11/7/2007 2:16:58 PM |
Two people loving another woman too? Is it to rare to find? |
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studnwife
Eagle Creek, OR
age: 30
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Just looking to talk and see if anyone shares our views on being in a committed relationship with your partner and both of you loving another woman. (the same other woman) Has anyone out there experienced this other than us? We have been together for over 10 years now and gotten married, had 2 wonderful children and are very VERY happy. So it started off just looking for sex and the excitement of it all finally wore off after being hurt a few times and getting serious about someone. She turned out to be a drama queen and more trouble than anything but the emotions and feelings where genuine and true. And since then we have turned towards trying to find someone who wants a long term committed relationship like the one we have. Can we be the only ones out there??? Love does exist why can't it between three people instead of just two? The idea has so much more to offer than just sex so why not make it real and not just a fantasy to be filled in the bedroom? Is the concept so hard to grasp? Tell me there is someone out there with an intelligence thing to say about this and hopefully your out there too, yes you, the one reading this with the same view. We can't be alone...
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11/7/2007 2:23:36 PM |
Two people loving another woman too? Is it to rare to find? |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Sounds you may wish for a "Sub" as third and yes, It is extremely rare those ever work out. Most people view love and Marriage as only 2. If you don't do Sub/Dom, Maybe that's where you should look. good luck
xoxoPeaches.
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11/7/2007 2:24:31 PM |
Two people loving another woman too? Is it to rare to find? |
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homegirl1970
Red Creek, NY
age: 37
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No Its not as rare as people would think...I know lots of married couples that
invite others to be with them in a committed relationship...A couple on here have the
same lifestyle..I think Its cool that you Love and Trust eachother to be able to have a third party in your relationship....
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11/7/2007 3:01:52 PM |
Two people loving another woman too? Is it to rare to find? |
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studnwife
Eagle Creek, OR
age: 30
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Thank you that's a comfort. We have been feeling really down recently because people are so accusing and just generaly don't underastand that we do have a wonderful relationship built on trust and commitment. Geez we were homeless for a time together even, she almost died of a heart condition, ya I almost lost her... We have gone through the loss of someone we deeply cared about and ya know we are all the stronger for it. I think our experiances and Love for one another has formed into an unbreakable bond. ANd beleave me there are plenty of people both men and women that have tried and tested that many times.
Still are you out there listening, can you hear us girly? Where are you??? (sigh)
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11/7/2007 3:03:41 PM |
Two people loving another woman too? Is it to rare to find? |
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studnwife
Eagle Creek, OR
age: 30
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Thanks for you post We have got a lot of reticule for our lifestyle but we stand by it because the people that have said so many negative things just can't see who we truly are. thanks for caring
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11/7/2007 3:07:04 PM |
Two people loving another woman too? Is it to rare to find? |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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People often bash what they don't understand...Stand Strong. and good luck to you. It's not my cup of tea but, I try not to Judge.
xoxoPeaches.
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11/7/2007 3:09:40 PM |
Two people loving another woman too? Is it to rare to find? |
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splitlicker
Stockbridge, GA
age: 43
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Not as rare as you think. Last year my wife and I had a slave My wife is bi and submissive) and though we played together and she had her place there were still times when we would go out as just friends and we truely cared about each other. She decided to get out of the lifestyle for personal reason and though we dont play together anymore we are still good friends.
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11/7/2007 3:12:46 PM |
Two people loving another woman too? Is it to rare to find? |
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knoxsouthy
Knoxville, TN
age: 32
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peaches,
People often bash what they don't understand
I don't understand bestiality but that doesn't make it any less wrong.
Why marry in the first place if you don't really mean the "till death do us part bit"?
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11/7/2007 3:15:20 PM |
Two people loving another woman too? Is it to rare to find? |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Hey, Like I said,. It's not for me because I only need and want One partner..I think it takes all kinds. I don't believe in beastality or child abuse either lol common...To make that comparision is kinda lame don't you think?
consenting Adults are just that. Let them do w/e they like as long as it does not affect you. jmo
xoxoPeaches.
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11/7/2007 4:09:58 PM |
Two people loving another woman too? Is it to rare to find? |
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studnwife
Eagle Creek, OR
age: 30
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Ya true there Peach. And ya we have reasons for our beliefs and restrictions on what we find exceptable like everyone else we just don't force it upon anyone. I'm not gay but I have a gay friend and I don't agree with his views of what he does but who am I to judge or say he is wrong. My opionion is my own and I respect him as a person not for his choices. To each there own I say and it's good to know that not everyone is looking down on us for who we are.
Thanks nearly everyone,
Antonio
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11/7/2007 4:45:59 PM |
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splitlicker
Stockbridge, GA
age: 43
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Stud we live in atlanta but play with a woman from across the Bama line though we dont get to play very often we still have strong feeling for her she is not only our playmate she is our friend as well
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11/7/2007 4:52:00 PM |
Two people loving another woman too? Is it to rare to find? |
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justenoughsin
Elkhart, IN
age: 36
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So I take it your wife is bi,or do you want to fall in love with a man to?
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11/7/2007 5:06:42 PM |
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studnwife
Eagle Creek, OR
age: 30
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LOL ya she is bi but that really has not a lot to do with why we are only interested in another woman. You see we are also spiritual people and have a very literal view of what God conveys as Adultery. Now I'm not trying to start a debate over our beliefs and I know that statement probably pissed off a few people. Anyways yes that is what felt natural in the first place, we started off just wanting what everyone wants, a threesome. But with experiance comes wisdome and maturity and we have grown a lot since we started out years ago. Well thanks for sharing and none of that was directed to you dude thanks for the post got a laugh that's for sure have a great day.
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11/7/2007 8:02:32 PM |
Two people loving another woman too? Is it to rare to find? |
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studnwife
Eagle Creek, OR
age: 30
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Thanks everyone for giving me your support it's comforting to hear a good word when so many people have put us down. Have a good one.
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11/7/2007 8:05:54 PM |
Two people loving another woman too? Is it to rare to find? |
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splitlicker
Stockbridge, GA
age: 43
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Sin I aint the one to aggrivate you little turd was I speaking to you when you grow up and stop pissing on a woman instead of cuming on her and know the difference then you can offer me your opinion till then be a good little boy and sit in the corner with your mouth shut
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