| 11/10/2007 2:54:03 AM |
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eakins
Denver, CO
age: 21
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There is this certain guy that I have been talking to..... and the first thing he mentions to me (WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING ME) when he chats with me is how he wants to marry me! I asked him why this was and when we got to talking a little bit he told me all about him and what has happened to him. I told him that I was sorry because I am a people person and I care an awful lot about people! But marrying me when you don't even know anything about me! Come on now! What's that going to solve?! That's nuts! He then told me that if his next relationship doesn't work out he's giving up all together. And he wants it to be with me..... because he says that he has been searching for happiness for too long! Like that's my fault?!
What would you all recommend I do with this situation?
[Edited 11/10/2007 4:23:55 AM]
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| 11/10/2007 9:53:08 AM |
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ladykathryn0414
Denison, IA
age: 29
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hit delete and maybe block
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| 11/10/2007 9:56:46 AM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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I get those alot as I'm sure alot of women do. It's sad that they are so desperate to want to marry anyone who will say yes.. but.. loneliness can make a person do strange things
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| 11/10/2007 10:02:58 AM |
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eyernmann
Montrose, CO
age: 61
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Run like the wind. It is hard enough to deal with someone you have known for years, sometimes, and THINK you know them, and then find out they are psycho. Someone who wants to marry someone without even meeting them in this length of time, needs professional help.
Now, me...I just want to find somebody in the are who wants to catch a movie, take a hike, or just talk over some kind of beverage. I don't think men and women were intended to live together. 
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| 11/10/2007 10:06:07 AM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 36
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let me get this straight.you are 21 and some guy you have talked to through the internet says his next relationship will be his last and he wants it to be with you?are you kiddin me?do just what they said and then lay low for a while....just in case.
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| 11/10/2007 10:06:22 AM |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49
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YIKES! I wouldn't chat anymore, scary!
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| 11/10/2007 10:10:38 AM |
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knightnyte2
Spring, TX
age: 55
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i agree tru. loneliness is a terrible thing. not quite as easy, but sitting back and learning who you are will help you in your next relationship. It's not easy to sit and really find yourself, all the time being eaten by that lonely bug. For some, they never learn themselves, and set themselves up for failure over and over.
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| 11/10/2007 10:14:37 AM |
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mr_passion_2006
Texarkana, TX
age: 45
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wow you guy what if this guy that said that is a real deal i mean what if he would married her and make her happy come on u all are telling her to kick him back in the coner when if i was her i would tell him to slow down and that it is way to soon to be talking about that but i wouldn't just put the guy off befor i knew wnat his real attention are
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| 11/10/2007 10:17:46 AM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 50
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Ths biggest mistake people make is jump from relationship to relationship.. one to try to " fix" what failed in the last one. The fix comes from within. Again, the guy just sounds lonely and hurt and hoping someone else can repair that. It is something he will have to do for himself.. within himself. Just ignore him. Telling him this will not change his mind and he will simply go on to the next victim
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| 11/10/2007 10:45:53 AM |
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skunkbreath
Saint James, MO
age: 52
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"What would you all recommend I do with this situation?"
are you serious?!!!
YOU LET THIS GUY GET AWAY?!!!...this may be your last chance for a lifelong commitment!!
If you have already discouraged him , go back and beg him to return. Then begin wedding plans.
If you don't you will live a life of lonelyness and recrimination over this decision.
But, as you wile away the long hours in a nursing home at the age of 120 you can dream of what could have been.
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| 11/10/2007 10:49:16 AM |
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slitlikr
Martinsburg, WV
age: 39
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he sounds like barney fif,moron.......dont talk to him he will become a stalker.
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| 11/10/2007 10:54:40 AM |
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elfiegirl
Jacksonville, FL
age: 53
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C'mon now.....
You can't just rush into anything with anyone.
Everyone knows that only works in the movies!
A lifelong relationship takes lots of time and work!
Duh....can anyone say "divorce rate"???? JMO
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| 11/10/2007 11:00:28 AM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 36
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yeah.it's like 50 %
i'm sitting at 0 for 1 so my next is a keeper.........right?lol....seriously though?
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| 11/10/2007 11:18:37 AM |
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lazehorses
Fordyce, NE
age: 34
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Hey Wiley! right back at ya!
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| 11/10/2007 1:53:46 PM |
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eakins
Denver, CO
age: 21
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I hear you there! I'm 0 for 1 too! lol so HOPEFULLY this next guy will treat me right! lol
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