cohiba24
Seattle, WA
age: 23
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When I'm out with friends I get approached by women all the time basically introducing theirselves, giving everyway way to get in as they can, and I never can get the nerve to ask them out, I was flipping through my phone tonight and I have litterally over 20 numbers of girls I never called after getting their number, now it's kinda useless, I was thinking back and every date I've been on since high school was the girl asking me out not me asking out them.
Whats the simple way to ask a girl out without sounding like a douche bag?
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pwin_here_n_now
Annapolis, MD
age: 38
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Cohiba:
Can't tell exactly what is going from what you have written besides the fact women are calling you, after you have given your phone number & you are not calling back. And you are realizing you are not asking women on dates.
I guess the easiest way to ask a woman out... If you are having an actual conversation, is to be honest - state that you are enjoying conversing with her and ask her if she would like to continue the discussion over dinner sometime. Then Ask Her For Her Phone Number!
Hope that helps.
P.Win
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cohiba24
Seattle, WA
age: 23
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They're not calling me, they are giving me their number and I program it in and it never gets used
[Edited 11/23/2007 12:22:54 AM]
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pwin_here_n_now
Annapolis, MD
age: 38
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Sounds like you need to be a little more selective? Only ask for a number if you really truly intend to call. Then Call! --- If you aren't calling, how can you complain?
JMO
P.Win
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leila123
Liberty Hill, TX
age: 59 online now!
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Cohiba--
Stop and think about why you have those phone numbers. If a girl volunteers her number, she wants you to call her. She is probably hoping you'll ask her out on a date. You won't sound bad to her if you call her and ask her out -- quite the opposite.
Could it be that you don't call because you like to be the one to ask for a phone number instead of it being handed to you with no effort on your part? If that is the case, then start doing the asking but only ask for phone numbers from girls who really catch your interest.
As far as taking the step to call and ask for a date.... well, only you are in control of that. Step up to the plate and show girls that you have confidence -- even if you have to fake it at first!
Good luck,
Leila
P.S.--- How you ask for a date? Pretty simple--- "(Girl's name here) I've had fun talking to you and I'd like to see you again. Would you like to go out with me? Then wait for her answer. If she responds with a "Yes," then make plans to call her and set up the date to give yourself time to decide where you want to take your date. If you already know where you would want to take her, then ask her right then.
Wrong way to ask for a date--- "Hey, you wanna do something, sometime?" This is too vague and doesn't sound like you're very enthusiastic about taking her out.
[Edited 11/23/2007 4:17:49 AM]
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biffunderwood
Spokane, WA
age: 31
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That or you might be affraid that in reality it's a fake number and couldn;t handle that kind of rejection, taht would send you spiralling into a life of great depressiona nd suicidal thoughts, turn your life to a herion addiction and start living memorys of Nirvana lyrics, thena gain what do I know I was an accounting major, not a shrink
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leila123
Liberty Hill, TX
age: 59 online now!
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Biff--- you're pretty funny! 
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