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11/4/2007 2:18:21 PM Fantasy is easier to grasp?  

trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50


After a lengthy conversation with a friend on another site recently.. he asked a valid question that I am bringing to you guys. Do you think that many of us have come to prefer online relationships to stay as online relationships? Maybe so that we really don't have to face or deal with a REAL relationship? Have we become so used to the online thing that it is simply easier to keep online relationships a fantasy instead of wanting to actually have the realities of a face to face partnership or date?

11/4/2007 2:21:37 PM Fantasy is easier to grasp?  

peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40


Tru, I've talked to people about this very subject..I know for my part as I've been trying to rack my brain and find out..Yes, I've taken Security behind this box, I've been hurt thru it also. Only in doing that did I see that I really had to get out more and talk to someone face to face. I have people on here that I'd never wish to lose and do hope to meet. but, I know I'm a runner and when it gets close, For some reason...I get Scared. Trying to face that. blah!
xoxoPeaches.

11/4/2007 2:22:16 PM Fantasy is easier to grasp?  

tiquondo
Smyrna, TN
age: 49


maybe the eunics want an online relationship, i need the real thing. i'm about to bust!

11/4/2007 2:23:45 PM Fantasy is easier to grasp?  

bluboy
Elsberry, MO
age: 55 online now!


Not I... I have found you can get to know someone a little better before the first meeting, that seem to help... Maybe some are only looking for a on line thing, sure does past the time.

Later, Blu

11/4/2007 2:27:29 PM Fantasy is easier to grasp?  

trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50


So for you Peaches.. it is easier to have the online relationships which I think alot of people can relate to. It's not that I feel " safer" behind this screen.. but like you, I tend to run when someone gets too close. For me, it has simply become a part of my life. I have been chatting since 95. Even though I get out a couple nights a week, I work alot and part of the work is done from the computer.. so for years, this has simply been company for me on those long nights when I burn the candle at both ends. I would really love for someone to give me a reason to never see another personals site or even chats.

11/4/2007 2:34:15 PM Fantasy is easier to grasp?  

menace47
Sturgeon Bay, WI
age: 42


say it ain't true tru! I hope it isn't, but I guess I'm too new to be a good judge on this one. All I know is that I don't want this to be the end-all of a relationship.... please let it eventually lead to face to face! Hell, I don't even know that I could call it anytype of relationship if there has been no face-to-face meeting. Once we've met in person, and I know there's a connection and the right kind of chemistry... well then at least I'll know what I'm fantasizing about woo hoo



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11/4/2007 2:38:40 PM Fantasy is easier to grasp?  

peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40


Well, You know I'm in what I call a "Waiting Game". I've just Recently decided to hell with that and I've been getting out. I promised my Son a "Gym date" everyday of the week, I talk to many people there but, It's really hard for me to get "Personal" in real life anymore. I'm talking to people on the phone to. I think we just have to get Sick and Tired of Being on here. I took a break, (much needed) Regrouped and decided that I will do this as a means to get over my rl shyness and am really getting to know people. It's nice to talk about Anything at times.
xoxoPeaches.


I deal with alot of Issues here that you just can't in public lol.



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11/4/2007 2:42:20 PM Fantasy is easier to grasp?  

trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50


Fantasies and dreams are awesome. They are the link to the possibilites.. but... I could never allow them to overtake the opportunity to experience LIFE. I still get out there and enjoy time with my friends and I deal with the public every day.. so this is just a great way for me to unwind and relax.

11/4/2007 2:50:31 PM Fantasy is easier to grasp?  

bluboy
Elsberry, MO
age: 55 online now!


I'm wondering who's shirt you have on there

11/4/2007 3:24:22 PM Fantasy is easier to grasp?  

peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40


Blu, I'm sure she stole it fair and Square just like I did in the one on my Profile!
xoxoPeaches.

11/4/2007 3:31:19 PM Fantasy is easier to grasp?  

trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50


lol Blu.. My oldest son is a body builder and I get his old white dress shirts as he grows out of em

11/4/2007 3:47:06 PM Fantasy is easier to grasp?  

bluboy
Elsberry, MO
age: 55 online now!


Sure, I buy that one!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yes Peaches, I just check out your new pic's (nice)and I did notice it... Must be this months photos for you ladies.. Men's shirt, but must said, I like them, very sexy...

Later, Blu

11/4/2007 4:25:22 PM Fantasy is easier to grasp?  

eroticartist
West Harrison, NY
age: 48 online now!


This is really a good and honest thread Tru. I'm at a point now on these sites and still haven't met anyone in person to have coffee with or just talk to face to face. Granted I email, IM and talk on the phone but I need that physical touch so I don't think I'm in a bubble or on another planet. I've met some great and caring people here but have yet to meet any of them. so, in feeling that way I think I'm more lonelier. You can look but don't touch, you can touch but don't taste

11/4/2007 4:36:53 PM Fantasy is easier to grasp?  

trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50


erotic.. there is something to what you said about being on such a site and feeling more alone than other times. I think it's being so close that you could reach out.. but so far that you cannot touch.

11/4/2007 4:41:11 PM Fantasy is easier to grasp?  

butterfly58
Arcadia, MO
age: 58


I agree that you can get caught up in just all the emails/IMs/ and phone calls but eventually you have to come to a point of saying "Where's this going are we going to meet or not?" And in my case if we're not and I want it to, then I say "ok, we're friends but I have other things to do" I'm not interested in just an on-line relationship. I have met with a few from here and had great times--even have a long distance relationship that's going slow but it's still going.


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