
ironmuscle
Santa Cruz, CA
age: 32
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I've been thinking about this issue a lot lately....I know a 18 year old lady and she dates nothing but older guys...she really has a genuine attraction for older guys (I'm talking 30s, 40s, and 50s)....and she's an attractive lady. I think the culture in which you were brought up often dictactes and determines how fast a person matures....and I look for certain indicators that will tell me if a person is mature:
1. Has the person rented an apartment and lived on their own completely independent of their parents.
2. Can the person rent a car without an adult present.
3. Is she still living with her parents
4. Does she have her own car and pay her own car note
5. What goals has she set for herself and what made her decide to set these goals
6. Does she have a strong personal identity....in other words, I understand people change over time, but is the core of a person's character going to remain the same.
These are just some of the things I look for as indicators.....and in America, the majority of 18 year olds are not aware of basic things that their going to encounter and feel as they get older...their mostly living for the moment....there is a very very small to impossible chance of me even considering dating an 18 year old.
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serenityfrank

Toms River, NJ
age: 50
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i am thinking 35-55 for me i am young at heart and all but have limits also,,
dont want to raise a wife,,,
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techicianbrian
Parker, CO
age: 25
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It's natural to be idealistic when thinking of how past relationships could have been. But what's done is done. Think about the present and how you can shape your future with the decisions you make today. You are in control of your destiny.

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turnup_gr33nz
Fort Wayne, IN
age: 43
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love concures all right love wins out lets hope
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bryneyes0104
Loves Park, IL
age: 34
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I prefer a man who is at least 5 years older than me. I won't date a younger man.
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dchoyt82
Rumford, ME
age: 26
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I prefer a man who is at least 5 years older than me. I won't date a younger man.
Poor women doesnt have a clue...
All the Smart Sexy Women Prefer younger men their are still some older women who may never know whats good in life because they put an age barrier up on men......Boy if they only knew what they were missing out on..
Anyways Age doesnt matter
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