| 3/4/2009 4:58:49 PM |
Ladies do you make the first move more often when |
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soloact59
Albuquerque, NM
age: 49
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| 1. Never, a lady never makes the first move. |
| 2. It's about the same online or in person |
| 3. I'm much bolder online than in person |
| 4. In person, it's easier to tell if he's into me |
| 5. I'm just glad I'm not a man, let them approach me |
Ladies do you make the first move more often when you're online or in person? Do tell.
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| 3/4/2009 5:03:15 PM |
Ladies do you make the first move more often when |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
age: 36
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I feel I more bold in person.
I see a man I like and want to know I do
approach. Online I feel a little more leary.
I guess I feel better being able to look a man in
the eye and shake his hand. Online there is no way
for me to know for sure if he laughs or smiles at me.
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| 3/4/2009 6:32:54 PM |
Ladies do you make the first move more often when |
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soloact59
Albuquerque, NM
age: 49
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Awakeing, I can't for the life of me picture any guy laughing at you, unless you told a joke. 
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| 3/4/2009 6:47:49 PM |
Ladies do you make the first move more often when |
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beu24
Beverly Hills, CA
age: 50
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Im aggressive, I have no problem with either. I do not like for a man to approach me online nor in person.
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| 3/4/2009 6:48:13 PM |
Ladies do you make the first move more often when |
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eimi
Jacksonville, FL
age: 36
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I am bolder online because how can a guy know if your interested online unless you email him. In real life you can give off body language that gets him to approach you.
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| 3/4/2009 6:49:19 PM |
Ladies do you make the first move more often when |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 35
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Im aggressive, I have no problem with either. I do not like for a man to approach me online nor in person.
Aggressive women are such a HUGE turn on for me... I'm not saying that I don't make the first move because I do, but when a woman does it to me, it's pretty much on. 
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| 3/4/2009 7:03:19 PM |
Ladies do you make the first move more often when |
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katrinasq
Mena, AR
age: 40
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I'm a little shy in person until I get to know someone, so I am much bolder online about saying I am interested than in person. In person, I usually just send unmistakable signals so he knows I am interested, not that it ever works.
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| 3/4/2009 7:29:24 PM |
Ladies do you make the first move more often when |
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chatte09
Linden, NJ
age: 49
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I am shy at first until I get to know someone a bit and get comfortable. I've never really done any approaching in person, I've always been approached. I did, however, make an exception and chased someone a bit. Poor man, he never stood a chance! We went out with each other for about a year and a half!!
Online it's easier to be a bit bolder. The person isn't right there in front of you to watch you crash and burn!! I've done more approaching first online than in person but I still let the men do most of the approaching. And then there was the time on another site when I chased someone across the whole damned site to get him to notice me ~ his parameters wouldn't allow me to email him. **sigh** Is there a little embarassed blushing smiley? Insert him here.
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| 3/5/2009 10:24:49 AM |
Ladies do you make the first move more often when |
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barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 52
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I am bolder online, it is true,, but I was never afraid to make the first move, I have found men love the attentionm of a woman desiring them.....
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| 3/5/2009 10:31:38 AM |
Ladies do you make the first move more often when |
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lilmissala1957
Hartselle, AL
age: 51
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I think it is easier to tell if he is into me or not in person but this is kind of hard to answer. I am sort of shy. I have become bolder on line since I joined DH. In person it is easier to tell but a little skittish about approaching him unless he is without a doubt throwing his cupid arrows.
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| 3/5/2009 10:59:15 AM |
Ladies do you make the first move more often when |
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jesse72
Livingston, MT
age: 36
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Im aggressive, I have no problem with either. I do not like for a man to approach me online nor in person.
So guys should wait and stay away till you aproach them?? Seems way to complicated to me.
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| 3/5/2009 1:02:07 PM |
Ladies do you make the first move more often when |
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rainbeau
Vancouver, WA
age: 33
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online, you don't know how to filter the reality from the bullshit. It's like you take everything you read with a grain of salt. but, in person, you can pretty much feel the vibe, and know if the guy is kool or not. I like making the first move in person, because it shows the guy that i'm into him. Usually if he trys to make the first move and i'm not intersted, than it's uncomfortable for me, and him...and the rest of the date usually sux! so, ladies...let em know what's up, and give em the go ahead if you're feeling em. They can't read minds!
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| 3/5/2009 1:05:58 PM |
Ladies do you make the first move more often when |
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hsprin
Savannah, MO
age: 33
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I don't think it really matters, online or real life. You can't be afraid of going after want you want.
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| 3/5/2009 1:12:57 PM |
Ladies do you make the first move more often when |
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rhonda49
International Falls, MN
age: 49
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Definately bolder online but normally do not have a problem in person either.
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| 3/5/2009 1:30:07 PM |
Ladies do you make the first move more often when |
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ryn1
Cobourg, ON
age: 49
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For this wallflower, it's easier for me to make the first move online....the rejection's much easier to handle at a distance.
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