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Forums: General Discussion: This Thing Called Happiness:
11/28/2007 5:22:20 AM This Thing Called Happiness:  

conk140
Johnstown, PA
age: 42

 Total and Complete Happiness. I dont mean happy after a few drinks or happy for a few minutes. I mean Total and Complete Happiness in every aspect of life, or for that matter any single aspect of life.

What is this phenom and does this total happiness really exist. Does anybody have it? Where can I get it? If you are truely,totally and completely happy, What brings you to this site?
Im looking forward to the conversation.
11/28/2007 5:31:14 AM This Thing Called Happiness:  

angelleyess
Middleboro, MA
age: 34 online now!

 this question comes up alot, i think that we have true happiness within ourselves and alot of us dont feel happy with ourselves so we try to seek it in someone else and we wonder why some relationships dont work? because if we are not truely happy with who we are then we try to fill that void with someone else and when that dont work anymore, we move to the next person, so on and so forth... so i thinkits very important to do a self check and feel whole before going into a relationship... sure its natural to long for touch and love but u just have to make sure that that is what ur really seeking or is it someone to make u happy "HAPPINESS CMES FROM NO ONE BUT YOURSELF DIG DEEP AND YOU WILL FIND IT" and when u do and u go into a relationship feeling happy "its magical" and dont ever fade...jmo



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11/28/2007 7:22:17 AM This Thing Called Happiness:  

conk140
Johnstown, PA
age: 42

 I do not believe it! It is very easy for someone to explain what happiness is or should be but how many people do you know actually live a happy life 24/7?
Happiness is just an illusion that escapes all of us; Nothing more than a mirage in the desert of life.
Society tells us we should be happy and everyone wants to be happy, including me. But everytime happiness is within reach , it seems to just slip away. Satisifaction and Content is attainable: Not being sad as well as not being angry is too. But,total happiness? Come on... Be true to your self and tell me like it really is not some trumped up verson of what society, commericalism and marketing want you to believe it is.
11/28/2007 7:25:24 AM This Thing Called Happiness:  

stormygrl
Longmont, CO
age: 41

 I totally agree with Angel, couldn't of said it better myself.
11/28/2007 7:32:59 AM This Thing Called Happiness:  

angelleyess
Middleboro, MA
age: 34 online now!

 all i can say is everyone is different hun and for me i know that true happiness through my own ups and downs in life is within myself jmo...its called soul searching, you gotta dig deep sometimes



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11/28/2007 7:46:46 AM This Thing Called Happiness:  

falcon77
Eugene, OR
age: 41

 Conk,

You can bring joy back to your life, but it takes a renewing of your mind to do so. It's all about choice really, in essence how you react to life and how you break the pre-existing states of negative conditioning you have. Use the following exercise to start dwelling on the positive in your life and you will begin to see things change in your demeanor and your visualization of yourself will start to change as well. Eventually, you can even start to live from "that" new picture in your mind. It's the version God has set inside of you. It's best to do these when you wakeup each morning and before you go to bed, but you can break them into little sections throughout the day. Meditate on these daily though.

1. Think of five things in your life that you are thankful for right now?
2. Think of five strengths or positive traits that you possess?
3. What are five of your best achievements so far in life?
4. Who five people that love you the most?
5. What five things am you are most looking forward to in the next seven days?

It forces the mind to focus on what is positive in your life instead of the inundation of negative thoughts that seems to be prevalent with people. Don't let negative thoughts of the past, present, or future rob you of the real beauty we call the present moment in life. Happiness is a not a destiny, it's an everyday, every hour, every minute, every second journey. You will become your thoughts so start training your mind...The choice is yours.



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11/28/2007 8:26:25 AM This Thing Called Happiness:  

conk140
Johnstown, PA
age: 42

 Maybe This is why I can not find happiness. I gave it alot of thought and came to the conclusion that I can not truthfully name 5 of anything on the list. But I will give it some more thought and see what I can do. The funny thing about this is, I have already been stereotyped as being negitive. That is about as far from the truth as can be. I am a very optimistic and fun loving person. I just havent been able to find True, Total, and Complete Happiness 24/7/365. I realize there are ups and downs in life and hurdles to overcome. But the way I see it, the bottom line is this: If a person has to be "reconditioned" to be happy, its not happiness at all. It nothing more than creative hypnosis.
As I said earlier. I am a fun person and very optimistic as well. But I love to argue a point and stir up a little controversy at times. I hope you all dont mind!
11/28/2007 9:35:44 AM This Thing Called Happiness:  

lilcowgirl4u
Wewoka, OK
age: 39

 falcon77 that is a great suggestion, something I will try myself. I'm just now getting over the pain of Divorce and being told that I can't be happy without the other half. Funny, but I'm happier now then I have been in years. Like a vale has been lifted from my eyes and there is a whole new world out there for me to explore. Happiness comes from within us, we just have to learn to break the bonds that hold us captive.

11/28/2007 9:37:21 AM This Thing Called Happiness:  

angelleyess
Middleboro, MA
age: 34 online now!

 hey np conk we dont mind, hey we all get that way at some point and time, NO ONE IS ALWAYS HAPPY!!!! we all go through valleys and over mountains but it is posible to be happy most of the time never 24/7 anyway welcome sweetie
11/28/2007 9:44:02 AM This Thing Called Happiness:  

nsew
Houston, TX
age: 36

 In my opinion - "Complete Happiness" begins with being thankful for every second that you have. Until one becomes truly thankful - one may be very easily distracted - shall we say. Where is the local Monk?
11/28/2007 9:49:31 AM This Thing Called Happiness:  

rocknrob31
Linn, MO
age: 32

 i think i learned somthing from angeleyes, i have to agree with what she said!
11/28/2007 12:46:18 PM This Thing Called Happiness:  

pickyguy
Ramona, CA
age: 49

 hey conk,i haven't thought of that word since i was a youngster,when my siblings and i would conk each other on the head w any available(non disfiguring) items at hand.....lol... some people equate happiness w getting what they want or feel they deserve.....i'm just happy getting what i need.....mho of true happiness is that it is a state of mind we can attain,but it is something that takes consistant effort,i equate happiness w innocencce...
my underlying demeanor is happiness but the "rigors" of the world about me always seem to want to drag me away from this state of innocence,so momentarily i will get sucked into the black hole of other peoples world view.....eventually i come back to my senses and reassert my "happy thoughts" ...remember Peter Pan had to find his Happy thought to fly again,lol,in the movie Hook.Good luck finding your Happy Thought !!!! lol
11/28/2007 1:12:30 PM This Thing Called Happiness:  

nopretense
Harleysville, PA
age: 47

 I think it is possible to get to a place where you can experience inner peace...contentment...24/7, but not happiness. Happiness, I think, is a response to "getting what we want." Inner peace, contentedness, is a positive response that comes when we accept what we get.

I don't think that means we won't try to change things...improve our lives....just that, from one hour to the next, we choose to be at peace with ourselves and our place in the world.
12/1/2007 12:37:42 PM This Thing Called Happiness:  

ssassyass
Racine, WI
age: 40

 HHHmmmm......Some very good questions...If you were happy, without struggles in life 24/7
365 days...How would you know you were happy...If you had nothing to compare it to? Some people just don't realize that they already have happiness...because they are to busy looking for it....In one aspect of my life...Friendship...I was truly happy to have a friend to confide in, to talk to, to be honest with, to look forward to seeing...but some friends just can't give 100% effort back or are NOT being true to themselves....I am Happy that I AM.....