| 4/21/2009 8:07:04 PM |
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kazper23
Summerville, GA
age: 23
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look ive found someone who is more than i could ever ask for,she looks at me like no woman ever has, i know she likes me and she knows how i feel but its like once we get near each other we dont know what to say,on my part when my eyes meet hers i get tounge tied,and she says that when i put my arms around her its like everything just vanishes and she doesnt know what to say,but in my past i learned that you have to comunicate if you want the relationship to work so help me out
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| 4/21/2009 8:09:46 PM |
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forever_25
Covington, GA
age: 47
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Go ahead and kiss her and break the ice.
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| 4/21/2009 8:12:12 PM |
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br289
Buford, GA
age: 43
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Yea, I would....wouldnt I?
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| 4/21/2009 8:25:01 PM |
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lsl2
Anderson, SC
age: 38
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well hon, don't go about it by asking questions. just let it come up in conversation, friends, family, hobbies, and for the love of job, kiss her already! lol
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| 4/22/2009 8:43:33 AM |
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robtest
Norcross, GA
age: 48
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As Jerry Seinfeld would say... you always need that awkward pause to "make your move"...
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| 4/22/2009 9:07:25 AM |
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kazper23
Summerville, GA
age: 23
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thanks for the advice but i have kissed her and when she kissed me back it sent cold chills down my spine,thats how i know that she cares for me to but a relationship can only go so far on that dont you think,so i dont want this one to get away because in my eyes shes perfect and i know thy say noone id perfect but the way she looks at me and kisses me is perfect i feel things that i cant explain.so help me out
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| 4/22/2009 10:22:06 AM |
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robtest
Norcross, GA
age: 48
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So why are you talking to us? Talk to her about it... 
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| 4/22/2009 10:25:07 AM |
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styx62ga1
Douglasville, GA
age: 46
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Well if shes shown that kind of feeling for you and your sure of it,be positive about it and don't dwell on the negative,she may be just as afraid of losing you possibly? Just have fun and give her a big kiss you dont have to have it all figured out over night.
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| 4/22/2009 9:48:59 PM |
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colorado_guy
Golden, CO
age: 42
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Hey kazper -- you're asking the wrong people. If they had any better social skills, they wouldn't resort to spending all their evenings here... I'm certainly no relationship expert, but since nobody else will step up, I'll give it a shot.
If I understand what you're asking for, you want advice on the kinds of questions that will stimulate conversation and give you more insight into her values and character, right? You can't get very far in a conversation about your favorite colors, so be creative; try to think outside the box. Pick one question such as "What [book, movie, song, etc.] stirs your soul?" Or show your interest in her by asking her about some life-changing event that she experienced -- how did she grow from that experience? If she is responsive, then run with it. If she doesn't respond, then go back to chitchat for a while. What is her idea of a dream date or what was the funnest date she ever had? What made it so exciting?
You also might consider the most interesting conversations you've had with family and friends. Give some thought to what the dynamics were that kept the conversation going and how you can bring that into this relationship.
As your relationship becomes more comfortable, you might consider asking her questions about relationship dynamics, like "How do you deal with conflict at work?" Questions like that can help you become conscious of her hot buttons and how to avoid them, and how to effectively manage the conflicts that will inevitably arise between you. But I caution you, if the relationship starts to turn sour, don't use that knowledge against her to make her miserable. You can't have an adult relationship unless you behave like adults.
That's my two cents.
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| 4/22/2009 11:32:19 PM |
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flipzy
Atlanta, GA
age: 29
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thanks for the advice but i have kissed her and when she kissed me back it sent cold chills down my spine,thats how i know that she cares for me
she looks at me like no woman ever has, i know she likes me and she knows how i feel but its like once we get near each other we dont know what to say,on my part when my eyes meet hers i get tounge tied,and she says that when i put my arms around her its like everything just vanishes
my advice to you, Lift some heavy weight, Eat more red meat, Play some kind of full contact sport, like Football, Soccer or Rugby, Learn how to fix things around the house, cook and do your own laundry, Lift more heavy weights, Don't watch anything on TV unless there are guns, big tits and explosions, Find something in life you are passionate about (besides women) and do something with it.
Did I also mention to lift really heavy weights ?
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| 4/23/2009 7:29:09 AM |
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colorado_guy
Golden, CO
age: 42
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Flipzy, what's your point? He's doesn't need to attract someone. He already found his dreamgirl, and she seems to be into him just as much. So what value does your suggestion give him?
Frankly, it sounds like sour grapes.
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| 4/23/2009 8:05:39 AM |
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kazper23
Summerville, GA
age: 23
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thank you ladies and coloradoguy for the real advice,it helped me alittle and glad some people want to help thanks and keep it up
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| 4/23/2009 9:12:20 AM |
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blaisethie
Lawrenceville, GA
age: 31
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Hey kazper -- you're asking the wrong people. If they had any better social skills, they wouldn't resort to spending all their evenings here... I'm certainly no relationship expert, but since nobody else will step up, I'll give it a shot.
Hey hey speak for yourself goofy I am the all time relationship expert... you just failed to read my advice columns LMFAO  OK I so just cracked myself up.
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I'd say don't force it...go with the flow.
If there are issues and fears don't be afraid to open them up to her and share.
Don't approach issues in an attacking way, but as a heres what i am feeling and my concerns and I was wondering what your take on it is.
Don't over think things.
Never go to bed angry or hold it all in...only builds rocks of resentment which get too heavy for some to bare over time and hence cheating and divorces.
Those are a few off the top on my head.... I listened to Dr. Blue too much...just didn't listen to him in time to realize, process and put into practice.
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| 4/23/2009 8:43:59 PM |
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flipzy
Atlanta, GA
age: 29
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You know what I find funny ? The OP babbles On and On about some chick that makes him "jizz in his pants by looking at him".
No one in this thread knows what his exact question is. One thing is for certain, this kid needs some serious TESTOSTERONE !!
[Edited 4/23/2009 8:44:38 PM PST]
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| 4/24/2009 8:42:48 AM |
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hippychick29
Baconton, GA
age: 43
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I have two major questions first : Are you truly single and do you smoke crack?
Sounds kinda harsh, but sorry. And as far as the house and job thing, I ususally know that ahead of time.
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| 4/24/2009 1:58:51 PM |
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styx62ga1
Douglasville, GA
age: 46
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Do you brush your teeth and douche regularly?
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| 4/25/2009 11:26:16 AM |
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kazper23
Summerville, GA
age: 23
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Do you brush your teeth and douche regularly?
hey gotta give ya that one,
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| 4/26/2009 4:53:28 PM |
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happy2lucky
Lawrenceville, GA
age: 52
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ask for the social to run a background check...never presume anything
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