11/24/2007 4:12:57 PM |
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brwnsugar59
Albuquerque, NM
age: 48
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People say that in any relationship, one member of a couple will have stronger feelings than the other. If this is true, which would you rather be?
The person with the stronger feelings toward your spouse or do you prefer that your lovers feeling be stronger for you than your feelings for them?
I guess I would want their feelings to be stronger toward me. So I could better gauge how strong their feelings toward me are, knowing my own feelings for them. JMO 
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11/24/2007 4:18:19 PM |
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truegrace
Hagerstown, MD
age: 51
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I would want his to be stronger but yet I know I have extremely strong feelings for the man I care for and he knows it also
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11/24/2007 4:19:33 PM |
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pwin_here_n_now
Annapolis, MD
age: 38 online now!
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Brownsugar: that is a tough question... To be honest for it to be heavier for one person or the other just sets the stage for disappointment and frustration, and likely failure of the relationship.
I have to say option c- a equal, as possible & it won't always be - shows you are both putting effort into the relationship.
JMO
P.Win
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11/24/2007 4:24:56 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46 online now!
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I'd rather have the lesser feeling than the one I am with. Done the other 
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11/24/2007 4:27:05 PM |
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v2_1
McHenry, IL
age: 44
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Doesn't it seem to change back and forth the longer you're in a relationship? There were times in my marriage when I was the one who cared more, and at other times it was him. Nothing really stays the same. (Thank God! lol!)
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11/24/2007 4:28:01 PM |
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captaindan64
Kennesaw, GA
age: 43
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I am with chopper on that one,,, well,, not with her,,,I mean,,, well,, you know what I mean,,, after my first divorce and the gunplay that ensued ,, I promised myself never to give 100 percent ever again,,, gotta save a little of yourself for yourself,,, yeah,, thats it !! DZ
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11/24/2007 4:33:37 PM |
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debaryjeff
Debary, FL
age: 48
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The person that loves the least is always in control of the relationship......
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11/24/2007 4:34:58 PM |
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brwnsugar59
Albuquerque, NM
age: 48
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Yes it is true that our feelings for each other will rise and fall as we travel through life together. But for the most part I feel better knowing her feelings for me were always as strong or stronger than my feeling for her.
The "ideal" is a total equality( ), but that is very rare.
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11/24/2007 5:18:42 PM |
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telula
Orangeburg, NY
age: 40
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I would want his to be stronger, but not in a psychotic kinda way 
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11/24/2007 5:32:50 PM |
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azurenee
Carmichael, CA
age: 47 online now!
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hm, when I love the least I am not so nice so it's better if I love the most. Even so, I am still in control of my part in a relationship.
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