Actually, if you relax as much as you can, try not to tense up? It will slow it down and you will have a mind blowing orgasm.... If you are making a man cum? Just before he is about to, squeeze him as hard as you can to restrict the blood flow and do this several times...when he does cum, it will blow him right through the ceiling....

So that means you only do missionary?

Change positions.....the time it takes to change a position can help lower the build up.....relaxing your body can work.....changing your thoughts can help.....(sex is majority mental).....change of rhythm.....pausing what u are doing for a few seconds.....

And if you can hold off on the initial orgasm, relax, maybe take a break and go down on her or finger her, etc....thus releasing and building the tension you will have a more intense orgasm.....

Also, extensive foreplay will add to the intensity.....Talking about things like a little touchy feel in the morning, afternoon, throughout the evening, over many hours essentially.....Even some self manipulation if your partner is at work or not readily available, just refrain from ejaculation, of course.....Hell, even try that for a day or two, then talk about cumming like a wild cat......shit!

i have to jump when the edge is near. it takes so long as it is just to get me there, if i dont do it then i wont do it at all. some of u ppl are so lucky to expeirience multiples, if i could find a man to give me that, id let him pop my cherry butt!

I though all women are multiorgasmic, holding back would only confuses and frustrate me. I do it this way; let her have the first two or three to make sure I am hitting the right spot. Then I bring her right to the brink several times and stop. This seem to cause a build up, then when I start again I keep going that results in one of those orgasms where she’s screaming into the pillow and pulling the blankets off the bed.