| 3/7/2009 12:25:45 AM |
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dj2187
Morrisville, PA
age: 23
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a girl i know has been obviously flirting with me. I completely have a chance to date or at least hook up with this girl. The first issue is that when i met the girl i wasn't really interested. She seemed to flirtatious with everyone. now it seems like shes pretty much flirting with me, or talking to someone about me. The issue is that im not even sure what i want with her. She really seems like a great girl, but there are just some things that turn me away. i guess my question is this: do you guys think it's possible that the potential annoyances i see in a relationship with her are just me being scared to try it? or maybe im seeing something that just turns me off and a lack of other possibilities is causing me to really think about it. Tonight, for example, she first told me she wants to make out with me, then pretended like she didnt say it. after that, she decided to whisper softly in my ear when she was hugging me goodbye for the one of three times that she wants to f**k me.
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| 3/7/2009 12:31:06 AM |
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redjulie65
Beloit, WI
age: 45
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WELL there you go maybe she just wants to f**k you
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| 3/7/2009 1:16:44 AM |
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judit0606
Big Stone Gap, VA
age: 53
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... The first issue is that when i met the girl i wasn't really interested...
 There's YOUR ANSWER...right there! You are a challenge to her and once you give her what she wants...it's bye-bye MOST ALL GIRLS don't like it when they are not sought after and made to feel WANTED from the get-go!!! Sorry,  sweetie...I tend to agree with the previous poster. The thing she whispered in your ear, welll, that's pretty much ALL she wants!!! HOPE we're wrong, though...I really DO...
GOOD LUCK, either way!!!
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| 3/7/2009 1:44:16 AM |
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luella2u
North Bend, WA
age: 55
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I'd say that you have reservations for good reason. Look elsewhere. Unless that's all you want too.
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| 3/7/2009 2:33:02 AM |
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luvzhugz12
Richardson, TX
age: 45
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doesn't sound like she's looking for anything long term
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| 3/7/2009 2:51:40 AM |
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marqeye
Kent, OH
age: 35
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Um put a condom on and hit it?
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| 3/7/2009 4:49:04 AM |
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honestami
Mantua, OH
age: 55
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Go ahead and do her and then whisper in her ear;;;;See what you missed???;;;;
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| 3/7/2009 12:00:14 PM |
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dj2187
Morrisville, PA
age: 23
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ya pretty much all things i was thinkin. just go with it and see what happens.
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| 3/7/2009 12:02:54 PM |
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jaguarmike
Panama City, FL
age: 49
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ya pretty much all things i was thinkin. just go with it and see what happens.
Yeah you are young, a booty call would not be bad since that what seems to be her goal, no broken hearts, just use protection, enjoy and move on if there is no chemistry. Sounds like nobody is gonna get hurt here at all, cept maybe you if you fall for her. If your ok with the risk, no harm no foul.
Have some fun.
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| 3/7/2009 12:03:34 PM |
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magtag
East York, ON
age: 44
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Go see Libra's thread in General Discussion about gut instincts. What's your's telling you?
I'd go with your gut on this one. And if you decide you just want to "hook-up", make sure you cover up!! You don't want to end up roped into something you aren't prepared for!
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| 3/7/2009 12:15:00 PM |
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blueskiestwo
Grantsburg, WI
age: 40
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I personally would move-on..runn foresttt runnnnnnnnn
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| 3/7/2009 2:39:25 PM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 37
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When I was your age this was a no brainer. You are 22. I'm not going to tell you what to do because you already know the answer.
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| 3/7/2009 2:42:45 PM |
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happy2lucky
Lawrenceville, GA
age: 53
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a girl i know has been obviously flirting with me. I completely have a chance to date or at least hook up with this girl. The first issue is that when i met the girl i wasn't really interested. She seemed to flirtatious with everyone. now it seems like shes pretty much flirting with me, or talking to someone about me. The issue is that im not even sure what i want with her. She really seems like a great girl, but there are just some things that turn me away. i guess my question is this: do you guys think it's possible that the potential annoyances i see in a relationship with her are just me being scared to try it? or maybe im seeing something that just turns me off and a lack of other possibilities is causing me to really think about it. Tonight, for example, she first told me she wants to make out with me, then pretended like she didnt say it. after that, she decided to whisper softly in my ear when she was hugging me goodbye for the one of the times that she wants to f**k me.
flattery is always a turn-on and can influence our actions, usually for the wrong reasons. if you aren't for sure about why you want to see someone, then it's usually for the wrong reasons.
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| 3/8/2009 6:35:24 PM |
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dj2187
Morrisville, PA
age: 23
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When I was your age this was a no brainer. You are 22. I'm not going to tell you what to do because you already know the answer.
hah really. ya i pretty much know the direction ill take. kinda thought it over and thats probly a decent solution.
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| 3/8/2009 6:37:04 PM |
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bbw46reader
Frederick, MD
age: 48
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hah really. ya i pretty much know the direction ill take. kinda thought it over and thats probly a decent solution.
Don't be silly, wrap your willy!
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| 3/8/2009 6:37:29 PM |
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upnorthlady
Cloquet, MN
age: 46
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Sorry but I would avoid that gal and look for Miss Right.
