10/20/2007 5:10:25 PM |
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browneyes4425
Baton Rouge, LA
age: 63
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I'd like to meet someone who is honest and sincere and really looking for a long term relationship, not a one night stand or cyber sex. It seems thats all these guys want. I'm tired of being alone and want someone to share my life with. Do these guys not exist anymore?
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10/20/2007 5:13:33 PM |
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sweetiepie123
Cary, NC
age: 31
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Hi Browneyes-
I think there really are some nice guys on this site. As far as "players", I don't know about that...we all have to play this game in some way or another, I guess.
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10/20/2007 5:19:16 PM |
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browneyes4425
Baton Rouge, LA
age: 63
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I understand that, but most of these guys really don't won't to connect. They are in it for the cyber sex
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10/20/2007 5:21:46 PM |
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cashpi
Anchorage, AK
age: 38
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I hear your pain/disapptmnt.,browneyes. I think that is probally a common complaint. Unfortunately, I don't have any solutions to offer
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10/20/2007 5:27:01 PM |
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browneyes4425
Baton Rouge, LA
age: 63
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Thanks guys for your input, that's just it, no solution to the problem.
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10/20/2007 5:51:34 PM |
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celestialnitz
Mesa, AZ
age: 51
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Yeah, it's too bad so many men take the sleazy road. But on the bright side, they are telling you what kind of man they are, so at least you know upfront not to waste your time.
Now for the other side of the coin. With me, most of the gals I've communicated with are looking for a marriage partner right off the bat and this seems to put on a lot of pressure/expectations. Kinda like "Well, from his profile/photo, he's not the type I'd ever marry, so ... next". It makes me wonder, what ever happened to just getting out and simply having a good time?
Good luck & hang in there! You got a cool profile and sound like an interesting woman.
[Edited 10/20/2007 5:52:15 PM]
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10/20/2007 6:20:59 PM |
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browneyes4425
Baton Rouge, LA
age: 63
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Thanks for the compliment. And I appreciate your input. I intend to hand in there. My man has got to be out there somewheres.
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10/20/2007 7:51:47 PM |
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butterfly58
Arcadia, MO
age: 58 online now!
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I've met my share of players on this site and the crazy sex guys--just had one ask if I was a controlling woman because that turned him on--I said NO not my style--There are some really nice ones here that will come around after a while. Just be patient. I had to state in my profile very clearly just one night stands can pass me by.
The forums are a good way to get to know some nice people so join in alot.
Good Luck
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10/20/2007 9:01:55 PM |
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methodman1992
Toronto, ON
age: 23
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well there is never a simple or easy soltion to any problem and finding the right person is the biggest of problems!when you do find a guy with good intentions and sound morals you will know!
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10/21/2007 8:54:54 AM |
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margaret12454
Chocowinity, NC
age: 53
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Well, Browneyes, I have been on these dating sites for 6 months, And I beleave most of the men hear and on the others I'm on have been hurt and even tho, they want a long turm relationship, there scared. the min. it starts to get more involved, they run or give some reason for the relationship not to go on, Just hang in there and the right one will be by,
my 2 cents worth,
Margew
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10/21/2007 9:00:43 AM |
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lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 54
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Maybe it's your attitude? You seem very negative about online dating, since you think most men are here for cyber sex...personally I am here to find an obese pervert.
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10/21/2007 9:08:26 AM |
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margaret12454
Chocowinity, NC
age: 53
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Maybe it's your attitude? You seem very negative about online dating, since you think most men are here for cyber sex...personally I am here to find an obese pervert.
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good one
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10/21/2007 9:10:25 AM |
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lawvixen
Oldsmar, FL
age: 54
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Thank you, thank you....
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10/22/2007 5:09:24 AM |
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jeteddie
Sherwood, AR
age: 66
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Inorder to develop a serious relationship time is required as in baking a cake.
It requires knowledge, exposure, and yes maybe some sexual contact. Sexual activity
of whatever nature is a large part of a relationship
Everyone over the age of 6 years old has some baggage. Imagine the baggage a 60 year
old has with say an ex wife or two and numerous affairs that may have lasted more
than 2 years each
If a person wakes up screaming due to a Viet Nam experience every night that
probably will not go away because he meets you............lower that experience and
see other events that may play a part in who person is
For me their is initial looks, then personality, then general interest, and eventually sexual interest
PLAYER? Now what does that mean? For me I am out of here
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10/24/2007 4:41:36 PM |
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browneyes4425
Baton Rouge, LA
age: 63
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Awesome answer Jeteddie! I like the way you think about baking the cake, etc. Every body has baggage, some more than others, and at our age it is to be expected. You're NOT a player Jeteddie, and I appreciate that. Thanks for the reply.
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