10/30/2007 7:19:10 PM |
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crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 33
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as to why men can't be honest about what they feel for someone. Why can't they just say what is on their mind, good or bad and see what happens? Is it a fear of rejection or an insecurity? Im just a bit confused. I am sure I already have the answer but would like to know your thoughts.
(going to bed now.... 3:20 am here but will check back in to see what you have to say because i would really like an honest opinion here! Thanks. Lisa
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10/30/2007 7:21:57 PM |
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single_looking2
Wayne, NJ
age: 41
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I could always tell what I am feeling about a person usually when I am asked, but sometimes it is hard to tell someone what's on your mind especially when you are close, and it is bad because you do not want to hurt the other person, but if it is good then you should be able to tell the other person what is on you mind.
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10/30/2007 7:23:15 PM |
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grace_ful_heart
Bryan, TX
age: 38
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i would like to know that answer as well.. hmmmm,
what happened to getting to know someone first?
i think they are scared lisa!
Man is not made for defeat!
[Edited 10/30/2007 7:35:44 PM]
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10/30/2007 7:23:25 PM |
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me4aminute
Rutland, IA
age: 34 online now!
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I think that men take rejection harder than women. I think women tend to vent about it and then move on to what comes next. Men seem to take more caution because they have bigger egos than women. I think we are all scared of being rejected though and that holds us back from really saying what is in our hearts.
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10/30/2007 7:24:04 PM |
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crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 33
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Single...Then you are a rare, because most men I know can't say it or wont. It just boggles the mind! Thanks for being a friend! 
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10/30/2007 7:24:56 PM |
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krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 39
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Some of us do say what is actually on our minds honey!....life is what it is....some times it sucks for us too.....some times it has nothing to do with fear or insecurity
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10/30/2007 7:25:35 PM |
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crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 33
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Krupa... then what does it have to do with? You know we are friends and I respect your opinion... If you want to email me in private then please do. 
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10/30/2007 7:26:05 PM |
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zagi
Iowa City, IA
age: 30
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I dont wont people to think I am a p*ssy
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10/30/2007 7:26:34 PM |
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castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38
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Rejection sucks!

"Wuv?"
Who needs "Wuv?"
Whats "Wuv" but a second hand emotion...
Hang on...I don't think i was ever really rejected , maybe not completely wanted , but never really rejected.
Ok , let me feel safe in my delusion ok?
Shazbot...

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10/30/2007 7:28:28 PM |
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crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 33
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You are right Troy... you were never rejected. What happened with us was your decision and yours alone.
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10/30/2007 7:29:35 PM |
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lunawoman01
Whittier, CA
age: 46
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So true...
I need love...
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10/30/2007 7:29:38 PM |
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gotlove4u
Texarkana, TX
age: 45
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i actually think is easy to say what i feel but i do hate to be turn down but ok crazy can come to dallas and lick you up and down no just kidding
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10/30/2007 7:32:37 PM |
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soultrynights
San Clemente, CA
age: 38
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nobody can never say that i dont speak my mind , as a matter of fact i need to tone down what im thinking, to say , half the time 
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10/30/2007 7:33:25 PM |
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crazycajun74
Dallas, TX
age: 33
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No Soul... don't ever change... that is what I like about you the most!
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10/30/2007 7:34:00 PM |
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cheygirl
Cheyenne, WY
age: 42
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Soul and Cajun - you two - get to the tard thread now! *points*
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