with the same person again, and if I did, I'd be anything but the 'nice' guy that I was on the first date.
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10/24/2007 2:29:15 PM |
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emtauburn
Appleton, WI
age: 56
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Whew..I thought you were loosing it
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10/25/2007 4:57:42 AM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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I did lose it, but, I'll find it again one day
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10/26/2007 3:49:36 PM |
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patama
Bois des Filion, QC
age: 46
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may be you just don't choose the right kind of women, it seems that over and over you seem to have bad experiences, as much as men think that women want bad boys,i do wonder if most men want bad girls ??? that is just a question
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10/26/2007 3:51:34 PM |
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castertroy
Belmar, NJ
age: 41
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Nope...I want a professional lady who is a wh*re in bed with me
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11/1/2007 8:08:18 PM |
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ninawhited
Redmond, OR
age: 26
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call me at (541)480-4490ask for Nina
[Edited 11/1/2007 8:09:40 PM ]
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11/1/2007 8:27:26 PM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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I do believe troy as been called out.......
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11/11/2007 4:43:11 PM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 58
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sometimes bringing a woman to the house of sin is a demise within itself unless you know her better--you did not mention the age of the woman you were with or the age of her niece--perhaps that would help me understand this better--but again if this woman was extremely young then she was a zero for sure
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11/11/2007 7:31:06 PM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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she is 47, her neice is 30, we were out with a mutual friend of ours, a woman in her 40's who only dates 'boy toys'.........
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11/12/2007 6:16:03 PM |
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lindsee
Olivet, MI
age: 47
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its women like her that make it tough for those of us who are looking for the nice guy to treat us the right way. I am a nice lady and am looking for someone who knows how to act appropriately on a date!
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11/12/2007 8:51:16 PM |
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lacy1
Canandaigua, NY
age: 51
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Call me nieve, but I thought you were actually going to give her a second chance, giving her the benifit of the doubt. I've been called "too" nice, think they are right?
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11/14/2007 11:00:52 AM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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Is there such a thing as "too nice"? I always believe in second chances, it's the third ones I have a problem with.....
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11/14/2007 9:17:27 PM |
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chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 49
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I only give two chances ... there are no thirds
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11/15/2007 3:41:40 PM |
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paguy123
Sugarloaf, PA
age: 56
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Moral of the story, Dont hang out in bars with your wife. Go there alone if you wanna cheat
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11/15/2007 5:36:43 PM |
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tkb629
Richmond, VA
age: 50
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the more i read, the crazier i thought you might be. You are a terrific looking guy and don't have to settle for someone so disrespectful. I can't believe that a woman would be so stupid with such a good looking man sitting right next to her. what a loser!
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11/15/2007 8:17:05 PM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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I don't get the moral of the story, especially since no wife was involved? I didn't understand it either?
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11/15/2007 8:39:12 PM |
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domsmema
Winter Haven, FL
age: 62
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well first of all you seem like a very nice gentelman ,you were really treating the lady well and this is the way she treats you???i'ts terrible you are a very handsome guy and i'm sure you have all kinds of girls you could date,you don't deserve to be treated like dirt as she did you..she is not worth it there are plenty of wemon who would treat you with the respect and honor you deserve ..all wemon are not like that so please don't judge us by her ...you can do lots better..good luck hon ,i hope you find you a great girl who will adore you and be good to you ...huggs Bev
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11/16/2007 12:04:25 AM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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thanks, I sure do appreciate the kindness
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11/16/2007 12:13:33 AM |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 52
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I would have walked out too, and left the tab..
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11/16/2007 4:49:33 AM |
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klassykitten
Toccoa, GA
age: 53
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Tell her to lose your number...how rude
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11/16/2007 5:05:58 AM |
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nicksterdemus
Bastelica
France
age: 50
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OMG........WELL!.., I Never.............pfft....Hussy
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11/16/2007 5:14:07 AM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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You guys are a lot of help I did walk out, but, I ended up taking her home, wasn't going to leave her there, and she told me the phone number was for her niece.....I'm sure her niece appreciates her picking up strange men at bars for her, she is such a nice aunt......
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11/16/2007 12:34:38 PM |
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justlooking630
West New York, NJ
age: 51
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That a shame...I really think that was a sense of lack of respect for you and for herself
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11/16/2007 12:45:54 PM |
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evie58
West Union, SC
age: 52
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That was very rude and inconsiderate. what was she thinking?In my book thats not acceptable...Not to be trusted!
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11/17/2007 12:16:20 AM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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And I thought it was just me, and that I should learn to be a little more trusting?
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11/17/2007 9:57:45 PM |
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lattml
Hazleton, PA
age: 44
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Hey 9thstwonder, I have a major problem with what you just described. I think you handled it just right. I'd have done the exact same thing. If you want someone else's phone number, what the hell are you doing here with me?