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| 3/8/2009 6:55:53 PM |
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foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 52
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a girl i know has been obviously flirting with me. I completely have a chance to date or at least hook up with this girl. The first issue is that when i met the girl i wasn't really interested. She seemed to flirtatious with everyone. now it seems like shes pretty much flirting with me, or talking to someone about me. The issue is that im not even sure what i want with her. She really seems like a great girl, but there are just some things that turn me away. i guess my question is this: do you guys think it's possible that the potential annoyances i see in a relationship with her are just me being scared to try it? or maybe im seeing something that just turns me off and a lack of other possibilities is causing me to really think about it. Tonight, for example, she first told me she wants to make out with me, then pretended like she didnt say it. after that, she decided to whisper softly in my ear when she was hugging me goodbye for the one of three times that she wants to f**k me.
It's not weird or strange what your gut feeling is telling ya
Sounds like she just wants to get laid and still some things just turn you away
You're not being scared..Your a smart young man..why be with someone that just doesnt do it for you
She's a c*ck tease and she's pulling your strings
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| 3/8/2009 7:04:34 PM |
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milktogo
Vernal, UT
age: 55
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What she said!
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| 3/8/2009 10:23:06 PM |
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pankywitz
Posen, IL
age: 22
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One of my friends presented a very interested argument to me about situations like this...SO WHAT.
The point is what is the worst that could happen if you go for it. Really there are 2 possible outcomes.
1. You find out you really don't want to be with her or she finds out she really doesn't want to be with you. This isn't a bad outcome. Dating really is all about finding out. If she's not for you at least you find out and you can move on.
2. You find out you do like her and she does like you and you have a happy relationship together.
The point is if you don't persue it, it is very hard to figure out if you should. If you do persue it, it becomes much clearer if you should continue. So my argument is that you should always go for it. Even if things do go wrong, its when things go wrong that you learn so many valuable life lessons. GO FOR IT! don't worry about if you should JUST DO IT!!!
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| 3/8/2009 10:27:47 PM |
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binderdundat
New Orleans, LA
age: 49 online now!
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I'm only going to respond to the "irritating things" you hinted at, because you're going to do what you're going to do anyway.
Trust me... if she's doing things now that irritate you? They will only increase a HUNDRED fold with dating!! And if you choose to overlook them while dating???? You can rest assured they'll magnify by a THOUSAND times when married!!!
Trust me.
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| 3/8/2009 10:36:28 PM |
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ravishingred
Corona, CA
age: 39
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I think first you have to decide who YOU are and what YOU want. Then figure out where she does or does not fit in your life. I suspect your hesitation is based on you not being a Booty Call kinda guy? If you two are in the same circle, it can get complicated. So be careful and most importantly, be true to you.
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| 3/8/2009 11:13:45 PM |
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ladyog
The Dalles, OR
age: 55
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Game Player you deserve better. Don't waste your time unless its just about a piece of ass.
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| 3/9/2009 4:52:23 AM |
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ge0ge0
Tallahassee, FL
age: 44
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a girl i know has been obviously flirting with me. I completely have a chance to date or at least hook up with this girl. The first issue is that when i met the girl i wasn't really interested. She seemed to flirtatious with everyone. now it seems like shes pretty much flirting with me, or talking to someone about me. The issue is that im not even sure what i want with her. She really seems like a great girl, but there are just some things that turn me away. i guess my question is this: do you guys think it's possible that the potential annoyances i see in a relationship with her are just me being scared to try it? or maybe im seeing something that just turns me off and a lack of other possibilities is causing me to really think about it. Tonight, for example, she first told me she wants to make out with me, then pretended like she didnt say it. after that, she decided to whisper softly in my ear when she was hugging me goodbye for the one of three times that she wants to f**k me.
You're dealing with a Psycho-chick. Dr.Robert D. Hare made this Psychopathy Checklist that assesses both interpersonal and affective components as well as lifestyle and antisocial deficits. Problem is everyone at any given time can be diagnosed as a sociopath.
Here is the checklist. Check off all that apply with this gal:
The following findings are for research purposes only, and are not used in clinical diagnosis. These items cover the affective, interpersonal, and behavioral features. Each item is rated on a score from zero to two. The sum total determines the extent of a person's psychopathy.[6]
Factor1: Aggressive narcissism
1. Glibness/superficial charm
2. Grandiose sense of self-worth
3. Pathological lying
4. Cunning/manipulative
5. Lack of remorse or guilt
6. Shallow
7. Callous/lack of empathy
8. Failure to accept responsibility for own actions
Factor2: Socially deviant lifestyle
1. Need for stimulation/proneness to boredom
2. Parasitic lifestyle
3. Poor behavioral control
4. Promiscuous Sexual Behavior
5. Lack of realistic, long-term goals
6. Impulsivity
7. Irresponsibility
8. Juvenile delinquency
9. Early behavior problems
10. Revocation of conditional release
Traits not correlated with either factor
1. Many short-term marital relationships
2. Criminal versatility
I think she's like a 1.4 or at worst a 1.6. If you do her you might learn she's actually a 2.5 at worst a 2.7.
Good luck with that
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| 3/9/2009 4:56:53 AM |
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beverduster
Chandler, OK
age: 65
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jump her bones
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