| 11/24/2007 1:49:13 PM |
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mr_passion_2009
Texarkana, TX
age: 45
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how do you get over being afraid of dateing are falling in love after being hurt so many time ?
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| 11/24/2007 1:51:56 PM |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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you gotta think about why you have been hurt so much and work on that. Maybe its you and not all the other people.
Maybe you are desperate to have someone in your life...that would cause all sorts of problems.
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| 11/24/2007 1:58:28 PM |
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lifetimeskier
Olympia, WA
age: 46
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I recently went on a date with a guy that is terribly afraid of developing feelings. He will not kiss and I love to kiss. Tough one for me. Yet he posts so obviously he is trying for something. I myself do not see myself falling head over heels either, but i do not fear it, if it happens it is cool. Friends first and he has to ski.
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| 11/24/2007 2:08:08 PM |
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cangel
Purvis, MS
age: 44
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You let yourself heal first and then you learn from it. Sometimes we let the in love feeling stop us from seeing the things that we need to see in the other person. I have learned that there are things I need and I have to keep that in mind when I meet someone new. Make a list and work on it...and ask yourself what you could have done different...its a thinking thing. ...lol Don't give up!!
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| 11/24/2007 2:12:55 PM |
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trinagirl
Riverdale, NJ
age: 47
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sometimes just do it anyway. even if afraid of being hurt. take it light, dont get serious early on and focus on just having a fun time with good comapny and not thinking about where it goes. she may be just as nervous as you but not showing it.
there are no guarantees in dating or relationships that it works out to always a happy ending. we all went thru break ups.
the only way to play it safe and not get hurt is to become a hermit and never try to meet someone. but that can get kinda lonely after a while. 
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| 11/24/2007 2:23:50 PM |
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angelleyess
Middleboro, MA
age: 34
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dammmmm well when u find the answer to that please let me know!!!!!!!!!!
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| 11/24/2007 2:43:57 PM |
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newlife4me2
Saylorsburg, PA
age: 42
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I have no answers for you. I know what I want and what I dream. I also know that sometimes you just have to leap. For me, I won't be leaping anywhere if I don't have a general sense that the things I need and want are already there..........jmo.
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| 11/24/2007 3:09:19 PM |
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elfmm
Post Falls, ID
age: 51
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You don't.. but life has taught us all that if we don't move forward... we don't live. We learn more about ourselves with each and every new person.. cause without them in our lives.. we wouldn't be who we are now. Each and every one molds us in some way..
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| 11/24/2007 3:16:38 PM |
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iron_ranger
Owatonna, MN
age: 40
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if finding the right person was so easy - everyone would be married and there would be no dhu... i can look at relationships that havent worked in two ways - learn and grow or die and not live life to the fullest.
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| 11/24/2007 3:17:39 PM |
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emt854
Appleton, WI
age: 53
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Well put Iron..Missed ya guy..
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| 11/24/2007 3:22:06 PM |
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iron_ranger
Owatonna, MN
age: 40
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hey emt - is that your middle name???? lol
ive been really busy... hunting season ya know and havent been writing much in the forums or reading them for that matter.
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| 11/24/2007 4:29:54 PM |
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sandbagger2u
Cochecton, NY
age: 61
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Best way to get over fear is to face your fear. Desensitize yourself. Maybe stop wanting what you want and be thankful for what you have. Have a few beers make a date or 2 and see what happens. Remember the only thing we have to fear is high colesteral, recession, higher gas prices and the Bush Administration. Relax, be happy. Don't let the bitter people bother you.
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| 11/24/2007 5:13:43 PM |
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lasttime4me
Townsend, MT
age: 60
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Get back on that horse and ride again partner, LIFE IS SHORT
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| 11/24/2007 7:08:37 PM |
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mr_passion_2009
Texarkana, TX
age: 45
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thank you all for thoses kind words
but once you fall in love and you give it your all it change thing
she had no reason to cheat on me i walk in on her and my so call best friend doing it and at first i was piss off but i should of known when she first told me i was a loser but now i do have one great thing iam a successful business own and the last time i was her she had 5 kids and haveing a hard time paying bill so i guess i did get sonething out of it
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