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10/20/2007 8:01:06 AM	Lessons learned on this site
trublu5ft2 Columbia, TN age: 50 online now!	1. People have their own reasons to be these sites. Some are here on a true mission to find their mate, some are seeking friends, some are troubled or in trouble and looking for an escape, some are running to something, some are running from something, some are just plain lonely and seeking internet companionship. Whatever the reasons, we are all here and must remember always that there is, indeed, a real human being behind each computer screen. 2. Forums are a cool place to hang out and discuss whatever your heart desires. Sometimes, the forums are fun, sometimes serious, profound, off-the wall. With so many people on the forums at one time, there will be times that butting heads will make you look like a butthead. Some can debate with grace and compassion.. some get downright riled and feel compelled to toss the forum up into the air.. like overturning a checker board when you find you are losing. Some simply hit a stalemate and move on. When you have said your peace and have hit the wall with the debate.. it's time to move on. Pick your battles and leave the rest of the scavengers. 3. Take everything said with a grain of salt until you have searched the info in depth. Even in the meat market, farmers will fudge on the size of the cattle that they are selling just to make the animal look better and more valuable. We all want to show our good side and our profiles is an advertisement. I don't think most " lie" on their profile as much as they just see themselves differently than others see them. Some are sincere in their search and what they say about themselves. Almost everyone here have something valuable and wonderful to give... quit picking everyone apart! 4. Keeping your private affairs private. Alot of us have, at one time or another, have come here to share with the entire DHU community about someone we thought was the one for us.. and boy.. how that can backfire! We confess these things because it feels so awesome.. and so genuine at the moment. Sadly, we often end up with egg on our face. It only needs to happen once for most of us to know we will not do that again! This lesson is for the new people who have not seen the wrath and hurt of jumping the gun. 5. Because we are PEOPLE behind the words typed, there are so many emotions running about. Many of us have found that another is not who they claimed to be and it can pierce the heart that sets us reeling. Putting the dirt out there for all to see is unkind, unreasonable.. and childish. It's understandable that one might want to just rip another apart online.. but it doesn't solve anything. 6. Typing words CAN be hurtful and destructive.. no matter what some may claim. Whoever said words cannot hurt you is full of it. Words CAN hurt. Just ask the family of a child who committed suicide because of bullies at school!!!! Sometimes, it is very tough for me to bite my tongue.. and sometimes I lower myself to another's level.. but I try my best to have my brain engaged before my fingers begin to type. That is something some of us have learned.. and something everyone should learn. 7. ( added late thanks to more insight) If the site begins to put you on edge.. step away from the computer and enjoy the things around you. Might be amazed at what you have missed! ( thanks guys for this one) Time for coffee! Trish [Edited 10/20/2007 9:45:18 AM]
10/20/2007 8:37:35 AM	Lessons learned on this site
littlelilly2 Sturgeon Bay, WI age: 46	Nice bit of true felt wisdom Trish.... I learned it is better to ultimatly seek out true friendship because love can easily blossum from there and if it doesnt you still have true friendship... Less hurt suffered by all and more true friends made! We can never have too many friends!!! Blessings to all!!!
10/20/2007 9:23:20 AM	Lessons learned on this site
smiley62 McHenry, IL age: 45	Very well said. Maybe when this thread runs it's course it should be permanently posted in the Introductions category.
10/20/2007 9:25:53 AM	Lessons learned on this site
trublu5ft2 Columbia, TN age: 50 online now!	Thanks Smiley.. I think that would be a good idea. Rather the new ones learn the hard way
10/20/2007 9:27:38 AM	Lessons learned on this site
smiley62 McHenry, IL age: 45	No thanks necessary. I wish I could go back and put my training wheels back on....
10/20/2007 9:28:25 AM	Lessons learned on this site
hanover Harrison, MI age: 53 online now!	Don't forget when its Beautiful outside, enjoy it while you can.
10/20/2007 9:29:19 AM	Lessons learned on this site
qbned La Puente, CA age: 32	Hopefully people will take the time to read it. Thanks
10/20/2007 9:45:52 AM	Lessons learned on this site
trublu5ft2 Columbia, TN age: 50 online now!	Hanover.. an excellent one and I edited it into my post. Thanks sweety
10/20/2007 10:36:09 AM	Lessons learned on this site
dg1260 Galion, OH age: 47	Beautiful words from a Beautiful Lady!
10/20/2007 11:02:21 AM	Lessons learned on this site
pgtricia Rockport, IN age: 45	Very well said I'm here for surpisinlly that reson I can't believe that those are prechous word to me. Save our most tresured gift ourself.
10/20/2007 11:09:53 AM	Lessons learned on this site
kirota2 Webster City, IA age: 34	Tru, those are very good words. I find myself falling into a lot of those lists. I'm hoping that I can learn from my mistakes. Your right words can hurt far more than being punched. I have felt the pain of such things and I must apologize for causing them as well. This was a very emotional thread. Thank you for posting it. Kirota
10/20/2007 11:33:01 AM	Lessons learned on this site
julymorning07 Saint James, MO age: 55	Tru, I am a very active member on another message board, (not a dating site), that frequently has temper flare ups. What you have posted here articulates something that is really common sense, but you have done it soooo well, I would like to ask you permission to paste it on the other board. If you want to know the name of the site, it is Pulaskicountyweb.com. May I have your permission? [Edited 10/20/2007 11:33:43 AM]
10/20/2007 11:34:47 AM	Lessons learned on this site
trublu5ft2 Columbia, TN age: 50 online now!	Would be honored July.. Thanks
10/20/2007 11:36:24 AM	Lessons learned on this site
julymorning07 Saint James, MO age: 55	Thank you. It will be in quotes with a reference
10/20/2007 11:41:17 AM	Lessons learned on this site
artistgirl_b Lodi, CA age: 25	thats alot of infor.... thanks

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