| 11/26/2007 7:34:06 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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kazyka
Hudson, NH
age: 40
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I see a big whole in the chair he was sitting in. Police all around him. I am walking by the police, but its like I am invisible, no one can see me. Blood is everywhere. It looks like I killed him, and then myself. What does that mean?
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| 11/26/2007 7:42:48 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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goldarnit
Saint Paul, MN
age: 50
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no offense,but get some therapy..soon.
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| 11/26/2007 8:01:53 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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chrisk1974
Bowling Green, OH
age: 36
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please seek help. these dreams arent gonna go away on there own.
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| 11/26/2007 8:08:57 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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chopperbabe
Overland Park, KS
age: 49
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Means you have a lot of anger inside and you want revenge. Best revenge is to let him live a miserable life. I was angry inside besides hurt but I did heal and in time you will as well. You are allowing him to control you with your anger. Don't let him win ... it will only destroy you and everything you love in life. If you have kids, think of them. They need you more.
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| 11/26/2007 8:17:12 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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fab4bird
North Augusta, SC
age: 53
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kazyka, just because your dreams are crazy, doesn't mean you are!
It could be your dreams are playing-out what you were unable to consider in real life.
Dreams are a coping mechanism, like a way of dealing with your stress in a fantasy world.
If they are in fact nightmares, which make you wake up screaming or in a cold sweat, then you might want to consider a professional opinion.
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| 11/26/2007 8:21:03 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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kazyka
Hudson, NH
age: 40
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I thought the dreams would go away on their own. I thought when time went on and I started to heal and find happiness within then hopefully they won't be there. I have only had about 9 to 10 hours sleep in the pass 3 days. So, the dreams have been more often than before. I also thought everytime someone dies in a dream you just extended their life. I am trying not to panic about the dreams, because I usally do. I am looking at it this way, in the eyes of a child, what would I say to my child if she was having bad dreams, because her father moved in with the girlfriend. Say She was having a dream that her father was no longer here. He dies and goes to heaven. I would think it was feeling of abandement. I would probably tell my daughter something like this will pass and we will get though this. I am here for you every step of the way. It is kind of the same thing but less violent. In my dream, I am express hurt, anger, loss and abandement issues. Thanks for letting me talk it out with myself. I appreciate it. That really helped.
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| 11/26/2007 9:09:19 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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neverlie
Saint Joe, AR
age: 54
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Dream interpretation can be symbolic, if you or someone you'll contact knows those symbols, in my opinion, like for instance: if you happened to be a non-resistor and you were using a weapon like a sword or a knife, the indication there is that you will be waging spiritual warfare, not carnal, because it would be nonsense to interpret it in the physical for a non-resistor. It is written, "He who hates his brother is a murderer", as though you can become guilty of it without performing murder.
Hope this helped.
Don't listen to "professionals" about dreams, i think would be a good course.
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| 11/26/2007 9:24:18 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 42
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If you just want good people to talk to....you came to the right place.
You may consider trying to find a different topic to get to know people and have them like you for the person that you truly are.
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| 11/26/2007 10:50:43 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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ylekiot
Stateline, NV
age: 54 online now!
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It means that you were asleep! Don't over analyze it and let it rent space in your head.
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| 11/27/2007 10:23:13 AM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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kazyka
Hudson, NH
age: 40
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ylekiot: like what you had to say - moving on and thats it - thanks
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| 11/27/2007 2:56:43 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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mr_passion_2009
Texarkana, TX
age: 48
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KAZYKA
i use to have dream close to that and to be honest with u most dream come from thing that had already happen and other thing u see on TV and with thing u might be thinking
in dream is a mixer of alot of thing hate arger and even worng doing but i do know without a doubt that u are not crazy not in a long shot like built a block in everyone mine that from time to time has to let go deep in your mind u still care for him but at the same time you hate him the only way to stop those dream is to let him go and move on find some that make you happy and soon your forget him and make new dreams
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| 11/27/2007 3:13:28 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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lunawoman01
Whittier, CA
age: 49
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You really need someone to console you at this time..breaking up is like death. I know what both feel like.
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| 11/27/2007 3:34:02 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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mr_passion_2009
Texarkana, TX
age: 48
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come on lol woman01 i've had dream like that to you think i need help too lol
no wait don't answer that lol
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| 11/27/2007 3:38:57 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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bamabob
Crane Hill, AL
age: 58
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KAZYKA... it is definitely like dealing with death of a spouse, sometimes only worse. You need closure. My first ex-wife haunted me for 12 years. When I was told that she had a child by her new husband everything just seemed to lift from me and I no longer had the pain and wanting and longing for her any more. It was the most wonderful thing to be able to let go! I've had comparable dreams before too and not over analyzing is very good advice. Sounds to me like it only is symbolic that you want revenge and him out of your life. Do not take it in any way whatsoever that it is a map of a course of action you should take...it's a DREAM and not REALITY! Finding what will release you from this spiritual connection will not be easy. But take comfort in the fact that it is coming and will take time, maybe a long time, but it will come.
