| 11/15/2007 8:58:37 AM |
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scndlman
Lexington, KY
age: 34
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hello everyone,,,my question is simple.. do you think a hooked-up person should be on this sight? i've been asked to leave, by my significant other,, she feels like i'm still trying to find someone, if i continue, to read my mails and look at who's tried to contact me here,, even though i'm not,,,,she doesn't understand the friends that i've made,,maybe your thought's will help resolve some of her thoughts, and mine at this point,,please respond,,, by the way,,those of you who wishto keep in touch must send an emeil soon,,Randall.... will be leaving the site soon...
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| 11/15/2007 9:04:40 AM |
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
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Randall, I am kinda in the same boat as you. I am hook-up but I am not being asked to leave. I don't see any reason why we should leave. I have made a lot of friends on here and I do enjoy talking to them. Nothing wrong with that. Good luck.
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| 11/15/2007 9:09:07 AM |
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ladykathryn0414
Denison, IA
age: 29
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If you have changed your profile and it states that you are just here for friends and are not looking for someone special since you already found her...then there is no problem being here. Misrepresenting yourself is different. I don't see a problem with you staying, there are ppl on here that are in relationships and they come for the same reason you do---to stay in touch with friends and to add to conversation.
Being here while hooked up is the same as being at a bar with single friends while wearing a wedding ring. You are still going to get those that will hit on you. How you handle that is your decision. I dont' think you should leave, but its up to you.. Good luck!!! and congrats on the relationship 
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| 11/15/2007 9:10:49 AM |
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cats43injax
Jacksonville, FL
age: 44 online now!
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I personally see nothing wrong with keeping up with the friends you have made. Trust has to be in the foundation of any relationship for it to work. Good luck to the both of you. Sorry to hear the green eyed monster is cracking the whip.
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| 11/15/2007 9:12:52 AM |
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peachess
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Guys, You know I'm really happy for All of you who have "Hooked up". I would never say anyone Should leave. I think it's what you and your partner agree to and makes you Happy.
xoxoPeaches.
Make your partner feel secure if possible. If she has doubts maybe let her talk to us. lol
[Edited 11/15/2007 9:13:55 AM]
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| 11/15/2007 9:13:17 AM |
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passin_time
Craigsville, WV
age: 51
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Well I am really mew to the site, but I believe in friends, no matter what sex,I have many friends and most of them are male and have hadthen as my friend even when I was married,and yes it did cause some problems, because,some people don't understand that,ONLY if it is their friends, but relationships are two sided and should be 50/50 in order to make a go and make it work. And if one person is so insecure about themself in that relationship it will never work, geeee I hope I said that all right.
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| 11/15/2007 9:25:11 AM |
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sweetromie
Sunderland, MA
age: 46
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I think talking to other people and even some innocent flirting is healthy in a relationship, this sight is not only fun but also informative in my different areas, I don't see a reason you should go off just because you are in a relationship.
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| 11/15/2007 9:34:20 AM |
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texas09
Lubbock, TX
age: 41
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Randall...Its all good, as long as everyone knows the boundaries!!! You will always be our friend, no matter how we have to stay in touch....
Trevor
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| 11/15/2007 9:37:22 AM |
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metu
West Harrison, NY
age: 46
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Dang it Randall! Well, I guess you better E me soon!
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| 11/15/2007 9:43:59 AM |
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me4aminute
Rutland, IA
age: 35 online now!
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I have "hooked up" with the person that I hope to spend the rest of my life with and we are both still on the site. We use this site to keep intouch with one another as well with friends. We both have it in our profiles who we are with and that we are just looking for friends. I agree witht he fact that you will still get hit on, but if you are secure with one another and the relationship, things should be fine. We talk about who emails us and what is said. That way all the cards are on the table. JMO
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| 11/15/2007 9:45:50 AM |
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sumbeach763
Raeford, NC
age: 44
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Hey, its not like we are asking for the wish bone..... And hey as long as theres no nude pics being exchanged.... Then its all good...... I'm seeing someone now, and he knows of all of ya'll and its ok with him...... And I even have those on here that I talk with ..... He understands this and saids its ok....... I told him in him in the beginning about the friends here..... Open commutations between each other is good...... And the one thing that I do not do, is to be on DH, while he is around me...... Thats disrespectful and wrong.....
JMO.....Beach
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| 11/15/2007 9:49:01 AM |
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me4aminute
Rutland, IA
age: 35 online now!
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Look we have another little boy wanting to play in the forums. Honey, you will have to do better than that if you are trying to hurt my feelings. A shadow that finds it necessary to hide his profile is invisable , but have a great day anyway Saltydogg
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| 11/15/2007 9:58:06 AM |
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mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 38
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Yea, I have to agree with my friends here. It's all good these are good friends also cause if they suspect you going over the line with someone else while your hooked up,I dont know about your friends in here but my pals will rat me out in a second lol lol Mike
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| 11/15/2007 9:59:23 AM |
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morneblade
Fall River, MA
age: 49
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I agree with me4...
I've begun to feel things for someone, and she me...(I think). Distance can be a problem, but, so can work, the bar, the supermarket, even...
Do you care enough about her to put her mind at ease, Randell, then bring her here, if you haven't all ready. Show her that the real women here are HAPPY for you. You've accomplished what we're all trying to do!.... the guys are happy for you to...one less shark in the pond! 
It can be win-win all around...
And if she can handle it, she herself might make some friends, and give us another DH'er the chat and have fun with....(although another woman here is definetly tipping the scale, but BooYa for de women)
And btw, congrats' and good luck...
Morne
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| 11/15/2007 10:00:24 AM |
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big_glenn
County Londonderry, N. Ireland
United Kingdom
age: 36
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saltydoggg
ID be that desprate retart from another planet then 
,Now when you actually have something to insult me or anyone else with then come back.I heard all the insults been called alot worse to my face.It is sad thou you have to get abusive or insultive on a internet forum.Very Brave
Sadly we see alot of people like you , or maybe even you pose as so many diffrent people.I hope that some time soon you actually realise that people look on and think  another one,
I am getting to stage going to simply ignore any such posts but these people as even by myself replying it gives them a reaction,
To get back onto topic
i HAVE alot of fun chatting to others as well as me4aminute , Most people Know about us and clearly states on out profiles no harm in it,But can understand that some people may be freaked by tere partner remaining on this site, Have to work out and go what best for you both
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