11/4/2007 5:07:54 AM |
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maxlite777
Louisville, KY
age: 59
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I have had men approach me and have been very flattered....but as soon as they start looking at other women while talking to me or their cell phones ring and they leave me hanging....like I am supposed to wait it is a total turn-off for me.
So my suggestion would be.
If your going to approach someone of interest for the short amount of time that is spent engaging conversation with that person please give that person your full attention...I know that it is hard not to look at others that are attractive but try to use a little restraint, nothing will kill your efforts more or make you look like a loser and player.
All of us want others to see us as interesting and that others find us attractive, but sometimes without being aware or maybe out of habit...we sabotage our efforts without even knowing why.
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11/4/2007 5:12:20 AM |
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heatherhoney
Middlesboro, KY
age: 50 online now!
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Well said...and I agree 100%. If a man takes the time to give me his attention...he deserves ALL of mine!! 
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11/4/2007 5:24:25 AM |
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
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I don't understand ppl like that. Why is it we are always looking for something better. Like you said they are talking to you and then start eyeing someone else.
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11/4/2007 5:29:07 AM |
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007shark76
Beverly Hills, FL
age: 31
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I agree that isn't a way to flirt. It is a way of causing disinterest. I have had that happen to me while flirting with women and her eyes wander or take a cell phone call. I take that as not interested. On a few occasions, the woman was interested but then I wasn't anymore.
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11/4/2007 5:39:45 AM |
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maxlite777
Louisville, KY
age: 59
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My first thought is....Why are you bothering me? It certainly isn't a good first impression jmo.
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11/4/2007 6:50:53 AM |
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ladykathryn0414
Denison, IA
age: 29
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Its human nature to look for something better. And for the most part, men do look. I agree that the whole ignoring you to chat on the cell phone is wrong... unless it was an important call... but if it was just him bs-ing with one of his freinds..its rude. That would be the last time I went out with him.
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11/4/2007 6:54:52 AM |
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1mt
Johnstown, PA
age: 53
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now ladies you all look too. but i agree you should get all our attention. hit the button send the call to voice and call them back later.
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11/4/2007 7:03:28 AM |
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e_cole
South Bend, IN
age: 42
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I don't even answer the phone while driving, let alone while in conversation, might see who was calling. The looking around while flirting....... Guilty!!!! My son's mom put it this way..."It's not that you look at other women, it's HOW you look at other women." lol
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11/4/2007 7:04:54 AM |
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metu
Dahlonega, GA
age: 46 online now!
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Just wear mirrored shades........then you can look all you want undetected! Just kidding! I think it's very rude & he would never get a 2nd chance with me!
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