12/16/2008 9:44:19 AM |
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bexyboop
Kent
United Kingdom
age: 19
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Why is it that instead of our honest opinion we tell people such lies when we split up with them? I've just come out of a long term relationship and the guy said to me "I just want to live on my own for a bit".. This then led to him moving in with a new girlfriend a week later.
Has anyone else been told one thing when being split up with and then finding out the real reason?
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12/16/2008 9:45:57 AM |
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robowobo
Caseyville, IL
age: 34
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yea but don't sweat it sugar they'll be banging on your door soon enough
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12/16/2008 10:04:35 AM |
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missmmeoftheday

Brooklyn, NY
age: 43
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yeah, but ultimately, the outcome is the same... they broke up with you.
Don't get all worked up and concerned about the why's... focus on the what now's... you're 18. you've got plenty of hearts to break.
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12/16/2008 10:08:00 AM |
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steven030463
Warren, OH
age: 45
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don't worry about his ingnorants, your a very pretty woman. I don't think you will have any problems finding someone else.
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12/16/2008 10:14:34 AM |
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bexyboop
Kent
United Kingdom
age: 19
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I guess when you've spent 2 years constantly in someones pocket it's hard to face the facts and get over it.
Thanks for the advice though guys 
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12/16/2008 10:16:47 AM |
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missmmeoftheday

Brooklyn, NY
age: 43
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It is hard to "get over it"... it is hard. And it will be the next time...
but it is not impossible. And it will not kill you. of THAT you can be sure.
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12/16/2008 10:32:56 AM |
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hannbalshottie
Hannibal, MO
age: 53
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Girl, you are only 18, and two years with this guy like you said in a previous post is not a very long relationship...
But hey.... If he did what you say, then he wasn't worth being with in the first place...
You'll find someone else, and soon..... Good luck....
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12/16/2008 11:37:40 AM |
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nunbttr
Middletown, OH
age: 62
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Why is it that instead of our honest opinion we tell people such lies when we split up with them? I've just come out of a long term relationship and the guy said to me "I just want to live on my own for a bit".. This then led to him moving in with a new girlfriend a week later.
Has anyone else been told one thing when being split up with and then finding out the real reason?
Yes. It happens to the best of us. The exact same thing happened to me. I thought I had tome to move all of my belongings out, (because she just wanted to "Be by myself.") She moved her new boyfriend in about 8 days after I moved out. And my relationship lasted 7 years, before I got the phony 'sob story'.
Oh well, here I am, ready to try again.
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12/16/2008 11:38:57 AM |
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simplyjul
Leesburg, FL
age: 38
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oh yeah I got one for ya....He accused me of cheating....real reason...he was cheating
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12/16/2008 11:42:28 AM |
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bexyboop
Kent
United Kingdom
age: 19
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oh yeah I got one for ya....He accused me of cheating....real reason...he was cheating
Ohhhhh, that's a bad one. That's his guilt making him accuse you though. What a loser, I hope you gave him a good left hook 
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12/16/2008 12:13:04 PM |
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evileddy

Ottawa, ON
age: 35
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She accused me of having sex with my male friends at my Kung Fu club.
I laughed at her thinking she was kidding.. then she started hitting me..
lol
what a freak.
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12/16/2008 12:28:55 PM |
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mike22304

Alexandria, VA
age: 63
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I've never told anything but the truth when initiating a breakup. "Sorry, don't need your crap any longer." "There is the door."
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