11/26/2007 4:30:54 PM |
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blessedbe101
North Tonawanda, NY
age: 22
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Let me rephrase this with not so many questions:
I met this one guy a pretty long time ago, and we went out for coffee...now mind u I do have a life, but he lives like maybe a half hour to forty minutes away in niagara falls which is pretty far for me, and he doesn't have a car... and I have a pretty busy life but I try to keep in contact with everyone at least once or twice a week.
why is it that you open up conversation to them and are willing to meet them for a quick coffee date or movie or dinner or something, and they tend to say all these comments to you about how you look nice and if you want to chat, give me a call?!! It seems like every single person I meet is looking for a "good time" but I'm not that kind of gal, not on a first date or anything like that! I mean how many of you guys would have a "good time" with somebody on the first date?
I think you know what i mean by a "good time."
Are there any decent people out there that don't want a "good time" on a first date? I'd like to start dating again, well, I shouldn't say again, because I've never been in an actual relationship, but my real question that i have for you guys, maybe you can help me with, is: are men really turned off by girls who don't have that much of dating experience? 
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11/26/2007 5:31:14 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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Check out the forum that you had this posted.
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11/26/2007 5:43:42 PM |
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blessedbe101
North Tonawanda, NY
age: 22
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yeah i know i accidently put it in the wrong forum
im actually flagging MYSELF lol
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11/26/2007 5:52:36 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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Okay ... it's all cool. 
If you put it in the wrong forum, Dustin would of moved it eventually in the correct forum. Sooooo I don't know where he'll put the other one 
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11/26/2007 6:01:53 PM |
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lawrence084
Honolulu, HI
age: 40 online now!
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It is your photo. You have one photo and it is giving the wrong impression.
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11/26/2007 6:04:38 PM |
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jazzygirlok
Tulsa, OK
age: 44
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Sweetie, you are still so young and so much to learn...take your time..and do not let anyone rush into something your not ready for...there are great guys out there just waiting for someone like you...
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11/26/2007 6:38:37 PM |
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bella2020
Lebanon, OH
age: 47
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Tell them what you just said on here up front so they wont waste your time and you theres.Stick to what you think is right and when you feel its time go for it take your time less hurt and no mix up if your truthful on how you feel up front Good Luck
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11/27/2007 4:41:34 AM |
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nicrkitty36
Lake Worth, FL
age: 37
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i have met many people looking for love.....sometimes the chemisrty just isnt right.....and i have met a few perverts....YAY!!!! for perverts......LOL
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11/27/2007 4:45:09 AM |
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youngdanecook
Dodge City, KS
age: 24
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lol..
ive met a few offline
some I had a great time, and a few have turned out to be crazies
the future only holds more exciting experiences
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11/27/2007 4:50:22 AM |
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thegreek00
Smithfield, NC
age: 19
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not all guys can be like me lol
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11/27/2007 9:47:29 AM |
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blessedbe101
North Tonawanda, NY
age: 22
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n just what kind of guy are you lol j/k
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11/27/2007 9:49:35 AM |
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blessedbe101
North Tonawanda, NY
age: 22
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yeah i know im still young, but I still feel so OLD lol. been through a lot of crap, but just trying to meet new positive people! thanks for the advice, and yeah dunno why, but i was having problems with my computer last night, so i ended up adding like 5 different posts because the other ones didnt come up and then when i logged on they were all over the place!!!!!
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11/27/2007 9:40:31 PM |
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epiphanomaly
Dover, DE
age: 57
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If I may make an observation? You mentioned this guy doesn't have a car.
Many people mistake signs of a person's character.
I'm not saying the guy couldn't be legally blind so he can't drive, or that he has had a financial disaster which precludes owning a car, buying insurance etc, with maybe a divorce that went haywire, or a serious amount of medical bills.
I'm talking about people who had their license suspended or revolked. Or those who have a bad enough habit of something like gambling, drinking, drugs etc. to keep them broke.
Then, there are those who seem destined to perpetually live paycheck to paycheck.
I think you'd do yourself better to worry more about your life and your future with some of these guys, than placing your entire concern on the contact of genitalia.
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11/27/2007 9:43:33 PM |
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slinky1971
Kingston, GA
age: 36
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you are a wiccan, arent you all that type of girl?
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11/27/2007 10:40:51 PM |
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sweetcj83
Laramie, WY
age: 24
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hmmmmmmmmm?
Well I would have to say welcome to the single life doll.  
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