11/24/2007 10:23:38 AM |
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timesdistance
Springfield, MA
age: 29
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WHEN IT COMES TO DATING WHERE DO WE HAS SINGLES DRAW THE LINE BETWEEN BEING FRIENDS AND FALLING IN LOVE ROMANTICALY? FOR THOSE WHO HAVE SOME INPUT ON THIS PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!!! 
[Edited 11/24/2007 10:30:39 AM]
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11/24/2007 3:32:56 PM |
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kilowatt047
Oklahoma City, OK
age: 31
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let her make the first move.
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11/24/2007 6:32:10 PM |
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lattml
Hazleton, PA
age: 41
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I don't agree. You can allow things to remain as "friends" giving her the impression you're not interested and allow her to find someone else. I'd make the first move. And don't wait too long.
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11/24/2007 6:47:48 PM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 36 online now!
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if you really figure it out let me know.i prefer to get to know someone...as friends...and one gets the wrong impression,or there isnt a mutual feeling.act too soon.......who knows what u get yourself into.
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11/24/2007 7:13:58 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46 online now!
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Once you've gotten pass that one point then sometimes it's hard to go back if things don't go as well. Hard to be an X lover and a friend. If it didn't work out and she/he just wanted to go back to being just friends, can you take it watching them date others???
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11/24/2007 7:16:51 PM |
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britbrit
Gloucester, MA
age: 22 online now!
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oh yeah I have trouble with this....so I cant tell you but hopefully other people will know and help me out as well
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11/24/2007 7:25:36 PM |
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mr_passion_2009
Texarkana, TX
age: 45
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well in some cases once you be come friend it is so great that if you try to become lover you mess thing up i believe if i get to into friendship no matter how much i want that person she will never know me and my ex was friend befor lover and it tuen out bad
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11/24/2007 7:30:08 PM |
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mag11
New Port Richey, FL
age: 38 online now!
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I think its all about the feelings.Its alot easier if you go with what your heart tells ya. If your not blind to tthe whole situation it should work out for the best,either way!Mike
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11/24/2007 7:55:22 PM |
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sandbagger2u
Cochecton, NY
age: 61
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Falling in love is like off a balcony. You'd be better off taking the stairs and you still wind up in the same place. Don't be so quick to give your heart away. Get a security deposit.
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11/24/2007 7:57:05 PM |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 44
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Once you've started dating a friend the friendship is pretty much done by the time you get to second base. You start to merge into the relationship zone. I think you should let her decide when you as a couple fall in love. Its usually the girl that will say it first anyways. Just play it cool until then. Don't rush things. If it's meant to be, it will be.
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11/24/2007 11:27:40 PM |
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pallyboy
Ramona, CA
age: 47
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Sometimes it's one or the other. I mean, you can be friends and lovers, or you can be just friends. Sometimes being just a friend is enough and all you need from the other person. But if you want there to be more I think it's important to let the other person know where you would like the relationship to go. That way they can tell you or give you some indication one way or the other if there is a chance.
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