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| 11/27/2007 9:05:28 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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nicrkitty36
Lake Worth, FL
age: 40
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still feeling angry...from the past.....wanting to hurt him as much as he hurt you......the fact that no one else notices you in the dream...means....it wasnt your fault.....and to move past it
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| 11/27/2007 9:09:00 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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redhead36
Seagoville, TX
age: 40
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O.J. had dreams of doing what he did(supposedly). I have dreams of beating the shit out of my husband for leaving me and his little girl.. I have had dreams of a lot of things, but as long as you don't act on it.. I think you are only human.. Actually, when someone abandones us we feel far worse and it triggers old wounds that are reopened.. Pray before going to sleep at night that God gives you sweet dreams of a new life..
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| 11/28/2007 6:54:03 AM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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lasttime4me
Townsend, MT
age: 66
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I used to dream of wanting to hurt my ex untill I figured out the only one i was hurting was me. Let go and let God. IT WORKED FOR ME!!
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| 11/28/2007 5:46:11 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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kazyka
Hudson, NH
age: 40
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readhead: and lasttime: great advice thanks. I will do just that, put my hand in Gods hands. Thanks Kaz
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| 11/30/2007 5:58:49 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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bellinghamster
Bellingham, WA
age: 29
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I usually have dreams that transform all my anger that comes from abusive people into anger towards abusive corperations. there was a short time period where buildings would blow up and stuff. I dont think anyone really noticed that I was upset or angry. so it doesnt mean that a person is mental- as long as it goes away when your not angry about something.
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| 11/30/2007 6:40:52 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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_blacky8bravo_
Irvine, CA
age: 23
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 Sounds like even though you two are devorced that you still have a very strong bond with him. So on the subconcious level you feel as though something is missing. Seems like you cant Live Without him.
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| 11/30/2007 7:32:07 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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mom1st
York, SC
age: 33
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I don't really know much about dream interpretation, but to me it seems as if you hold hostility toward him, for leaving or whatever, (killing him), and some type of guilt also, (killing yourself). I think that it maybe a sign that it is time to let it all out, deal with the issues, and leave it in the past. You can't change it, but you do have control over how you react to it. You have to learn to forgive him, not for him, but for yourself. And to forgive yourself, so you can start anew. Wish you the best.
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| 11/30/2007 8:19:53 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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big_joel
Dundee, MS
age: 58
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have you ever had a dream of becoming rich
or driving in a car race
or being in the wizard of oz movie
its only a dream as much as you read into it
it will always be a dream
go on
have more dreams
heck its only a state of sleep
try drinking warm milk before bedtime
or a double shot of tequila
see if that changes it
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| 11/30/2007 8:39:18 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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kazyka
Hudson, NH
age: 40
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bigjoel a shot of Tequila sounds nice. I wouldn't dream or feel a thing for that matter, but I'll be in rehab if I continue on that road. It only takes me 2 beers and I'm feeling goooood! Mom1st I know I have to let go! The divorce was a blessing in diguise. I just questioned WHY? What did I do wrong? I don't want to be married to him at all. I am so much happier without him. I was so depressed in the marriage. He put us in such a financial whole. I am glad he asked for the divorce. I finally filed because he did nothing. Friends and family say they finally see the spark back in my eyes which they have not scene. I guess when someone doesn't want you, its hard to take. Especially, when he told me broke up with me it's because he did not want to be married anymore. I thought he wanted his single life back. He is now living with his girlfriend just 3 months after our divorce. Go figure!
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| 11/30/2007 8:49:01 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 59
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He's nothing but a creep Kazy. Move on, sweetie. With your looks, you should be able to write your own ticket. Be picky though. 
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| 11/30/2007 9:02:57 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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kazyka
Hudson, NH
age: 40
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Thanks classyguy I need that. Think I found someone on DH. Taking it slow.
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| 12/1/2007 8:09:47 AM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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nsew
Houston, TX
age: 39
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how often do you have that dream?
is it usually the same dream over and over again?
does that dream typically occur after a "bad" day or any communication with anyone about certain topics?
not trying to be nozy - please don't respond if that bothers you
it might be wise to get a therapeutic prescription
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| 12/1/2007 9:28:16 AM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 47
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I think you just need someone else to think and dream about. I believe once you start thinking about someone else your dreams will turn to better dreams...
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| 12/1/2007 9:36:44 AM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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nsew
Houston, TX
age: 39
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dutchboy - you might be right - something/someone to pick her head UP!
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| 12/1/2007 5:50:48 PM |
Having a dream about my ex husband over and over..... |
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kazyka
Hudson, NH
age: 40
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The dreams have died down sinse I've been talking and chatting to someone from DH. He has helped me fall asleep just talking to him on the other end. I have had different dreams. Won't give those out yet, (those are my secret ones for now). There happy ones.
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