10/20/2007 11:27:32 AM |
Men are from Mars>an Women are from Venus=How do we date/relate>? |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 60
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people..........all of the responses....were great... ......eccept one ........keep the feedback coming....... 
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10/20/2007 11:34:23 AM |
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dg1260
Galion, OH
age: 47
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Your right, it was a terrible response. I'm not from Jupiter, I'm from a little farther out than that. I'm here from Alpha Centauri collecting information for the invasion.
In all honesty. I see this type of modeling as trying to place folks into nice neat little boxes. Everyone is a little different and as discussed on other threads, there are women who act like men and visa versa. I think the fun and work of a relationship is taking the time to get to know the individual. No nice neat packages, just the pain-in-the-butt way we are. And loving us in spite of ourselves.

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10/20/2007 11:41:21 AM |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 60
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dg......if we all can just realize....there are differences......an except them....for good. .... maybe couples can keep holding hands..... w/out divorce ....
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10/20/2007 11:58:47 AM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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Trust me.. we all know we are different lol
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10/20/2007 12:01:32 PM |
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mountainskys
Crestline, CA
age: 39
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I dunno about Mars or Venus, but I do know this....
I understand we are not to understand unless you women want us to!
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10/20/2007 12:48:43 PM |
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bjackll
Yuma, AZ
age: 51
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I think that if we can all just try and understand what it really is that we are looking for we can enjoy any relationship that we get into. Sex or no sex we are human and if we see it as a way of being happy with that person we can ea enjoys ea other. I dont mean to have sex with everyone, yet if the attractions exist for both then why not enjoy. The thing is that we as women repond more with emtions than men do. They say men are more into sight. As we are more into listening to what makes us desire. I may just be to much of a romantic. It would be nice to get to know the person as a person. Well I dont really think that we still know what the difference is but I enjoy finding out little by little.
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10/20/2007 12:49:53 PM |
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castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38
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I am waiting for warp drive technology to catch up with me , we shall see.

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10/20/2007 1:50:55 PM |
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metu
Dahlonega, GA
age: 46
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I was just talking to my B/F about this the other day........
It seems that when most men are upset they would rather be left alone.....but most women on the other hand, like to be asked what's wrong & be comforted. I think if men & women would start sharing their secrets, relationships would probably last a lot longer..... just a thought.
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10/20/2007 1:52:16 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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This ia a difficult thread. Every man and woman are different. I just never found a book that was truly helpful. And where would the fun be if we could understand one another in a total fashion?
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10/20/2007 1:53:15 PM |
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sweetiepie123
Cary, NC
age: 31
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I thought this book was alright but it didn't really tell me too much I didn't already know about differences between Men and Women and how to communicate best with each other.
I re-read the "Rules" recently and thought that was pretty funny. I recommend it for a good laugh but also, if you read between the lines, I think there might actually be something in there...just not sure what and who it is good for...may be a better book for guys to read than girls...not sure...
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10/20/2007 1:53:58 PM |
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castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38
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Metu , this is the single most important thing in any relationship and you are absolutely right , yet...I need to be left alone , its just my way.
Eventually i get over it.

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10/20/2007 2:03:59 PM |
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metu
Dahlonega, GA
age: 46
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So it stands to reason, that if we reciprocated in kind, life would be a whole lot easier between the sexes. But dang it! I do wish men would open up a little more! Women are "fixers" & it's so frustrating when we can't help solve the problem......*sigh*
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10/20/2007 3:23:14 PM |
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sunnyday7
Longview, WA
age: 60
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I GUESS...... the whole point is... .... OPPOSITES ATTRACT. ....but then(they) must compliment each other.... otherwise,,, there WILL-BE firworks
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10/20/2007 6:43:02 PM |
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metu
Dahlonega, GA
age: 46
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Wanted to bring this back up to the top cuz I think there's a lot more to be said about this subject...........
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10/20/2007 6:52:11 PM |
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sweetiepie123
Cary, NC
age: 31
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Ok, Metu, I'll roll with it...
One of the main thesis of the RULES was that men like to be or just are by nature the "pursuers" and so women have to make sure they don't make things too easy for the guy. I can see some truth to that. The guys that I hand my history over to on a silver platter often don't appreciate it but the ones that I make BEG for it seem to stay interested longer.
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