| 11/29/2007 10:59:08 AM |
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uptoc
Castle Rock, CO
age: 47
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Is it true what the song says about older women making better lovers?
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| 11/29/2007 11:01:43 AM |
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stellablue
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49
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I can only speak for myself. Yes! Because I know myself better.
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| 11/29/2007 11:04:43 AM |
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slinky1971
Kingston, GA
age: 36
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in theory. though not always. especially the ones that were in long committed relationships or marriage and never learned much. also some just get lazy
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| 11/29/2007 11:05:02 AM |
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cats43injax
Jacksonville, FL
age: 43
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Yes! We know what we are doing by now. We know more things to do and know that taking our time building things up makes for a better experience than the young way of racking up the numbers.
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| 11/29/2007 11:05:35 AM |
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slinky1971
Kingston, GA
age: 36
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thats all assumptions isnt it cat?
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| 11/29/2007 11:08:29 AM |
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cats43injax
Jacksonville, FL
age: 43
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Slinky, I can only speak from my personal life. When I was young, it seemed as if how many times you did it was the thing. Same with the guys then. Now, I certainly know from the reactions I have had, that skills have been achieved through years of practice and the outcome is much better for both parties.
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| 11/29/2007 11:10:57 AM |
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slinky1971
Kingston, GA
age: 36
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well that may be true, though u did seem to be speaking for them all.
ill give you an example, the other night i was with a lovely lady of 46 yrs. she was really into sex, but even with all her willingness for depravity was still more of a pay back and let the guy do all the moves type. Some women are either very unlikely to be aggressive and some women are very unskilled because they never had the chance to learn much or are just slow learners. you can work in a cafeteria for 20 years and still not know how to prepare a steak.
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| 11/29/2007 11:14:27 AM |
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cats43injax
Jacksonville, FL
age: 43
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You are correct Slinky, in my first post, it did sound as if I was speaking for all older ladies. You are also correct that not all older women are better with age! This holds true for both sexes. Some guys rock when they are older, and some are just duds. Guess we have to be quite careful who we take to that level, huh?
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| 11/29/2007 11:15:59 AM |
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slinky1971
Kingston, GA
age: 36
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which is why u dont marry without sex first haha
on the counter note, i dont like the assumption that young men are all unskilled. by the time i was 22, i knew every trick out there. if there is any thing wrong with young lovers it is impatience.
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| 11/29/2007 11:21:51 AM |
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cats43injax
Jacksonville, FL
age: 43
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Granted, there are exceptions to every rule. When I was 22, I was married. I was speaking of before that age. Most young guys are impatient and some have no concept of pleasing thier partner, only pleasure for themself. But, like I said, there are exceptions. You must have been one of those in the exceptional class. Oh, and I agree with you on the marriage things, try before you buy!lol
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| 11/29/2007 11:24:07 AM |
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slinky1971
Kingston, GA
age: 36
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well you know when it comes to being good lovers, men fall into two categories. those that know how to read female reactions (squirming, moving, moaning etc)
and those that ask women what they like.
problem is, if females refuse to express themselves men can't learn.
a good looking guy with a 9 inch d*ck might have 100 lovers by the age of 30, but not learn one thing from the experience.
in this culture is it ON the MAN to be the skilled lover.
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| 11/29/2007 11:33:13 AM |
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cats43injax
Jacksonville, FL
age: 43
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You make good points, but I don't totally agree with it all being on the man. Skilled women can really have a huge impact on how well things go (and if they go again).
Now as for the guys in the so called "blessed" department, some do lose tract of the fact that size is not everything at all. Some of the "big" guys are skilled, some are of the mentality that all they need is size. Face it, we can't group anyone in the same group all the time. Not all men are equal, just as not all females are equal.
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| 11/29/2007 11:34:43 AM |
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slinky1971
Kingston, GA
age: 36
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ah cat but thats my point
men do get the onus put on them by society. many women dont realize they have to give to receive good sex.
read the topics about when a woman says she cant get off, the answer from many guys and even many women is "he didnt know what he was doing"
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| 11/29/2007 11:39:04 AM |
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cats43injax
Jacksonville, FL
age: 43
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You are right that society does make a great deal of assumptions (and we all know what leads that word). That is one reason why I don't conform to society in all facets of my life. If I did, I would be miserable. I believe in being the leader, not the follower of others views!
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| 11/29/2007 11:39:40 AM |
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slinky1971
Kingston, GA
age: 36
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well im glad u arent like that, but there is a while world of men getting a bad rap because of stereotypes.
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