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11/17/2007 10:17:24 PM |
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superheroscoo
Garden City, KS
age: 27
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I had a similar situation happen to me about a year ago. I was on a date with this girl that turned into playing on the beach, talking and looking at funny toys in stores. It was a lot of fun until we went into the ice cream shop and she got a date for the next week with a guy, while I was standing there.
Unfortunately, I was too laid back to react like you did, but I haven't talked to her since. Now I live in another state.
Sometimes you just have to wonder what people are thinking...
It's a huge confidence killer too.
Just remember there is someone out there who is awesome. Hell, ask her if you can have her neice's number.
lol
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11/18/2007 1:30:02 AM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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I never thought of that superhero...that would have been a good idea at the time....
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11/20/2007 4:23:59 PM |
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tazzie825
Edgefield, SC
age: 48
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She was dead wrong for that
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11/26/2007 3:24:43 PM |
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missmissyj
Olive Hill, KY
age: 41
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I would have gotten up and left too.
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11/27/2007 1:01:52 PM |
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madcrazy4u
Carmichaels, PA
age: 34
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What was she thinking? That took some nerve to do that. You did the right thing by leaving. No need for game like that.
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11/28/2007 1:32:20 AM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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She promised not to do anything like that if I go out with her again?
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11/28/2007 6:43:45 AM |
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magwlky
Brampton, ON
age: 59
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Totally out of whack! You should have asked her for the neices number and then put her in a cab. Forget this one! There are lots of women out there with manners and class that are also sincere. If she would do that in front of you...what do you think she would do behind your back, if you were in a relationship? Something to think about. Tell her to lose your number.
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11/28/2007 9:59:44 PM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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everyone seems to agree on this one?
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11/29/2007 6:44:05 PM |
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bamabob
Crane Hill, AL
age: 58
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I can't say that I wouldn't go out with her again...but then, I can't imagine being that desperate either! You did the right thing. Must be a hell of a nice guy... and she must be one naive air head.....
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11/30/2007 10:52:08 PM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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She's no airhead, but that "being naive", yeah, I think that is hitting the nail on the head....I've been on several dates since, nice girls, but, I think she has jaded me for a while......I can't seem to find that 'white hat' I used to wear?
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11/30/2007 10:57:28 PM |
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gator59
Las Vegas, NV
age: 51
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Ive read the comments.. What a line "for my niece" first her being nice and socialable is one thing but to ask for his number please.. If it were me Id move on JMO
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12/1/2007 4:54:06 AM |
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flowers4
Toronto, ON
age: 40
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You got hooked by a "bad girl" and nothing else will do for you- by the sounds of it you have decided to have this need to prove yourself and win her back...to be validated by winning the contest....
Why don't you just continue to see her till you get it out of your system and then a year or so later count your losses and regret your wasted time. Good luck!
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12/1/2007 4:57:58 AM |
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nicksterdemus
Bastelica
France
age: 50
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No sense in wastin' time invested...hang in there, get ya blowjob n think 'bout it w/clear head...
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12/1/2007 7:09:32 AM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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more sage advice, and some of it is even funny..... I'm not hooked? just trying to figure out when the dating became a game where we have to keep score?
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12/15/2007 5:28:48 AM |
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_honey
Meriden, CT
age: 58
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Hello 9th..... Don't let yourself become a doormat, respect yourself, "the bus stops every 20 minutes.....N-E-X-T! Move on.
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12/15/2007 10:36:11 AM |
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custodian28
Boulder, CO
age: 54
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I would bet if you told this to Dear Abby she would say, this was in Bad Taste and you should lose her.
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12/15/2007 6:07:24 PM |
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phatnsassy69
Spencerville, OH
age: 41
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Pretty low if you ask me, you deserved her full attention while she was on the date with you, No you are not wrong with how you feel, and I am truely sorry someone was so insinsative to your feelings, her neice my foot, but you can't treat someone like that without it coming back to bite you in the long run. You can do better anyway.
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12/16/2007 1:05:44 PM |
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angelzzs
Laconia, NH
age: 35
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that is not cool at all is wrong with them????
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12/16/2007 3:10:56 PM |
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sylviasmatch
Winter Springs, FL
age: 53
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you said she had this conversation while the two of you were sharing a bar stool.
could you hear her conversation???? you obviously know she got his number.... did you hear her talking about her neice to this guy? did you believe that when she told you?
just curious.
Have you heard from her at all? or did you tell her it was over when you dropped her off.
I would never do that! and if a guy did that to me.... I'd walk out too, and if i had driven the two of us there... he could find his own way home.
She could have gotten a ride home from the other guy - the one she got the number from!!! hee hee
bad bad girl
s
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12/16/2007 9:01:36 PM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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it was a bar, loud with music, could hear very little, until the cell came out and the digits were exchanged, that caught my attention, was very trusting up until that moment....
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12/16/2007 9:03:44 PM |
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lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 52
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If it looks like filth, smells like filth, it pretty damn dirty....
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12/16/2007 9:37:42 PM |
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9thstwonder
North Beach, MD
age: 52
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damn? with some of these responces, I think others have been the victims of similar situations?
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