2/21/2009 11:28:09 PM |
People Who Choose Not To Have Kids |
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satinsky2
Charlotte, NC
age: 59
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Okay, people this thread is Not about people who could not have kids. It is about couples who were capable of having children and decided not to have kids. There is Nothing wrong with deciding not to have kids as a couple, it is a choice. I divorced my two boys father about 17 years ago for damned good reasons. I have been thinking how fortunate I am to have my two boys from that marriage. For many reasons I feel I am blessed to have my kids, and have always felt that way. I just can't imagine not having them. What I have been wondering though, are couples who decided not to have kids even though they could, do they regret that decision after they are divorced, widowed, etc. that they did not have kids? And also, if you are divorced, never married, widowed, are you happy you have kids?
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2/22/2009 5:18:24 PM |
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maryg2
Philadelphia, PA
age: 39
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absolutely glad i have my boys. i feel bad and some guilt for the lives they have had to live from broken households and i have to hold some responsibility for that cuz i made those choices to be w/their fathers at the time not knowing what consequences there would be, if any. but i also no matter what have tried all my life so far and continue to do the right thing in raising my boys and i do see the beautiful benefits of them loving me back and becoming young men that will be worthy of the world one day. its the best i can do and i can only hope no matter the "broken" environment i gave them, they will have thought it was still a "happy" environment to the best of my ability for them.
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2/22/2009 5:28:20 PM |
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devildog1965
Lexington, SC
age: 43 online now!
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you what being a single dad I'm been blessed with my son. He was 3 and now he's 18 and I don't know if I want any more. besides I'm not getting that reversed.
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2/22/2009 10:51:46 PM |
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hsprin
Savannah, MO
age: 32
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I know many people who never had kids in life, or married or not married, that's their choice. I for one always wanted to have children and I love my children too death, and fact, I wished things turned out different for I would love to have more. I think that children are a blessing and I can't imagine my life without them.
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2/23/2009 7:24:02 AM |
People Who Choose Not To Have Kids |
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serenityfrank
Toms River, NJ
age: 50
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luv my baby girl 13,,have met some that cant accept dating someone
who has a child in thier lives(shes here p/t with me)
if they cant accept her,,then oh well-NEXT!
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2/23/2009 12:26:15 PM |
People Who Choose Not To Have Kids |
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journey12
Crawfordville, GA
age: 29
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I am because having kids makes me feel great and so blessed but mostly I see the image of the love my x husband and I did share in the eyes of our two sons I know it was well worth time to have had a family
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2/23/2009 2:48:38 PM |
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redbeamer
Winston Salem, NC
age: 62
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My children and myself get along very well. I don't see them as much, they have their own lives. I would not give them up, they are mine and I love them. When I am old and sick like my mother, I expect them to be there to help. That is what familes do.
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2/27/2009 3:34:38 PM |
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beu24
Beverly Hills, CA
age: 49
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Are smart as hell in my book.
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